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How to Make Friends as an Introvert
How to Make Friends as an Introvert: Discover Introvert-Friendly Ways to Meet New People, Improve Your Social Skills, and Make New Friends
Discover Over 50 Proven Introvert-Friendly Tips to Become Great at Socializing
I want to challenge your thinking.
Do you consider introversion a roadblock that holds you back when socializing? Do you feel you’ll never become good at making friends or getting to know new people because introverts can’t possess these skills? Do you think there are very few ways to socialize outside of partying?
You’re mistaken, and I wrote this book to tell you why.
"How to Make Friends as an Introvert" will help you discover:
- 5 strengths of introverts and how to use them when socializing. Just one of these strengths can make you MUCH better at socializing than an average extrovert. (Chapter 2)
- 5 weaknesses of introverts and how to avoid letting them affect your life. Learning about just one of these limitations (which is the key to a happy social life as an introvert) will help you dramatically improve your social life. (Chapter 3)
- 21 ways to meet new people. They are divided into three groups suitable for introverts with various levels of self-confidence and social skills. No matter who you are, you’ll discover at least a few new ways to meet new people. (Chapter 4)
- the blueprint on how to talk with strangers. You’ll learn how to chat people up and how to take it from “hi” to a deep conversation. You’ll also learn how to deal with small talk (hint: it’s all about asking the right questions) and how to be a good conversationalist. (Chapter 5)
- how to develop a friendship. Introverts can actually be much better at developing strong relationships than extroverts. You’ll discover how to pick the right friend, how to manage your social energy and how to be a good friend. (Chapter 6)
- 5 most important social skills every introvert should master. These five simple skills have a huge influence on your social life. Learn what they are and how to improve them. (Chapter 7)
- 4 behaviors to avoid. You may display some of these behaviors and put people off without even being aware of it. (Chapter 8)
If you’re ready to get your thinking challenged, read this book. I’m sure the advice from this book will change your beliefs and help you become better at socializing.
I want to challenge your thinking.
Do you consider introversion a roadblock that holds you back when socializing? Do you feel you’ll never become good at making friends or getting to know new people because introverts can’t possess these skills? Do you think there are very few ways to socialize outside of partying?
You’re mistaken, and I wrote this book to tell you why.
"How to Make Friends as an Introvert" will help you discover:
- 5 strengths of introverts and how to use them when socializing. Just one of these strengths can make you MUCH better at socializing than an average extrovert. (Chapter 2)
- 5 weaknesses of introverts and how to avoid letting them affect your life. Learning about just one of these limitations (which is the key to a happy social life as an introvert) will help you dramatically improve your social life. (Chapter 3)
- 21 ways to meet new people. They are divided into three groups suitable for introverts with various levels of self-confidence and social skills. No matter who you are, you’ll discover at least a few new ways to meet new people. (Chapter 4)
- the blueprint on how to talk with strangers. You’ll learn how to chat people up and how to take it from “hi” to a deep conversation. You’ll also learn how to deal with small talk (hint: it’s all about asking the right questions) and how to be a good conversationalist. (Chapter 5)
- how to develop a friendship. Introverts can actually be much better at developing strong relationships than extroverts. You’ll discover how to pick the right friend, how to manage your social energy and how to be a good friend. (Chapter 6)
- 5 most important social skills every introvert should master. These five simple skills have a huge influence on your social life. Learn what they are and how to improve them. (Chapter 7)
- 4 behaviors to avoid. You may display some of these behaviors and put people off without even being aware of it. (Chapter 8)
If you’re ready to get your thinking challenged, read this book. I’m sure the advice from this book will change your beliefs and help you become better at socializing.
128 pages, Kindle Edition
First published September 18, 2014
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About the author
Nate Nicholson
25 books11 followersNate Nicholson is interested in the practical aspect of the self-help literature. He writes books for people who want to make the most out of their lives by always striving to become a better person.
Nate enjoys writing about introversion and self-confidence, two things close to his heart. The journey he undertook to overcome shyness and become a self-confident person has helped him discover entrepreneurship, fitness, and personal growth, all of which are his main personal interests.
Nate enjoys writing about introversion and self-confidence, two things close to his heart. The journey he undertook to overcome shyness and become a self-confident person has helped him discover entrepreneurship, fitness, and personal growth, all of which are his main personal interests.
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January 23, 2018
This was not the best book I've ever read (or even the best book I've read so far this year, for that matter) but it did have a lot of helpful information (and some not-so-helpful) on how to make friends - and be a friend - as an introvert. If you're a painfully shy introvert, as I am, the book is definitely worth reading, even if you only get a few pointers here and there. Every little bit helps!
May 18, 2020
This is a very quick read but it has some good advice. More than that, it's very encouraging. Just because a person is an introvert does not mean that they cannot have a fulfilling social life. I like that the author encourages his readers to get out of their comfort zone and practice speaking to strangers. I have met people in real life that I have spoken to and realized quite quickly that I would like to get to know them better as friends, but I never followed through in asking for their contact information or contacted them when they offered theirs. This book helps take the "weirdness" out of it. I've never before known how to bridge the gap between meeting a random person that you connect with and making them a friend. I had also never thought of having social strengths as an introvert, so that was encouraging to read.
November 5, 2018
It's the kind of advice you can read on a blog.
It's ok, but nothing new under the sun. And you may be better equipped with your own compass when it comes to friendship, instead of reading what to do in a book.
It's ok, but nothing new under the sun. And you may be better equipped with your own compass when it comes to friendship, instead of reading what to do in a book.
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December 20, 2021Rating: ⭐
💡 Starting a conversation with a stranger as an introvert doesn't have to be difficult. In fact, you have a powerful advantage over extroverts.
Why does the comparison rub me off in the wrong way? like being an extrovert is a wrong thing
💡 why are some of these traits common human decency? does that not exist when you an extrovert?
Quotes:
💡 Introversion comes with an interesting mix of strengths and weaknesses. If you learn how to maximize the benefits coming from your strengths and diminish the effects of your limitation, you too can enjoy a social life.
💡 Active listening starts with acknowledging what the other person is saying and reiterating it. It builds connections while making the person you're speaking with feel understood.
💡 Finding the "why" can deepen your conversations and make them more satisfying.
💡 Self-confidence can't be taught by reading a book. It's the actions-facing your fears- that make you a self-assured person.
💡 Starting a conversation with a stranger as an introvert doesn't have to be difficult. In fact, you have a powerful advantage over extroverts.
Why does the comparison rub me off in the wrong way? like being an extrovert is a wrong thing
💡 why are some of these traits common human decency? does that not exist when you an extrovert?
Quotes:
💡 Introversion comes with an interesting mix of strengths and weaknesses. If you learn how to maximize the benefits coming from your strengths and diminish the effects of your limitation, you too can enjoy a social life.
💡 Active listening starts with acknowledging what the other person is saying and reiterating it. It builds connections while making the person you're speaking with feel understood.
💡 Finding the "why" can deepen your conversations and make them more satisfying.
💡 Self-confidence can't be taught by reading a book. It's the actions-facing your fears- that make you a self-assured person.
September 16, 2019
“Introverts recharge their batteries in solitude. They need quietness and little to no stimulation. It helps them focus on their inner life, which is the primary source of their energy..” YES. This book gets it. And according to the test my personality is Virtuoso. 76% introverted.
“Introverts don’t connect with other people as well as extroverts do when making small talk.” Because we hate the small talk.
“Introverts don’t connect with other people as well as extroverts do when making small talk.” Because we hate the small talk.
December 4, 2024
Good basic ideas, but not what I was looking for. The main thing I got from this book is how to start a conversation and that introverts may excel at active listening.
I wanted to learn how to keep a conversation going with an extrovert. The idea of focusing on getting to know them is helpful, but I often get stuck asking too many questions since they're not interested in knowing me. Even throwing out something about myself doesn't always work.
Good beginnings but I need more.
I wanted to learn how to keep a conversation going with an extrovert. The idea of focusing on getting to know them is helpful, but I often get stuck asking too many questions since they're not interested in knowing me. Even throwing out something about myself doesn't always work.
Good beginnings but I need more.
April 24, 2022
Nothing new here.
February 16, 2017
I picked this and another similar book up mostly on a lark during an Audible sale and got exactly what I expected. The content was superficial, the recommendations were mostly obvious while failing to add any insight. Given that he kept coming back to it I'm not sure if Nicholson's intention went much further than telling you how good he is now at hitting on attractive women and throwing in the occasional mention of an introvert's sex life.
What really stood out to me about this and Social Anxiety: Social Anxiety and Shyness Ultimate Guide: Techniques to Overcome Stress, Achieve Self Esteem and Succeed as an Introvert was that they both felt like they wen't really written with intention for introverts. They were short and shallow, the chapters and topics flew by too fast with so little honest examination and — perhaps most egregiously — the majority of the content was presented in fragmenting bullet-point lists. There just wasn't the thoughtfulness in the writing that they spent so much time talking about in the book.
While not targeted specifically toward helping introverts deal with social situations Susan Cain's book Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking, while imperfect, was written with a depth and empathy that was solely missing in Nicholson's guide.
What really stood out to me about this and Social Anxiety: Social Anxiety and Shyness Ultimate Guide: Techniques to Overcome Stress, Achieve Self Esteem and Succeed as an Introvert was that they both felt like they wen't really written with intention for introverts. They were short and shallow, the chapters and topics flew by too fast with so little honest examination and — perhaps most egregiously — the majority of the content was presented in fragmenting bullet-point lists. There just wasn't the thoughtfulness in the writing that they spent so much time talking about in the book.
While not targeted specifically toward helping introverts deal with social situations Susan Cain's book Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking, while imperfect, was written with a depth and empathy that was solely missing in Nicholson's guide.
February 9, 2017
How to Make Friends as an Introvert is a quick, easy read. It begins by defining introversion and explaining the associated strengths and weaknesses before moving on to suggest ways to meet new people, talk with strangers, and develop friendships. The chapter about talking with strangers is particularly valuable as it offers some great suggestions for networking, from initiating the conversation to following up, that can be helpful for any professional, introvert or not. The final chapters summarize social skills to master and behaviors to avoid.
Rather than immediately throwing introverts into extreme situations that may make them uncomfortable, many of the suggestions offered in this book are realistic and easily attainable, focusing on small steps rather than large leaps. The author maintains that introversion doesn't have to hold an individual back from socializing, and he shows readers how to instead use it to their advantage.
Rather than immediately throwing introverts into extreme situations that may make them uncomfortable, many of the suggestions offered in this book are realistic and easily attainable, focusing on small steps rather than large leaps. The author maintains that introversion doesn't have to hold an individual back from socializing, and he shows readers how to instead use it to their advantage.
February 18, 2015
It was short and sweet, really easy to read with good advice on meeting and engaging with new people.
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