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9 Steps to Build a Life of Meaning: How to Unlock Your Mind, Happiness, Power, and Your Enemy's Demise

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In this urgent, heartfelt self-improvement memoir by leading founder and simplifier Rick Walker, men are offered 9 powerful steps to build the most meaningful life imaginable.

Imagine it: Unbeatable focus.

Unstoppable passion.

Incredible resilience.

Honorable leadership.

A flourishing family.

And more-much more.

Everything you need for a life of true and deep meaning. The once impossible is now accessible. In 9 Steps.

Rick wants to rip away the comfort now enslaving your potential. He discovered the steps the hard way. Hidden where he least wanted to look:

The abandoned genius of ancients.

The hard-won wisdom of warriors.

The overlooked art of the masters.

And, not surprisingly, within his own failures.

Most self improvement books are focused on happiness. However, this self help book for men is focused on something more important: meaning. This book helps men in their personal development and their purpose development.

264 pages, Hardcover

Published July 5, 2025

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I began in the poverty of a two-bedroom home, with big dreams and low self esteem. And curiosity as my lone asset. Borrowing $1,000 from my Mom I founded and took one business to 400 employees by the time I was 26. I built another company into 6 states. At the same time I led a nonprofit expansion into 53 countries and added over a thousand staff. All in my 20’s and 30’s.

On the tough outside, I’m a shoot first, ask questions later type of guy. But inside, I still feel that imposter syndrome of a little boy growing up without any hope.

Others explain my work clearer. Former Secretary of HUD, Dr. Ben Carson, calls my writing “profound, refreshing.” Famed podcaster and pastor Paul VanderKlay says I’m “a doer, not a pontificator.” Navy SEAL and US Congressman Dan Crenshaw says I am “a leader and a truth-teller…a businessman, yes, but also a philosopher and a scholar…someone who has actually bothered to think original thoughts, a rarity in today’s literature.”

But more than that, I’m a man who’s been plunged into a life of love. A truer life than all the fleeting promises of competency, fame, and wealth. An existence richer than the circumstances of my past. Based on beliefs wiser than living for just my own future.

For years the world’s elite have asked me to begin putting some structure around how I think and live. To communicate the key steps from zero to meaning-filled living. So from their encouragement, and my desire to help others, I have documented these steps, self-improvement tools, and life turnaround principles which have brought me and countless others out of our deepest struggles and into a life of meaning. Now it’s your turn.

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2 reviews
September 1, 2025
Not Worth Your Time

This book droned on for………ever! Author kept bringing Jesus Christ up, but then would slant back towards the 9 Steps as the key to success. While using incomplete sentences galore, the author would keep trying to sound wise, but would take wisdom from elsewhere and attempt to make it his own (No man can serve two vows…WHAT!?). I kept trying to find something worthwhile in this book, but after reading the whole thing, I have come up empty. If you’re going to build a life of meaning, skip this time sink. Rick Walker might have built businesses, but perhaps he should stick to that and skip the art interpretation and philosophizing.
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114 reviews10 followers
July 8, 2025
Rick Walker’s 9 Steps to Build a Life of Meaning is far more than meets the eye. Rather than prescribing readers a stale and forgettable self-help formula which promises to be simple, this book takes a revolutionary approach in proclaiming that nothing worth doing is easy. The titular nine steps are strikingly nontraditional; examples include “choose one worthy enemy” and “give away what you want to keep.” Employing a reader-friendly format brimming with bullet points and featured quotes, the text focuses on the behavioral examples of great men of history, with a particular focus on Alexander the Great and Jesus Christ. Though 9 Steps was written with young men in mind, women could easily benefit from the sage advice within its pages, as well. Perhaps the crux of the book’s message can be summed up with the following quote from Chapter Eight: “The effort you give today determines your forever.” This is a can’t-miss read for anyone hoping to find meaning in his or her life.
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4,266 reviews113 followers
July 3, 2025
Walker is described as a philosopher and writes like one. This is not a book where you will find clearly presented action steps. Walker shares the lessons he has learned through experiences and he tells many of those experiences. His steps are presented within the context of story. He has a very imaginative way of communicating, one that I found required concentration to understand what he was saying. He often writes with incomplete sentences and frequently uses flowery language. Here is an example: “What could I learn by blending a drop of courage into a cup of competence?” (3395/4348)

This is a book for readers who would appreciate a round about way of communicating truth. While he draws from a variety of religious disciplines, there is an emphasis on Jesus Christ near the end. There are definitely life lessons to learn by reading this book. It just may take a little more contemplation and thought than one would normally think required in a book of this type.

I received a complimentary digital copy of this book from the publisher. My comments are an independent and honest review.
Author 1 book5 followers
August 30, 2025
Amazing insight on how to find direction and meaning in life!

Rick shares the 9 steps to build a life of meaning through lessons he learned from his own life experiences and the stories of history. He learned from mistakes he made in his thinking about decisions he made in life and approach’s. The steps he shares are real and not easy but essential for a life of meaning. Some of perspectives I had never heard before and were very insightful.
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203 reviews
July 10, 2025
There are books that exert an unbelievable pull, and this one is no exception. It is brimming with wisdom and insight. Much of my copy is highlighted in vibrant colors. Once I delved into it, I felt compelled to continue reading. This was primarily due to the fresh perspective it offered, presenting information from an unexpected angle. I found myself pondering concepts like the importance of finding a worthy adversary. Then the follow up which made me nod with understanding, that as he writes, "Enemies are more often desires and habits than people." Or in another particular insightful thought put forth that as the author notes, “hate is not the opposite of love. Proper hate is the fulfillment of love.” Initially, such statements gave me pause. I found myself mulling over what was being presented, and with further reading getting greater contextual understanding, making each bit of advice offered more impactful and resonant.

This book opened my eyes to a new approach to building a path toward success. It invites readers to reflect, to sit with its insights, and allow them to marinate. This is what it did for me.

The author speaks from extensive experience, taking us into realms many may never explore, offering an insider's look at opportunities and encounters beyond the average experience. I was surprised by his insights as a corporate leader and politician, navigating circles of influence. Equally enlightening was his portrayal of Alexander the Great, offering a fresh exploration of his story, ascent, and dealings. The way this information is presented—enlightening, informative, yet relatable—is what makes this book a remarkable read.

Anyone who picks up this book should be prepared to view life and experiences through a completely different lens. In a market flooded with self-help books on building success, this one stands out.
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Author 1 book57 followers
September 4, 2025
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I received this book from an agency for review.

I began the book with high hopes. It is indeed full of optimism. On the cover, Ben Carson’s two-word description of the book’s message proclaims, “Triumphantly hopeful!” How could I not be expectant?!

The first chapter/principle is titled “Choose One Worthy Enemy.” I understood Walker’s premise, but yeesh, his application of the old adage “some things are worth fighting for” was a bit much:

”It is right to go into battle and kill your enemies - not because you hate those in front of you, but because you love those behind you.”


That may be appropriate to a group of Marines about to storm an enemy stronghold, but this book is a leadership book, written to normal Joe’s and Josie’s.

Add to that the incessant self-aggrandizement that permeated the first chapter and a half, and it was just too much for me. I gave up.

I didn’t want to give up, but life’s too short, and there are too many books to read. I often have reader regret when I give up on a book. I underlined some thoughtful and provocative points in the material I read. I was hopeful because the book hinted at faith in Christ. However, this sentence in chapter two made me question who exactly Christ was to the author:

“When we assume a higher place, such as being superior to Christ, Zeus, or Krishna, we make an ambitious blunder that proves our vain pride.”


The point he makes is that we shouldn’t deceive ourselves in thinking we are equal to our superiors. But in making this point, he equated Jesus Christ with Krishna in one sentence. He also equated Jesus with a mythological god.

Walker is undoubtedly successful as a businessman. But i think I’m going to build a life of meaning on principles laid down by Jesus.
7 reviews
August 20, 2025
The 9 Steps To Build A Life Of Meaning is a powerful, and shocking read. Before diving into the book, the graphic on the book cover was a bit confusing. The author hints to why it was chosen in the very beginning and points the reader to another section of the book for more detail.

The author is not about goal setting and business cliches. His perspective is different because of his lived experiences most of us will never know – it’s from the inner core experiences of the war on terror in 2009, being sent a gruesome video of a comrade being beheaded so when he says the books about start with a goal, he dispels that immediately to say choose one worthy enemy and start there, your enemies and problems that break your heart because that has more meaning than goals. It’s more than a mere slap in the face to wake up and take life more seriously.

This book is filled with drops of wisdom throughout, and not just his own. It will certainly give you a different perspective, but readers are called to not just sit back and read the words, but rather to take action towards something different and better, to step up.

I wasn’t prepared for how this book began, and I wasn’t expecting the insights and perspectives of the author. Parts were shocking, disturbing, and other parts inspiring and uplifting, and through all of it, calling us to be more and to do more and not just for ourselves.
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1,461 reviews57 followers
July 28, 2025
9 Steps to Build a Life of Meaning: How to Unlock Your Mind, Happiness, Power, and Your Enemies' Demise, by Rick Walker, is more than just a self-help book; it's a way of life. The book distinguishes itself from typical self-improvement books focused only on happiness and instead focuses on the pursuit of meaning as a more significant and worthwhile objective. I am glad I read it, and I think others should too, before things change even more culturally. Walker presents a 9-step actionable framework designed to guide you toward a life of purpose and personal development. The book would be especially helpful for young men just starting in the workforce, as it lays a solid foundation. The book draws on a diverse range of influences, including ancient wisdom, spiritual insights, the experiences of warriors and masters, and Walker's failures, to offer a comprehensive approach to life transformation. The book has received endorsements from notable figures like Dr. Ben Carson and Dr. John Vervaeke, praising its depth and refreshing perspective. Overall, a great read that has the power to be hugely impactful in your life. Recommended.
42 reviews
July 28, 2025
A Grit-Fueled Blueprint for Purpose-Driven Living
Reviewed in the United States on July 7, 2025
Rick Walker doesn’t just write a self-help book—he delivers a battle-tested manifesto for men who crave more than fleeting motivation. 9 Steps to Build a Life of Meaning is a high-octane blend of ancient wisdom, personal grit, and strategic insight. Each chapter is a weapon in the war against distraction and mediocrity.

Walker’s approach is refreshingly bold: start with a worthy enemy, not a vague goal. From mastering morning rituals to cultivating mental fortitude and intentional leadership, the book offers practical tools (including downloadable PDFs) that actually stick. His stories—some drawn from intense real-world experiences—add authenticity and emotional weight.

What sets this apart? It’s not about chasing happiness. It’s about building relevance—a life that echoes beyond the moment. Rooted in Christian tradition and enriched by global philosophies, this guide speaks to men ready to lead with conviction and clarity.

If you’re tired of fluff and ready for transformation, this book is your call to arms.
5 reviews
August 5, 2025
Do you want to become a different man than you are? Do you want to become a happy, fighting man who surrenders to love?
Reach for this book.
But I'm warning you, this book will "break your bones" so you understand that who you are as a man can still be changed, or improved.
In 9 steps, the author, through references to art (mentor Caesar, beautiful paintings) and his own experiences, shows his method for achieving what he believes is most valuable.
"The Meaning of Life."
It will be a difficult journey, but it's worth devoting a few evenings to reading it.
Because, as the author wrote, "Your steps make your stories, and your stories make your life."

I recommend it.
And there's also a little teaser.

A bonus from Rick is a method for teaching our brains how to quickly change unwanted habits into ones that the brain wants and loves. I won't reveal the secret; you'll find this information in the bonuses after purchasing the book. It took me one day to develop a method for changing bad habits. It worked. Thanks Ricky!
13 reviews1 follower
August 11, 2025
This book really gave me a boost. It’s written in a way that makes you want to sit up, take stock of your life, and actually do something about it. I loved that it’s not just big ideas and pep talks, each chapter leaves you with clear steps you can actually try, which made it feel practical and doable. The bonus tools were a nice touch too, like having a little extra push in your back pocket to keep you moving forward even after you close the book.

I will say, it leans pretty hard into the “battle” and “enemy” language, which isn’t totally my style. But honestly, the energy is contagious, and it’s hard not to get fired up while reading it. The author’s passion comes through on every page, and there’s something motivating about that no-nonsense, take-action attitude. By the end, I felt more focused, more intentional, and ready to take on the things I’ve been putting off for too long. Definitely worth a read if you’re looking for a mix of inspiration and action you can actually apply.
12 reviews
August 9, 2025
This book really got me thinking about how I’m spending my time and energy. I appreciated how clear and practical the steps were, each chapter ends with concrete actions, which made it feel doable instead of just inspirational talk. I also liked the focus on building purpose rather than chasing quick bursts of motivation, and the bonus tools were genuinely useful. The stories felt authentic, coming from real-life experience rather than just theory, which made the advice hit harder.

That said, there were a few spots where the message felt a bit repetitive, and some of the “pick your enemy” language came across a little too intense for my personal taste. I get that it’s meant to light a fire under you, but sometimes I wanted more encouragement and less battle talk. Still, the core ideas are solid, and I walked away with strategies I can actually apply in my daily life. It’s not perfect, but it’s definitely worth the read if you’re ready to challenge yourself.
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Author 11 books3 followers
July 11, 2025
I chose this book for my husband because I could see how much he was grappling with questions of purpose and direction, though he rarely said it out loud. He’s not the type to be drawn to surface-level inspiration or generic advice, which is why I thought this book would resonate so strongly with him.
Walker’s writing is incisive and unflinching. It challenged my husband to confront not just what he wants to achieve, but why, and to reframe his struggles as part of a much larger, more meaningful narrative.
From my perspective, it’s brought a sense of groundedness and intentionality into our life together. He’s more reflective, more decisive, and, in some ways, more at peace with himself, even as he pushes himself forward. This book is for the man who wants to lead a life that matters. Thoughtful, challenging, and, in all the right ways, transformative.
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61 reviews
July 28, 2025
Great book! I was completely engaged while reading it. I learned a lot of interesting insights, and it offered a fresh perspective that changed my mindset and how I view things. This is a clear and straightforward guide, no filters or irrelevant wisdom, just pure facts. It guides you with a strategic approach and proven techniques.
The inclusion of artworks and famous quotes added a distinctive touch, which I truly appreciated. Beyond the methods, experiences, and historical context, the book also features scriptures from the Bible, highlighting the significant role faith plays in our lives.
My favorite part is the theory that love requires vulnerability, it felt deeply personal to me. After reading this book and learning about the nine steps, I took time to reflect on myself. It helped me refocus and realign my goals with what truly matters in my life.

I highly recommend this!


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147 reviews5 followers
July 28, 2025
Rick Walker’s 9 Steps to Build a Life of Meaning stands out in the self-improvement genre by offering a no-nonsense, energizing blueprint for men seeking more than fleeting happiness. Drawing on his personal journey—marked by both triumph and adversity—Walker fuses timeless wisdom, battle-tested stories, and strategic insights into a practical guide for building a life filled with purpose, resilience, and leadership.

The book’s nine steps are rooted in ancient philosophy, hard-won lessons from warriors, and candid reflections on failure, making it both accessible and deeply motivational. Walker challenges readers to confront comfort and mediocrity, urging them to pursue a life of significance rather than mere satisfaction. With endorsements from leaders like Dr. Ben Carson and a foreword by Dan Crenshaw, the book resonates with authenticity and urgency.
11 reviews
August 8, 2025
I picked this up because I was in a weird place, not totally lost, but definitely stuck. Like I had all this potential but no clear direction. I’ve read a bunch of self-help books before, but this one hit different. What I really liked is how straightforward and grounded it is. It’s not trying to be flashy, it just gives you tools that actually make sense and feel doable.

The part that helped me the most was the focus on mental clarity and morning rituals. I’ve always struggled to start my day with intention, and the way the author breaks it down made me realize how much I was getting in my own way. The mindset shifts around stress and leadership were also super eye-opening. You can tell the author has been through some serious stuf, and that gave everything a sense of honesty and depth that a lot of other books just don’t have.
2 reviews
July 8, 2025
This book offers a lot of life changing advice and thoughtful questions. Rick Walker uses personal stories as well as artwork and examples from past and present leaders to suggest 9 steps to build a better life. Be sure to give yourself time to read 9 Steps to a Meaningful Life so that you can spend time in reflection and pondering. The book is written with depth and insights you will want to give yourself plenty of quiet time to contemplate. I made the mistake of a short timeframe to read this book, and I feel I will need to reread it to fully understand all of the nuances. That being said, I feel that the book was a little repetitive and wordy in places. I enjoy books that are a little more concise and straightforward. Overall, an impactful book.
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104 reviews4 followers
July 29, 2025
So I dove into this thinking it’d be another macho type of self-help, and I was pleasantly surprised. This book brings substance, strategy, and a refreshing dose of introspection. The idea of picking a "worthy enemy" threw me at first, but it’s not really about a toxic rivalry but about having clarity on what you’re fighting for (or against), whether it’s distraction, doubt, or complacency. Some of the messaging is tailored toward a very specific audience which are men looking for high-impact transformation, often through a leadership lens. If you’re not into the “warrior mindset” vibe, you might wish for more balance or nuance. That said, if that is your vibe, the book hits like a clean punch of focus and purpose. If it suits you, it's pretty good.
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353 reviews3 followers
July 29, 2025
For my son

A great place to start.
I am passing this book on to my son. As a parent, I know I’ve tried to pass along the best wisdom I can to my son. But sometimes, it helps to hear it from someone else who’s been there. That’s
why I really liked this book. Rick Walker talks about using overlooked wisdom — things people forget or ignore — to build what really matters in life: resilience, focus, honor, and strong relationships. He says it leads to “a life of true and deep meaning” — and I believe that. So, to my son, heading off to college soon: take this with you. Not just my advice, but wisdom from someone who’s lived it. You don’t have to figure everything out on your own — this book is a great place to start.
9 reviews1 follower
August 5, 2025
I won’t lie to you, I bought it because of that magnificent cover. I can’t deny it. But I stayed for the content.

I always love when a book starts with a good biography of the author before diving in, and this one had a great one right at the beginning.

What really hooked me was Step 5: Joy Requires Pain. It’s not always about physical pain, I've always believed that everything meaningful requires sacrifice. The bigger the reward, the greater the cost. The author put that idea into words better than I ever could.

After reading this, you’ll walk away with tools, not just quotes. This isn’t theory, he’s a trader who understands sacrifice, loss, and more importantly, how to overcome. As he says, "an easy life is a selfish wish."

Loved it!
13 reviews
July 14, 2025
I was at first thrown by the opening sequence of a party of "successful" people the author attended. It was filled with all things immoral and empty. Then I encountered a belief that hatred has its time and place. This is not your normal self-help book. It challenges the reader in its boldness and honesty.
Rick Walker chooses to leave the party and fly back home to his wife and children. He chooses to act in a way that upholds what is important to him. I recommend this book. It makes you think about what is important to you, and I like that it depicts a masculinity that is upright and honorable.
23 reviews
July 28, 2025
Rick Walker wrote a great book. It was very well researched. This book gives some information to lift you self esteem. Rick Walker gives information on how to jumpstart your day with clarity. Rick Walker gives some downloads for mental fortitude. This is to help build up your self confidence. There is also good information to help become a leader, and to instill this into the people who work for you and your family. He also gives more information to turn your thinking into power and to help you become better at what you do and not to be afraid. I give this book a 5-star rating. I definitely hope to hear more from the author. I definitely recommend this book to others given the chance.
7 reviews
July 30, 2025
This book really caught me off guard in the best way. It’s more than another
motivational read. It actually offers a clear, step-by-step guide for getting your
mind right and focusing on what matters. The personal stories mixed with
actionable advice made it easy to relate to and apply to my own life.
I appreciated how it ties in wisdom from different traditions without feeling heavy
or preachy. The mental exercises and bonus PDFs are a great touch too. It’s the
kind of book you want to highlight, dog-ear pages, and revisit whenever you feel
stuck. If you’re looking for something practical and meaningful to get your head
back in the game, this book delivers exactly that.
14 reviews
August 5, 2025
Forget soft talk, this book hits like a mental reset button. 9 Steps to Build a Life of Meaning isn’t about feel-good quotes or chasing comfort. It’s about lighting a fire under your purpose and cutting through the noise. With bold principles and hard-earned wisdom, it gives you the clarity to fight distraction, reclaim your ambition, and lead with focus. Each chapter delivers gut-level truth and action you can actually apply. No fluff, just force. If you’re done coasting and ready to build something meaningful, this is your blueprint. Read it if you're ready to stop surviving and start owning your life.
3 reviews1 follower
August 8, 2025
This book is a rare self-help book that delivers on its promise, blending Rick Walker’s journey with psychology, philosophy, and practical exercises into a clear 9-step system for finding purpose and taking action. The mix of relatable stories, thought-provoking insights, and hands-on tools, like the 7-day emotional control challenge, makes it both inspiring and immediately usable. While a few moments lean into a bold, hyper-masculine tone, the wisdom is universal, and the structured, engaging approach ensures you walk away with strategies you can apply to create a more intentional, fulfilling life.
14 reviews
August 20, 2025
There are many books on self-help and self-improvement. This was one of the better ones, providing a lot of sense and meaning for living a fulfilling life. The author's 9-step approach was not only easy to understand but was practical and doable. With numerous personal examples and anecdotes, the lessons learned from success and failure are not only useful but also inspirational. Blending ancient wisdom and lessons learned through failures, the book is quite motivating. Each chapter offers valuable insights to help you build a life with meaning and purpose. I strongly recommend this book to all.
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15 reviews
July 7, 2025
Well. This sure was something. Man talks about his life, and how it tends to kick you in the groi n for daring to have ambition. Frankly, relatable. Yet he kept on trying. And things have eventually started going in his favour. That's inspiring, I guess. Book's full of good quotes by successful people and examples. A looot of parallels were drawn with Alexander the great. In an illustrative way, it worked. But did not help me to relate to the grandiose situations (like campaigning) or the author all that much. I'm just trying to uh, unlock my mind, not build an empire.
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5 reviews
July 24, 2025
This book brings a meaning topic about our life. There are totally 9 steps in this book. The most interesting part for me is Step 1, Choose a worthy enemy. For my understanding is that you choose a challenge or problem need to be solved. The author uses his own life experience to demonstrate how he goes through his life. That makes the whole book more vivid and impressive. Beauty is the inversion of evil is the most meaningful idea in the book. And, he gives hope a lot of weight in our life. So, never lose your hope in your life.
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Author 4 books10 followers
July 28, 2025
I pre-ordered this book and devoured it in a few hours. It’s not fluff—it’s fire. Rick Walker gives you real tools, bold truths, and a 9-step roadmap to build a life that matters.
One part that hit me hard was “The Arbitrage of Masterful Ideas.” The story of flipping old watches with his dad was more than a memory, it was a lesson in finding hidden value and earning your future.
If you’re tired of shallow self-help books and want real transformation, this is it. Think clearly, act boldly, and build a legacy. Every man should read this.
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37 reviews
July 28, 2025
I found this to be a great book for men and there was a lot to digest between the pages. Overall, I didn’t think all nine steps applied in my personal life, but the trajectory of them makes sense and I appreciate what they have to offer for them. I found it to be helpful to not only change my own mindset, but also to fight the “inner self” where your mind is constantly fighting against you. I would highly recommend this to someone who is trying to get their life back on track and on the right path.
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