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Hari Parameshwar
Thanks for your reviews Nishtha!
Yes, the next is a surrealistic work exposing the hidden layers of every man’s inner persona. A psychic fiction that swings from the lowermost level of a depressed mind to the upmost altitude of anxiety, is another experiment, deviating far from traditional novels. More later.
Yes, the next is a surrealistic work exposing the hidden layers of every man’s inner persona. A psychic fiction that swings from the lowermost level of a depressed mind to the upmost altitude of anxiety, is another experiment, deviating far from traditional novels. More later.
Hari Parameshwar
I believe, as a reader, that a book should give us in return more than the worth of time that we invest in reading it. In today’s busy world, time is the scarcest resource. If I’ve to spare 10 or 15 hours reading a book, for me, that time could be spent creatively in many other ways as well. So, if a book fails in giving me back the worth of my time, I would be a dissatisfied soul.
At the same time, it’s important to accept the fact that all books are not for everyone. Our like or dislike need not be an indication of the real worth of the book. Reader experience is a psychic process, depending many of our internal attributes. Occasionally it could be the outcome of our perceptions against our expectations. A book that is of our ‘five star’ liking could turn terrible for someone else. So, it's better to be selective, exploring a little bit about the book, checking the views of those who share our interest and liking, and maybe taking a quick flip through (in stores) or going through a sample chapter (online), before buying a book. Cost of a book can be too trivial compared to the cost of our 10-15 hours!
Regarding the second part of the question, about Chase of Choices, it’s true that the book unveils many universal laws of life, in the context of the story, which could turn insightful for the readers. But it’s certainly not a book that deals with the psychology of intuition. If you are looking for such a book, you must try my first book, Many Paths Many Answers. Chase of Choices has full of life, in its true sense, spoken truthfully, and thus, most of the readers like those nuggets at the end of the chapters which may facilitate as a keyhole to peep in to one’s own life, in a detached manner. Still, there are a few who feel those summations hinder the flow of story. Some readers said they ignored those nuggets while reading, as they were too engrossed in the story, and revisited them later, after finishing the book. That’s how the reader perspective varies. I am happy that it has so far lived up to the expectations of 90% of the readers, as what you see from the reviews.
At the same time, it’s important to accept the fact that all books are not for everyone. Our like or dislike need not be an indication of the real worth of the book. Reader experience is a psychic process, depending many of our internal attributes. Occasionally it could be the outcome of our perceptions against our expectations. A book that is of our ‘five star’ liking could turn terrible for someone else. So, it's better to be selective, exploring a little bit about the book, checking the views of those who share our interest and liking, and maybe taking a quick flip through (in stores) or going through a sample chapter (online), before buying a book. Cost of a book can be too trivial compared to the cost of our 10-15 hours!
Regarding the second part of the question, about Chase of Choices, it’s true that the book unveils many universal laws of life, in the context of the story, which could turn insightful for the readers. But it’s certainly not a book that deals with the psychology of intuition. If you are looking for such a book, you must try my first book, Many Paths Many Answers. Chase of Choices has full of life, in its true sense, spoken truthfully, and thus, most of the readers like those nuggets at the end of the chapters which may facilitate as a keyhole to peep in to one’s own life, in a detached manner. Still, there are a few who feel those summations hinder the flow of story. Some readers said they ignored those nuggets while reading, as they were too engrossed in the story, and revisited them later, after finishing the book. That’s how the reader perspective varies. I am happy that it has so far lived up to the expectations of 90% of the readers, as what you see from the reviews.
Lokesh
Recently I encountered an interesting person. I knew him but we sat together and had drinks, chats only a few days ago. He showed me a write-up about
Recently I encountered an interesting person. I knew him but we sat together and had drinks, chats only a few days ago. He showed me a write-up about sensory people and intuitive people. He thought of himself as the later one and mine as former one. What he said was that he can not indulge in social activities. That he thinks and talks intuitively, it is his nature (very true, realized after a few hours spent with him), he likes philosophical discussions very much, he quickly jumps into abstract of everything and that he told what intuitive people do (not true about the social activities part). I am a person who explores very much, is interested in almost everything and finds it difficult to get conversation started with somebody but once started, it goes on very smoothly.
When we were talking, we had long discussions about theories, reality, human behavior, my independence (thoroughly questioned by them), computation, how mathematics is a natural language and most easy to understand (never thought of mathematics in those terms before). I definitely enjoyed those conversations being an explorer and i thought well, this is something. Why didn't i think in these terms before. But I am starting to realize that more I let myself go in that, more I will be screwing my normal social life. I think if I had the same talks with a different person, I would not have been thinking that. May be It was the nature of that person that I am feeling this way.
How can I manage it? What should I do? I think, I am neither sensory type nor intuitive type then what am I? I am always having difficulty finding new topics for conversation, not like aur kya kya kiya kal (fed up of all these). What can I do? ...more
Jun 20, 2015 01:54AM · flag
When we were talking, we had long discussions about theories, reality, human behavior, my independence (thoroughly questioned by them), computation, how mathematics is a natural language and most easy to understand (never thought of mathematics in those terms before). I definitely enjoyed those conversations being an explorer and i thought well, this is something. Why didn't i think in these terms before. But I am starting to realize that more I let myself go in that, more I will be screwing my normal social life. I think if I had the same talks with a different person, I would not have been thinking that. May be It was the nature of that person that I am feeling this way.
How can I manage it? What should I do? I think, I am neither sensory type nor intuitive type then what am I? I am always having difficulty finding new topics for conversation, not like aur kya kya kiya kal (fed up of all these). What can I do? ...more
Jun 20, 2015 01:54AM · flag
Hari Parameshwar
I think your friend is right in his perspective. Though intuition is an inbuilt trait, it can be developed up to a great extent by training the mind,
I think your friend is right in his perspective. Though intuition is an inbuilt trait, it can be developed up to a great extent by training the mind, to be acutely focused. in my book, MPMA, I have narrated a real incident, how I traced and met my childhood friend after three decades through the act of intuition. And I am sure every human, including you, experience such inner calls, though most of the people ignore them. Those who are wired internally, sensitive to that feeble voice and follow them blindly, are branded intuitive. That doesn't mean others are not subjected to hunches. It's too complex a topic to discuss over this forum, but believe me, it's a reality. Probably you are not able to recognize your own inner calls, that's it.
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Jun 20, 2015 07:08AM · flag
Jun 20, 2015 07:08AM · flag
Hari Parameshwar
1. Read, read, read, read... ...read and write.
2. Read, read.... read what you have written.
3. Edit, review, edit, review, edit... until you feel it's written by someone, not you, thus able to detach you from your work.
4. Read, edit, review..., till you feel contented.
5. Ask a friend to read it!
6. Accept the feedback!
7. Go to step 4.
8. Ask someone else to read it.
9. Go to step 6.
10. Ask again someone, a stranger this time, to read it.
11. Go to step 9. (See the progress! You have moved from step 4 to step 9 now! Isn't it great?)
12.
13.
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67. Dare for a submission.
68. Accept the rejection.
69. Submit to another publisher.
70.
...
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103. Consider a major structural change as all your dream publishers have either rejected your work or unresponsive.
104. Search new publishers (consider literary agents and publishers abroad too...) and continue with your submissions.
105.
106.
....
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159. Someone accepts your manuscript!
This is not the end. The story begins here. Beginning of new concerns, new experiences, new pains and trauma...
And if you still keep writing, you are passionate about it.
1. Read, read, read, read... ...read and write.
2. Read, read.... read what you have written.
3. Edit, review, edit, review, edit... until you feel it's written by someone, not you, thus able to detach you from your work.
4. Read, edit, review..., till you feel contented.
5. Ask a friend to read it!
6. Accept the feedback!
7. Go to step 4.
8. Ask someone else to read it.
9. Go to step 6.
10. Ask again someone, a stranger this time, to read it.
11. Go to step 9. (See the progress! You have moved from step 4 to step 9 now! Isn't it great?)
12.
13.
...
...
67. Dare for a submission.
68. Accept the rejection.
69. Submit to another publisher.
70.
...
...
103. Consider a major structural change as all your dream publishers have either rejected your work or unresponsive.
104. Search new publishers (consider literary agents and publishers abroad too...) and continue with your submissions.
105.
106.
....
....
....
159. Someone accepts your manuscript!
This is not the end. The story begins here. Beginning of new concerns, new experiences, new pains and trauma...
And if you still keep writing, you are passionate about it.
Hari Parameshwar
You can test your ability to endure (if you don't enjoy) the extremes edges of anxiety and depression!
Hari Parameshwar
I am yet to experience it!
I am yet to experience it!
Hari Parameshwar
A Mystical Fiction, unveiled the hidden truths about ethical management of business and the need to balance three inherent human qualities to strike a deal with life's conspiracies.
A Mystical Fiction, unveiled the hidden truths about ethical management of business and the need to balance three inherent human qualities to strike a deal with life's conspiracies.
Hari Parameshwar
Compelled, in my continuing strive to keep my mental basket a bit empty.
Compelled, in my continuing strive to keep my mental basket a bit empty.
Hari Parameshwar
Real life experience.
Real life experience.
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