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Nicholas Tanek

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Nicholas Tanek is an author, speaker, and podcaster. He is best known for his memoir, The Coolest Way to Kill Yourself, which chronicles his experiences as a young man in the punk rock and BDSM subcultures of the 1990s. The book has been praised for its honesty and rawness in depicting Tanek’s struggles with addiction, depression, and unconventional sexuality.

Tanek has also written several other books, including Chipped Black Nail Polish, a novella about NJ punk rock romance, and Your Kinky Friends, a non-fiction book about alternative lifestyles and sexual practices. He hosts a podcast by the same name, in which he interviews people involved in BDSM, kink, and other alternative lifestyles.

In addition to his writing and podcasting, Tanek is
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“Life goes on and so does love. As”
Nicholas Tanek, The Coolest Way to Kill Yourself

“Love is suicide. Maybe I am being pretentious, but think about it. If you truly give yourself to someone, you leave the life you had behind. Sometimes, love can be like not caring about anything else but that other person. You do not care what anyone says. You do not care about the consequences. Like a suicidal person on a cliff, you just jump.”
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“Jealousy is a dangerous mistress who will always leave you bruised.”
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“The world is like a ride in an amusement park, and when you choose to go on it you think it's real because that's how powerful our minds are. The ride goes up and down, around and around, it has thrills and chills, and it's very brightly colored, and it's very loud, and it's fun for a while. Many people have been on the ride a long time, and they begin to wonder, "Hey, is this real, or is this just a ride?" And other people have remembered, and they come back to us and say, "Hey, don't worry; don't be afraid, ever, because this is just a ride." And we … kill those people. "Shut him up! I've got a lot invested in this ride, shut him up! Look at my furrows of worry, look at my big bank account, and my family. This has to be real." It's just a ride. But we always kill the good guys who try and tell us that, you ever notice that? And let the demons run amok … But it doesn't matter, because it's just a ride. And we can change it any time we want. It's only a choice. No effort, no work, no job, no savings of money. Just a simple choice, right now, between fear and love. The eyes of fear want you to put bigger locks on your doors, buy guns, close yourself off. The eyes of love instead see all of us as one. Here's what we can do to change the world, right now, to a better ride. Take all that money we spend on weapons and defenses each year and instead spend it feeding and clothing and educating the poor of the world, which it would pay for many times over, not one human being excluded, and we could explore space, together, both inner and outer, forever, in peace.”
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“I knew when I met you an adventure was going to happen.”
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“I always thought it was interesting that people who held life and death in their hands were so aloof.”
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“I believe that if someone loves someone else and they become partners in life, those two people should have a connection where they will step up and take care of business.”
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Madeleine It's good to formally make your GR acquaintance. :)

Thanks again for the book (I was surprised at its heftiness!) and your charming inscription. I'll definitely let you know when I finally get around to it, as well as eventually send you now two adequate responses to your very kind messages.


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