What do you think?
Rate this book
Text Him This Not That | Texting Tips To Build Attraction and Shorten His Response Time!
Your First Text Could be Your Last! Why? Because most women text guys like they text other women.
You can have all the dating skills in place but if your texting sucks he's gone. STOP! Understand the male brain so your texting captures his attention and keeps him hooked and attentive until the next date. To understand his mind, you need a top male dating coach.
Hi I'm Gregg. I write books based on your needs. Thousands of you bought and read Power Texting Men so you are killing it already. Now, let's step it up a notch with texting for the more mature crowd, regardless of your age. This texting book is for you.
By the end of this texting book, your competition for him is toast - he's into you
As a woman, you have a built-in ability to be charming. You deliver a look or you use a certain tone of voice and you're able to work your way with men. In an instant, you can melt a man's heart.
When you meet a man you're attracted to, you turn on that charm, you deliver a coy smile, you walk away and he's hooked. Yet, when it comes to texting, you're all thumbs. You're anxious and you feel incompetent. You lose all confidence.
As a result, you text instinctively, like a woman, which is the natural thing for you to do. You can quickly get emotional and frustrated when he doesn't respond as soon as you would like. You might bomb him with texts, getting more worried with each one.
All this emotion, anger and frustration is normal. Your flirting skills have evolved over millions of years. Flirting comes as naturally to you as flight to a bird. When you're standing face-to-face with a man, you're good but when you're facing the tiny screen on your phone, you're perplexed.
That's because you expect him to respond like your girlfriends do.
Guy's don't! We never evolved!
Inside Text Him This Not That is not just how to formulate a great text but how to understand the male mind. This is as much about learning how his mind works as it is about learning how to formulate texts he can't resist. How can you communicate with him if you don't understand what he's looking for or what turns him on?
Here's what you will learn inside:
The catch me if you can mentality and why it works
The 10 rules of engagement that gets him to respond consistently and fast
How to build attraction by destroying boredom and shattering all things conventional!
How to revive a man who is texting less and less
The texting blunders and how to avoid them
What to text him so he asks you out
The power of delaying, radio silence, and texting like his best friend texts him
Text examples that are so unique that he will want more!
And a ton more!
About the Author:
Gregg Michaelsen is a #1 best-selling author of more than 20 dating advice for women books and life coaching books. He coaches men and women on how to become more confident in both their regular and dating lives.
He has a unique connection to the more than 250,000 readers who have purchased his books. Readers quickly discover him to be not only responsive to their questions but eager to help. He has devoted his life to understanding men and women and what comprises a successful relationship so he can guide his readers to the holy grail of relationships - the 80-year old couple sitting on a park bench, still holding hands, still in love after 50 years!
You can have all the dating skills in place but if your texting sucks he's gone. STOP! Understand the male brain so your texting captures his attention and keeps him hooked and attentive until the next date. To understand his mind, you need a top male dating coach.
Hi I'm Gregg. I write books based on your needs. Thousands of you bought and read Power Texting Men so you are killing it already. Now, let's step it up a notch with texting for the more mature crowd, regardless of your age. This texting book is for you.
By the end of this texting book, your competition for him is toast - he's into you
As a woman, you have a built-in ability to be charming. You deliver a look or you use a certain tone of voice and you're able to work your way with men. In an instant, you can melt a man's heart.
When you meet a man you're attracted to, you turn on that charm, you deliver a coy smile, you walk away and he's hooked. Yet, when it comes to texting, you're all thumbs. You're anxious and you feel incompetent. You lose all confidence.
As a result, you text instinctively, like a woman, which is the natural thing for you to do. You can quickly get emotional and frustrated when he doesn't respond as soon as you would like. You might bomb him with texts, getting more worried with each one.
All this emotion, anger and frustration is normal. Your flirting skills have evolved over millions of years. Flirting comes as naturally to you as flight to a bird. When you're standing face-to-face with a man, you're good but when you're facing the tiny screen on your phone, you're perplexed.
That's because you expect him to respond like your girlfriends do.
Guy's don't! We never evolved!
Inside Text Him This Not That is not just how to formulate a great text but how to understand the male mind. This is as much about learning how his mind works as it is about learning how to formulate texts he can't resist. How can you communicate with him if you don't understand what he's looking for or what turns him on?
Here's what you will learn inside:
The catch me if you can mentality and why it works
The 10 rules of engagement that gets him to respond consistently and fast
How to build attraction by destroying boredom and shattering all things conventional!
How to revive a man who is texting less and less
The texting blunders and how to avoid them
What to text him so he asks you out
The power of delaying, radio silence, and texting like his best friend texts him
Text examples that are so unique that he will want more!
And a ton more!
About the Author:
Gregg Michaelsen is a #1 best-selling author of more than 20 dating advice for women books and life coaching books. He coaches men and women on how to become more confident in both their regular and dating lives.
He has a unique connection to the more than 250,000 readers who have purchased his books. Readers quickly discover him to be not only responsive to their questions but eager to help. He has devoted his life to understanding men and women and what comprises a successful relationship so he can guide his readers to the holy grail of relationships - the 80-year old couple sitting on a park bench, still holding hands, still in love after 50 years!
- GenresNonfictionSelf Help
ebook
Published July 14, 2018
149 people are currently reading
283 people want to read
About the author
Gregg Michaelsen
42 books59 followersGregg Michaelsen is the author of To Date a Man You Must Understand a Man, which is a best selling book on Amazon with hundreds of positive reviews. He has multiple #1 best sellers on Amazon in the dating advice for women genre. Gregg has sold over 300,000 books to date. He is a dating and life coach. Mr. Michaelsen encourages women to contact him through his books so he can help them directly. Gregg recently teamed up with world renowned Dr. Helen Fisher in NYC to help women better understand the male mind. Gregg is out in the trenches helping women (and men) reach their goals and find lasting love. Call him Hitch or call him Gregg, but call him…he changes lives for the better.
Ratings & Reviews
Friends & Following
Create a free account to discover what your friends think of this book!
Community Reviews
Displaying 1 - 16 of 16 reviews
July 31, 2018
"As a woman, you have a built-in ability to be charming... yet when it comes to texting, you're all thumbs."
The goal of this book is to teach women, from a man's perspective, what you're doing wrong when texting a new guy and what you should be texting. There's dating advice mingled throughout, but overall, I felt like the book was a tad repetitive. There were a lot of good points, especially regarding the quantity of texts and when to NOT text him back and just let it go. I confess that in the past I have been guilty of a few of the no-no's mentioned. Texting is such a difficult thing to grasp in dating. How much is too much? Is this okay to say? Why isn't he texting back? and so on. This book, however, feels more like an essay and there are a lot of plug-ins for his other books. It's a quick read with some good tips and information, but I felt like it was lacking something.
The goal of this book is to teach women, from a man's perspective, what you're doing wrong when texting a new guy and what you should be texting. There's dating advice mingled throughout, but overall, I felt like the book was a tad repetitive. There were a lot of good points, especially regarding the quantity of texts and when to NOT text him back and just let it go. I confess that in the past I have been guilty of a few of the no-no's mentioned. Texting is such a difficult thing to grasp in dating. How much is too much? Is this okay to say? Why isn't he texting back? and so on. This book, however, feels more like an essay and there are a lot of plug-ins for his other books. It's a quick read with some good tips and information, but I felt like it was lacking something.
February 14, 2024
A female perspective!
Would've given 5 stars however redundancies existed throughout the book (which is hilarious since men prefer less) and it lacked many of the complexities faced in actual online dating world today. Otherwise, a very insightful read to understanding the male brain relative to texting in the online dating world!
Examples throughout the book are on-par but could be expanded by relating to more in-depth modern day situations! For instance, how to handle men pushing sexting (and nudes) as well as men asking trap questions like: what are you looking for (in a relationship sense), why are you single, how many men have you been with, do you have children, are you an animal lover, are you open-minded (aka ethical non-monogamy), are you vanilla (aka sexually uninhibited), etc. I think a female perspective on this would be helpful. As well more topics could be developed on what not to say such as: refrain from mentioning (or comparing) other men, exes or serious topics like marriage. Maybe even address more topics not to discuss that are too personal in nature as well!
Would've given 5 stars however redundancies existed throughout the book (which is hilarious since men prefer less) and it lacked many of the complexities faced in actual online dating world today. Otherwise, a very insightful read to understanding the male brain relative to texting in the online dating world!
Examples throughout the book are on-par but could be expanded by relating to more in-depth modern day situations! For instance, how to handle men pushing sexting (and nudes) as well as men asking trap questions like: what are you looking for (in a relationship sense), why are you single, how many men have you been with, do you have children, are you an animal lover, are you open-minded (aka ethical non-monogamy), are you vanilla (aka sexually uninhibited), etc. I think a female perspective on this would be helpful. As well more topics could be developed on what not to say such as: refrain from mentioning (or comparing) other men, exes or serious topics like marriage. Maybe even address more topics not to discuss that are too personal in nature as well!
August 14, 2018
Must Read!
If you’re over the age of 30, PLEASE READ THIS! Lots of great examples of real life stuff- I feel so much more so much more confident as a successful women in my 40’s texting now!!! I don’t need to run every single text a guy I like sends me by my 21 year old son!! I’m now enjoying middle age and kicking it! Thank you Greg!
If you’re over the age of 30, PLEASE READ THIS! Lots of great examples of real life stuff- I feel so much more so much more confident as a successful women in my 40’s texting now!!! I don’t need to run every single text a guy I like sends me by my 21 year old son!! I’m now enjoying middle age and kicking it! Thank you Greg!
June 20, 2023
Are you feeling let down by your lover, are you disappointed by what he / she is doing, you feel brokenhearted, frustrated, or you feel you are into toxic relationship, your partner having Extramarital affair Dr Udoh is willing to also help you with your problem
👇👇👇👇👇
https://www.facebook.com/DR-UDOH-5305...
👇👇👇👇👇
https://www.facebook.com/DR-UDOH-5305...
August 2, 2018
Received this book in a giveway here on goodreads. It actually opened my eyes to the mistakes I have done before while texting the opposite gender. I'm hoping to use these texting tips in the near future!
September 6, 2018
Fun read
I wish I had read this book in my 20s! I would probably have had much more fun and much less drama with the guys I dated :) I definitely recommend this book to women of all ages and in all stages of dating.
I wish I had read this book in my 20s! I would probably have had much more fun and much less drama with the guys I dated :) I definitely recommend this book to women of all ages and in all stages of dating.
June 19, 2023
It was great having my husband back after separation a year ago this have brought happiness in my life,this have always been what I have always wished for in my life and I got it so easy through the help of
👇👇👇
https://www.facebook.com/DR-UDOH-5305...
👇👇👇
https://www.facebook.com/DR-UDOH-5305...
July 21, 2018
Good info. Wish I read it sooner...
This book is interesting, easy to rid, simple info for our current times. I will definitely put it into play.
This book is interesting, easy to rid, simple info for our current times. I will definitely put it into play.
August 19, 2018
This was a cute book with some good advice. I am giving to my daughter.
May 7, 2019
Good Read
It's interesting to see things from a male perspective. Some of the things mentioned, I am guilty of and breaking old habits is key to changing things.
It's interesting to see things from a male perspective. Some of the things mentioned, I am guilty of and breaking old habits is key to changing things.
November 8, 2019
Highly recommended
Love Greg’s books. Started implementing his advice. I love he gives you action steps to take so you can start right away.
Love Greg’s books. Started implementing his advice. I love he gives you action steps to take so you can start right away.
January 17, 2021
A must read!
This book will really help you understand the men point of view of why don't text back right way. It help understand the men brain a little bit.
This book will really help you understand the men point of view of why don't text back right way. It help understand the men brain a little bit.
July 27, 2018
Amazingly insightful viewpoint of the male side of communication.It very much does help to understand the differences in the way men and women think and learn to find common ground.Speaking for any female like me who has struggled with feeling like I'm never going to understand why men do what they do this has been an eye opening extremely helpful guide and I will definitely use many of these techniques going forward.I was given a copy of this book for an honest review namaste
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
August 21, 2018
I won this as a goodreads giveway. I'm not in the dating pool or looking (just so that's clear). I do however have adult children and their friends who I like to give my two cents about how I would have handled or written a text. So I thought it would be great to win this book and get another perspective. I found it informative and I will certainly pass on some of the pointers when asked.
February 21, 2019
It is boring!
September 9, 2018
Interesting tips and advice regardless of age or if dating.
Displaying 1 - 16 of 16 reviews