Not Even a Hint: A Study Guide for Men by Joshua Harris (1-Jul-2004) Paperback

by Joshua Harris

Celebrate Purity Overcoming lust is a process that requires diligent focus and accountability from others, and these in-depth guides help establish both. They’re designed for a variety of settings, from one-on-one accountability partnerships to Sunday school classes. Sex Is Not the Problem (Lust Is) made the statement that lust is a human problem (not just a guy problem) and that Jesus can free anyone from its power. Going further, these gender-specific study guides feature questions and discussion starters that directly address the temptations unique to men and women. These resources are a must-have for anyone challenged to defeat lust and celebrate purity in their lives. Experience Victory Along the Journey to Holiness Based on his bestselling message in Sex Is Not the Problem (Lust Is), Joshua Harris offers a companion study guide specifically designed to address the issues men face. Versatile in nature, this study guide can be used in one-on-one accountability or in a church group setting. “ Joshua Harris has done it again. Sex Is Not the Problem (Lust Is) contains the undiluted biblical truth on a vital topic, served up with honesty and humility.” —C. J. Mahaney Author of The Cross Centered Life Each of the ten small-group sessions Easy A quick chapter summary makes review simple. Discussion Questions that serve as icebreakers, and then lead to deeper discussion and personal application. Accountability Questions to help check each other’s progress in a truthful and caring setting. Meditate and Key Scriptures that will help men gain victory over lust. Custom-Tailored Action Men will be led in a step-by-step formulation of an Action Plan, uniquely tailored to combat their specific battles. Story Behind the Book“I was preparing a message on lust when I realized that the book I wanted to consult hadn’t been written. That book would make it clear that only Jesus Christ can free us from the hopeless treadmill of shame and guilt that so many well-intentioned people end up on. It would instill a love for holiness and a hatred for sin without dragging the reader’s imagination through the gutter. And it would be for both men and women, because I’ve learned that lust isn’t just a guy problem—it’s a human problem.” —Joshua Harris

Genres: Christian Living, Christian, Sexuality, Nonfiction, Theology, Spirituality, Marriage

Paperback

First published June 18, 2004

About the author

Joshua Harris lived outside Washington, D.C., in Gaithersburg, Maryland, where he was a pastor at Covenant Life Church. His greatest passion was preaching the gospel and calling his generation to wholehearted devotion to God. Each January he lead a national conference for singles called New Attitude.

He since apostatised, divorced & became an LGBTQ+ advocate.

Reviews

[Nathan Schneider · Rating 5 out of 5]

Super helpful study around the issue of lust/ purity. Harris stresses the good gift of sex, the grace of God, and the need for purity in this issue. He is very practical while at the same time avoiding the all-too common assumption that all you to win in this area is more boundaries (although part of it). "God never calls us to sacrifice as an end in itself, but only through sacrifice on the way to great joy."

[Augustine Onyechi · Rating 3 out of 5]

I read this out of curiosity, and I found it had useful information on sexual sins and how best to deal with them as a Christian. Contains good, practical advice on how to deal with lust, which almost always leads to sexual sins.

[Chris Harding · Rating 3 out of 5]

Practical help in our battle against lust

[Tiger Hebert · Rating 4 out of 5]

Good book with practical teaching.

[Youssef Selwanis · Rating 5 out of 5]

الكتاب اكثر من رائع ومتوازن جدا يوضح الفرق الغير واضح للكثيرين بسبب الميديا بين الشهوه المرفوضه تماما من الله وبين الجنس الذى هو عطيه من الله
الكتاب يناقش دور النعمه فى التغلب على الشهوه كما يناقش بطرق عمليه جدا مداخل الشهوه وكيف نقدر ان نقف ضدها
يناقش الكتاب صور الشهوه المختلفه الغير واضحه لكثيرين ويبين الفرق فى الشهوه بين الرجل والمرأه وكيف اننا جميعا نحتاج ان نقاوم الشهوه ونتمسك بالمتعه الحقيقيه التى يريد الله لنا ان نحيا فيها
يوضح الكتاب خطه الله للجنس والمتعه الحقيقيه التى يريد الله لنا ان نتمتع بها من خلال الجنس
يوضح الكتاب أكاذيب كثيره يدسها الشيطان لتفسد من طبيعتنا وتدخل الشهوه الى حياتنا
يناقش العاده السريه بطريقه رائعه ويوضح اهميه المجتمع ودوره فى التعافى منها كما يوضح دور الكتاب المقدس وكلمه الله فى محاربه الشهوه


باختصار لم اقرأ كتاب يناقش الجنس بهذه الروعه والتوازن الحقيقي والاستناد على الكتاب المقدس مع الطرق العمليه مثلما قرأت فى هذا الكتاب
انصح الجميع بقراءته

[Brent Soderstrum · Rating 4 out of 5]

My review goes to the book itself, not the study guide. The book itself doesn't register on goodreads. Not a good sign.

I have enjoyed Harris' other books. This one deals with one of my most formidable opponent-Lust. It never satisfies despite our pursuit and the dumb things we do as a result of it. God has better things planned for us-sex in a marriage.

I also like how Harris emphasises that christian men seem to gauge their relationship with God on how often they masterrubate. Mastrubation is a sin but it is merely a byproduct of lust. God loves us and has much better things planned for us then lust and the actions lust creates.

Good book.

[Trixie · Rating 4 out of 5]

An informative book regarding to guarding your mind, soul, body, and eyes. It points out what exactly one is struggling with and why. I am a female and was able to see the issue and problem. It had good insight about the issue of lust a many ways we as Christians can overcome it and although there is no solution there should be limitations and arduous discipline. Over all a very easy and useful read. I enjoyed it.

[Philip Meinel · Rating 5 out of 5]

Joshua Harris addresses the main issues associated with lust that we all face on a daily basis. This is a good read for youth, parents, and personal application of God's word. The same truths and advice could be used for battling addictions, or simply maintaining purity (like that's simple!). Married couples would also benefit from understanding the gift of sex in marriage. God wants you to have fun! And marriage is the secure union that allows for the most amazing fun I've ever experienced.

[Kendra · Rating 3 out of 5]

Although I didn't read this in its entirety (more of a heavy skim), it had good thoughts and practical ideas for any person (male of female)caught in the trap of lust. Seems to focus more on heart issues leading to masturbation rather than heart issues leading to fornication.

[Emmett Major · Rating 5 out of 5]

Certainly helps make clear what God's standard is regarding sex for the single and the married. Also provides some practical guidance about things you can do to help stop..well, bad habits. I recommend it for anyone really trying to do better in this area of their life.

[Ann Dowd]

Reading this with my husband, although the copy we have doesn't say it is for men. Wanting to communicate a helpful, responsible, God-centered view on this to our boys.

[Chase Dougherty]

One of the greatest books on sexual immorality I have ever read.

[Benjamin Aurich · Rating 4 out of 5]

A much-needed reminder.