It gave me a general overview about my idenity. But it wasn't that good of a story and not much new stuff to learn for me... I don't recommend it I think they're way more better books about this genre.
At the beginning I wasn’t too sure about this one, but Larry is really onto something here. After the first few chapters, I was hooked. This is going back on my bookshelf to keep for reference.
Have you ever asked yourself any of these eight questions? *Who am I? *What makes me special? *Is there a pattern to my life? *Where am I going? *What is my gift? *Who can I trust? *What is my message? *Will my life be rich?
If so, _The Identity Code_ can help you further explore the answers. To do so, the author presents the following eight "laws of identity" and their associated tasks and guiding principles:
I. The Law of Being ---An individual's ability to live depends first upon defining one's self as separate from all others. *Task: Know who you are by defining yourself as separate from all others. *Guiding principle: "I am alone; I am free to be who I am." (p. 55)
II. The Law of Individuality ---A person's natural capacities invariably fuse into a discernible identity that makes that person unique. *Task: Learn what makes you special by unearthing what you love. *Guiding principle: "I am unique." (p. 69)
III. The Law of Constancy ---Identity is fixed, transcending time and place, while its manifestations are constantly changing. *Task: Find the pattern to your life by making the connections that explain past events and foreshadow your future. *Guiding principle: "I am immutable, even as I grow and evolve." (p. 82)
IV. The Law of Will ---Every individual is compelled to create value in accordance with his or her identity. *Task: Understand where you are going by committing to the path revealed in what you've learned so far. *Guiding principle: "To live, I must express myself fully." (p. 97)
V. The Law of Possibility ---Identity foreshadows potential. *Task: Discover your gift by following the signs of joy. *Guiding principle: "I have much to give." (p. 111)
VI. The Law of Relationship ---Individuals are inherently relational and relationships are only as strong as the natural alignment between the identities of the participants. *Task: Know who you can trust by taking stock of who matters and why. *Guiding principle: "I need others and am most productive with those who need me in return." (p. 132)
VII. The Law of Comprehension ---An individual's various capacities are only as valuable as the perceived value of the whole of that individual. *Task: Figure out your message by declaring yourself on the strength of your gift. *Guiding principle: "To establish meaningful relationships, I must first be recognized for who I am." (p. 153)
VII. The Law of the Cycle ---Identity governs value, which produces wealth, which fuels identity. *Task: Determine whether your life will be rich, by surrendering to the pull of identity. *Guiding principle: "I will receive in accordance with what I give." (p. 172)
Using these eight laws of identity, _The Identity Code_ revolves around helping a person become more of who they already are. Although the approach is nicely presented and summarized in the above eight steps, the actual process is a complex, dynamic, and life-long one. As the author states: "Authenticity is what identity is all about" (p. 27), and the book provides great framework for beginning to really question who you are--and are not.
The Identity Code is a must-read book for individuals interested in self-discovery, self-knowledge, and ultimately, living an authentic and purposeful life that benefits everyone they touch. I especially love the passage, Follow the signs of joy, in Chapter Five. It’s by being aware of, and recognizing what brings a deep smile to our faces and warmth to our hearts that lead to meaningful living. It was a joy to have had a conversation with Larry Ackerman during a podcast interview! His presence reflected his commitment to change lives.
There are lots of books on identity; this one was recommended by a fellow speaker at a recent conference. The speaker was cranky but interesting, so I bought the book.
It was a disappointment. It's superficial and certainly not as good as The Artist's Way (Cameron), for my money the best book of this sort by far -- even for non-artists.
I read this book at the recommendation of a woman during an interesting session at the Life Rocks conference this year. Most of it seemed like work I have already been doing. The final third of the book held some new-to-me ideas and proved rather inspiring. Overall it is well-conceived and written, and I recommend it.
Again someone who's convinced he's "discovered" these "natural" "laws" this time concerning identity... but bottom line, he's not saying anything new. Start here or with any other book - just don't swallow everything hook line & sinker...