Asking All The Wrong Questions: Why Christians Are Waiting For Marriage For Sex

by Allison Vesterfelt

What is the big deal about sex before marriage?

I know the Bible says it’s wrong, but isn’t that just cultural?

So if I’m waiting for sex can I do other stuff? How far is too far?

I learned at a really young age that I was supposed to wait for marriage for sex. I was a part of the “True Love Waits” generation. And if anyone should have made it to the wedding day without having sex it should have been me.

So why didn’t I?

The book tells my story and discusses the real reasons that I think it’s important to wait for marriage for sex. I learned the hard way and maybe you have too.

The book also includes thoughts from my friend Max Andrew Dubinsky about the lie that lust tells us and why it can be so convincing.

73 pages, Kindle Edition

First published November 1, 2011

About the author

Allison Fallon is an award winning author, sought after public speaker, and nationally recognized writing coach. She has coached hundreds of thousands of writers - from NYT Bestselling authors to total beginners to help them finally get their books written and on shelves. Her most recent book The Power of Writing Things Down walks anyone - even those who swear they aren't "real" writers - through a simple daily practice they can use to reduce anxiety, curb depression, improve their confidence and gain clarity in their life. She lives in Pasadena, California with her husband Matt and her daughter Nella.

Reviews

[Benjamin · Rating 3 out of 5]

Reasonably good but very much written for the young teen reader. Wasn't strong enough in backing positions imo