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Hi Gregg. I couldn't find your email address at the end of your book so I'm writing here. I bought "Get your Ex back fast!" and I need some information please. I would love to write to you privately if possible. To start, after #2 The Letter........you say #3 is to regroup. How long do you suggest? This is a difficult time because of the virus. I need to explain more, though... Thank you.
Gregg Michaelsen Hi Zoe,
Gregg@WhoHoldsTheCardsNow.com
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Hi Gregg, so I just bought your audible book, actually two of your books. To Date a Man, You Must Understand Yourself and To Date a Man, You Must Understand a Man. I've listened to Understanding Yourself and currently listening to Understanding a Man. Chapter 5 hit me really had because I felt like I'm the Rest Stop Girl. Even though I have so much going for myself, I also attract the bad guys. What am I doing wrong?
Gregg Michaelsen Thanks for your question Mariatu and thank you for reading my books!!
It's not that you doing things wrong - it's that you (and pretty much all women) don't understand men. You give, give, give and get nothing back because you believe we act/love/respond like you guys do and we don't! You make us your hobby when what we really want is your independence. Hurt again, women then choose another bad guy who can't love etc. Change this pattern! READ! You are well on your way. Now you are choosing the RIGHT men and are not being chosen by the wrong ones. Now you know how to screen out the losers and when you find a good one - you know how to keep the challenge and mystery alive!
Hope this helps :)
Gregg
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Hello Gregg, I just want to say thank you so much for your books. I recently listened to the audio version of To Date a Man You Must Understand a Man. I could not understand the website you referred to for the free book To Date a Man You Must understand yourself. What's the website?
Gregg Michaelsen Hi Amanada,
Thanks for reading my books! Give me your email address and I will send you the book for free. Or email me at Gregg@WhoHoldsTheCardsNow.com and enter code IROCK...either way my friend :)
Gregg
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How do you deal with writer’s block?
Gregg Michaelsen Walk away. I write when my mind has ideas and that is usually when I'm driving on the highway! Get a recorder and take notes, then you can start writing again.
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What’s your advice for aspiring writers?
Gregg Michaelsen Stop being a perfectionist! Every person I talk to seems to be "writing a book." The beauty of eBooks is that you can change them later. Write your book and give yourself a deadline of, say, 3 months. Then publish it!
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How do you get inspired to write?
Gregg Michaelsen My readers contact me directly. I give them my private email at the end of my books and encourage them to discuss any issues they might be having in their dating lives. I am a life and dating coach. Their questions inspire me to write my next book.
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What’s the best thing about being a writer?
Gregg Michaelsen I'm a dating coach so I get to help people! There is nothing better when I can help a girl, for instance, break out of a funk and power herself up with confidence. I answer 50 emails a day from my readers through my books and I love it.
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What are you currently working on?
Gregg Michaelsen I would like to say another book, but I am actually trying to teach myself how to promote my books via social media. I'm a very simple man with a simple brain and I need help :)
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Where did you get the idea for your most recent book?
Gregg Michaelsen My latest book is called, "To Date a Man, You Must Understand a Man." I call this the jewel of all my books and is an Amazon #1 Best Seller. Many of my women readers keep contacting me for day to day advice on how to handle their relationships. My advice, they found, was working but they were not understanding why. As much as I love talking directly to my readers, I realized I couldn't keep up with the 50 emails a day. My lady readers needed to understand the way the male mind thinks so they could handle their own situation going forward. This book solves this problem in spades! Give a woman a man, satisfy her for a day, teach her how to attract men, satisfy her for a lifetime. Or something like that.

Anyway, I still love to talk to my readers. Now I talk to only 40 per day asking me to write more books :)
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