Men are weird and can behave like apes. A man can change his mind overnight and lose interest, just like that. I wrote this book to share the hard truth with you, so you can 'see' and understand why he does what he does. You’ll - What goes on inside a man’s mind…and how attraction works for him - The 7 dangerous mistakes most women make with men - How you can use his “animal brain” to create natural and lasting attraction - What makes men cheat or look at other women - The 3 characteristics every man looks for in a woman - How to make him think “ she’s mine, I want her! ” - The one big mistake that instantly makes him lose physical attraction - What makes men seem emotionally unavailable - The crucial difference between emotional and physical attraction - and much more. Are you ready to go inside the male mind?
I found this book interesting with lots of very good advice, but also very repetitive. He made the same points over and over again and the book could have been half as long! I know his advice works as this is how I got my husband (a good man, a fireman ) 25 years ago - and have been with him ever since.
Interesting approach but rather repetative. Puts a lot of responsibility on women and how to behave, act. I find it rather unnatural and outdated. But the basics are interesting.
Here's the main takeaways from this book. 1. Short read, could've been much much shorter if the repetitive stuff was eliminated. (Not a takeaway, just an FYI) 2. If I had a dollar for every time this men said men wants mystery, insecurity and uncertainty I would be a millionaire by now. 3. Girls don't like good guys who get her flowers and give 37 compliments a day, they like the toxic kind (This is stated at least 100x's but more thoroughly explained) 4. Men and women are not equal, we are built unequal 5. MEN DOES THE CHOOSING, WOMEN DOES THE PICKING. There is no other way to work around this. That's just how we're "built" 6. Self-control and a great emotional intelligence is needed to maintain a relationship (probably the only new thing I learned in this book) Enjoy ;)
Whilst it could be deemed as the obvious mating ritual, as times change there’s a blurring of the lines of interaction and it’s good to be reminded of the basics.
Dating is difficult for persons who arent 'naturals'. A man's unforced perspective is what we needed to help form our own opinions and approaches. Would recommend.
I love this books because it makes sense. No matter how many times the role of the man and woman changes in society, we cannot change nature. The friend method does work great and it is a great tool to stay objective and outside your head. A "must read" book for every woman who feels lost in today' s dating world.
I bought this title on a whim and I am so glad I did. Brian helped me to understand the natural dynamic between a man and woman that I feel so lucky to now know.