Rollo Tomassi > Quotes

“Women would rather share a high value Man than be saddled with a faithful loser.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“Anxiety, trauma and crisis are necessary catalysts to stimulate self-consciousness.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“So entrapped are we in our self-expectation and self-imposed limitations that we fail to see that we have always had the keys to our own prisons - we're just scared shitless to use them.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“The definition of Power is not financial success, status or influence over others, but the degree to which we have control over our own lives.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“Women will cry a river about wanting Mr. Dependable and then go off to fuck Mr. Exciting.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“Women want to be with Men who other women want to fuck, and other men want to be.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“Nothing is as simultaneously fear inspiring and arousing for women as a Man she suspects is self-aware of his own value.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“A man with options has power, and from these options and this sense of power, a natural sense of confidence will manifest itself. A man without options becomes necessitous and this leads to a lack of confidence and a scarcity mentality. Necessitous men are never free. As”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“Stimulating a woman’s imaginings is the single most potent talent you can develop in any context of a relationship.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“In any relationship, the person with the most power is the one who needs the other the least.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“Women are fundamentally incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved by a woman.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“Frame is everything. Always be aware of the subconscious balance of who's frame in which you are operating. Always control the Frame, but resist giving the impression that you are.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“Is the woman who applies make up everyday ‘being herself”?”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“The only way to determine genuine motivation and/or intent is to observe the behavior of an individual.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“The truth will set you free, but it doesn’t make truth hurt any less, nor does it make truth any prettier, and it certainly doesn’t absolve you of the responsibilities that truth requires. One of the biggest obstacles guys face in unplugging is accepting the hard truths that Game forces upon them. Among these is bearing the burden of realizing what you’ve been conditioned to believe for so long were comfortable ideals and loving expectations are really liabilities. Call them lies if you want, but there’s a certain hopeless nihilism that accompanies categorizing what really amounts to a system that you are now cut away from. It is not that you’re hopeless, it’s that you lack the insight at this point to see that you can create hope in a new system – one in which you have more direct control over.”
― Rollo Tomassi

“Women, being the calculating gender, know all too well to hit the gym months prior to a break up – she’s not getting in shape for you, she’s getting ready to hit the ground running with the next guy she’ll be fucking.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“Experience teaches harsh, but it teaches best and the breadth of experience serves a man well.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“A truly powerful Man jealously guards his most precious resources; his independence and his ability to maneuver. In other words his options and his ability to exercise them.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing relations with new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“Women crave the chemical rush that comes from suspicion and indignation. If you don’t provide it, they’ll happily get it from tabloids, romance novels, The View, Tyra Banks or otherwise living vicariously through their single girlfriends.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“Good girls are just bad girls who never got caught.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“It’s much easier for a man not to give a shit if he truly doesn’t give a shit.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“Never, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“There is no Quality Woman, that’s an idealization. Some are better than others of course, but you don’t find the perfect woman, you make the perfect woman.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“This is evidenced in our own hormonal biology; healthy men possess between 12 and17 times the amount of testosterone (the primary hormone in sexual arousal) women do and women produce substantially more estrogen (instrumental in sexual caution) and oxytocin (fostering feelings of security and nurturing) than men.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“I enjoy sitting at home eating a whole pizza, washing it down with a six pack of Budweiser and watching Anime on a Friday evening, can I realistically expect that hot fitness instructor at the gym to come on over and genuinely want to fuck my brains out?”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“You have to unlearn the old behaviors and condition new ones in order to right your course. This takes practice and repetition – even in the face of conditions that you would impulsively think would need to be reacted to otherwise. There is no substitute for perseverance.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“Women will gladly overlook character flaws or a lack of assets in favor of fucking the physical Alpha while she approaches her own sexual apex.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“Communicate with your behavior. Never overtly tell a woman anything. Allow her to come to the conclusions you intend. Her imagination is the best tool in your Game toolbox. Learn how to use it.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“Feminization from a behavioral psychology perspective, is nothing less than a socialized effort in deliberate behavioral modification of men’s natural drives and predilections to better fit the feminine imperative.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male