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Life and Other Inconveniences
Emma London never thought she had anything in common with her grandmother Genevieve London. The regal old woman came from wealthy and bluest-blood New England stock, but that didn't protect her from life's cruelest blows: the disappearance of Genevieve's young son, followed by the premature death of her husband. But Genevieve rose from those ashes of grief and built a fashion empire that was respected the world over, even when it meant neglecting her other son.
When Emma's own mother died, her father abandoned her on his mother's doorstep. Genevieve took Emma in and reluctantly raised her--until Emma got pregnant her senior year of high school. Genevieve kicked her out with nothing but the clothes on her back...but Emma took with her the most important London possession: the strength not just to survive but to thrive. And indeed, Emma has built a wonderful life for herself and her teenage daughter, Riley.
So what is Emma to do when Genevieve does the one thing Emma never expected of her and, after not speaking to her for nearly two decades, calls and asks for help?
When Emma's own mother died, her father abandoned her on his mother's doorstep. Genevieve took Emma in and reluctantly raised her--until Emma got pregnant her senior year of high school. Genevieve kicked her out with nothing but the clothes on her back...but Emma took with her the most important London possession: the strength not just to survive but to thrive. And indeed, Emma has built a wonderful life for herself and her teenage daughter, Riley.
So what is Emma to do when Genevieve does the one thing Emma never expected of her and, after not speaking to her for nearly two decades, calls and asks for help?
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First published August 6, 2019
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Kristan Higgins
60 books12.8k followersKristan Higgins is the New York Times, USA TODAY and Publishers Weekly bestselling author of more than twenty novels, which have been translated into more than two dozen languages and have sold millions of copies worldwide. If you want to receive a free short story and be notified when Kristan releases a new book, sign up at kristanhiggins.com.
Kristan enjoys gardening, mixology, the National Parks and complimenting strangers on their children. The mother of two entertaining and wonderful humans, and the grandmother of one perfect child, Kristan lives in Connecticut with her heroic firefighter husband, cuddly dog and indifferent cat.
Kristan enjoys gardening, mixology, the National Parks and complimenting strangers on their children. The mother of two entertaining and wonderful humans, and the grandmother of one perfect child, Kristan lives in Connecticut with her heroic firefighter husband, cuddly dog and indifferent cat.
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August 30, 2019
At some point, we have to acknowledge that relationships are messier and far more complicated than any romantic comedy would have us believe, that's just life. And here, with her 19th release, Kristan Higgins does just that. Life and Other Inconveniences quells those idealistic notions of love and family that all too easily take shape in our minds, opting instead for characters with candor, scarred hearts and a sense of resiliency.
Over the last few years, Higgins has pivoted away from the light and fun love stories—romances that have garnered hordes of fans—in favor of exploring heavier topics in the women's fiction space. Life and Other Inconveniences, her fifth novel along this newfound path, proves to be the most heart-rending yet. While Higgins' signature humor makes a few cameos along the way (just picture getting mixer whisks caught in your hair!), longtime fans will likely note the lack of chuckle-inducing scenes. Sadness proving to be the potent emotion.
From go, Emma, a 37-year-old, single-mother, is best described as likable. Reminiscent of Lorelai and Rory’s relationship from Gilmore Girls, Emma and her sixteen-year-old daughter Riley have a strong bond, one steeped in trust. Despite the struggles of raising Riley, mostly on her own, Emma is fiercely determined to give her daughter the best life. So, it’s on the promise of an inheritance for Riley, which would ensure a debt-free college experience, that Emma decides to return to Sheerwater for the summer. And against her gut reaction, agreeing to help out her uber-wealthy and critical grandmother, Genevieve. The very woman that turned her back when Emma needed her most. Readers should brace themselves for a summer of revelations.
While the majority of the story unfolds from Emma and Genevieve’s perspective, Riley and one of Genevieve’s neighbors, Miller (more on him in a minute), are given the opportunity to garner the affection of readers with a few chapters of their own. There is also an extensive cast of secondary characters to keep up with, but that’s ultimately what this novel delivers, people that will make you care, despite their cruel approach or other quirks. Higgins pulls this off with the frankness of her characters as they unpack their emotional baggage.
For me, it was Miller and his plight as a single-father to a trying 3-year-old that stole my breath. The conflicting thoughts running through his mind were unabashed and raw, yet understandable given the hand he was dealt. And while you won’t find this novel shelved in the romance section, his heart still managed to steal mine. *swoon*
I had hoped my assumptions early on in this endeavor would ring true—that I'd be labeling this a new favorite—but the novel isn’t without flaws. Namely, the sheer predictability of the storyline and pacing inconsistencies felt throughout the back half. Although, neither enough to detract from the memorable cast or the message bestowed on readers. Ultimately, it's our approach to the world—in spite of the hurt and heartache we've experienced—that dictates the quality of life we lead. It's an overarching theme Higgins continues to explore with her characters as of late, and honestly, a place she thrives.
If you’re a new Higgins fan and find yourself wondering where to head next, I suggest starting with If You Only Knew, On Second Thought or Now That You Mention It. Although, fair warning, you might get the hankering to go back and devour them all (hehehehe), like I did.
*A huge THANK YOU to Berkley Publishing for sending my treasured review copy, which in no way influenced my rating or the thoughts I shared here. ♥
Over the last few years, Higgins has pivoted away from the light and fun love stories—romances that have garnered hordes of fans—in favor of exploring heavier topics in the women's fiction space. Life and Other Inconveniences, her fifth novel along this newfound path, proves to be the most heart-rending yet. While Higgins' signature humor makes a few cameos along the way (just picture getting mixer whisks caught in your hair!), longtime fans will likely note the lack of chuckle-inducing scenes. Sadness proving to be the potent emotion.
From go, Emma, a 37-year-old, single-mother, is best described as likable. Reminiscent of Lorelai and Rory’s relationship from Gilmore Girls, Emma and her sixteen-year-old daughter Riley have a strong bond, one steeped in trust. Despite the struggles of raising Riley, mostly on her own, Emma is fiercely determined to give her daughter the best life. So, it’s on the promise of an inheritance for Riley, which would ensure a debt-free college experience, that Emma decides to return to Sheerwater for the summer. And against her gut reaction, agreeing to help out her uber-wealthy and critical grandmother, Genevieve. The very woman that turned her back when Emma needed her most. Readers should brace themselves for a summer of revelations.
While the majority of the story unfolds from Emma and Genevieve’s perspective, Riley and one of Genevieve’s neighbors, Miller (more on him in a minute), are given the opportunity to garner the affection of readers with a few chapters of their own. There is also an extensive cast of secondary characters to keep up with, but that’s ultimately what this novel delivers, people that will make you care, despite their cruel approach or other quirks. Higgins pulls this off with the frankness of her characters as they unpack their emotional baggage.
For me, it was Miller and his plight as a single-father to a trying 3-year-old that stole my breath. The conflicting thoughts running through his mind were unabashed and raw, yet understandable given the hand he was dealt. And while you won’t find this novel shelved in the romance section, his heart still managed to steal mine. *swoon*
I had hoped my assumptions early on in this endeavor would ring true—that I'd be labeling this a new favorite—but the novel isn’t without flaws. Namely, the sheer predictability of the storyline and pacing inconsistencies felt throughout the back half. Although, neither enough to detract from the memorable cast or the message bestowed on readers. Ultimately, it's our approach to the world—in spite of the hurt and heartache we've experienced—that dictates the quality of life we lead. It's an overarching theme Higgins continues to explore with her characters as of late, and honestly, a place she thrives.
If you’re a new Higgins fan and find yourself wondering where to head next, I suggest starting with If You Only Knew, On Second Thought or Now That You Mention It. Although, fair warning, you might get the hankering to go back and devour them all (hehehehe), like I did.
*A huge THANK YOU to Berkley Publishing for sending my treasured review copy, which in no way influenced my rating or the thoughts I shared here. ♥
October 15, 2019
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Soooo awesome!!!
I LOVED Kristan Higgins's previous novel “Good Luck with That”. I was a little worried that this novel wouldn’t thrill me as much as GLWT did. I worried for nothing as right from the start; I was hooked on this story.
Emma London is a therapist who works from home counseling people online. Working from home gives Emma more time to spend with her sixteen-year-old daughter, Riley. Emma and Riley have a great relationship, but Emma has noticed changes in her daughter over the last year. She tries not to over-analyze Riley, but she still worries.
Emma is walking past an empty storefront one day and sees an advertisement in the window. There is a picture of a pink purse with the words Genevieve London Designs Coming Soon! The sign takes Emma back to her childhood. Genevieve London is her grandmother, a woman she has tried hard to forget. That evening, Emma's landline rings. She's surprised when she hears her grandmother's voice.
“I’m dying, so you have to come home and do your familial duty. Bring your child.“
Emma can't believe Genevieve has the nerve to talk about family and duty. She tries to tell herself that she doesn’t care what happens to Genevieve. She remembers how unloved and unwanted she felt as a child. She also remembers the things Genevieve said to her the last time they spoke. Does her grandmother think that she can buy forgiveness?
“We couldn’t go. We shouldn’t go. We weren’t going to go.“
But after an incident between Riley and some girls at school, Emma wonders if a change of scenery might be good for both of them.
85-year-old, Genevieve London used to be beautiful, wealthy, and well-known but now people barely recognize her. She hates getting old. Genevieve had been a good wife and mother. Then tragedy struck. She did not fall apart (on the outside at least). She went on and became a style icon and industry leader. But she knows she made mistakes.
How will Emma cope with her feelings for her grandmother? Will Genevieve connect with the great-granddaughter she’s just met and help build a bridge to forgiveness with the granddaughter she drove away so many years ago?
This was an incredible story!!!
My emotions were all over the place as I read this novel. I was laughing out loud one minute and wiping tears away the next. At times it was gut-wrenching and raw…and I loved it!
The majority of the story is told from Emma and Genevieve’s perspective but we also hear from many other terrific characters. The interaction between characters was incredibly entertaining. There were a few different storylines but I thought they all meshed so well. I became attached to many of the characters and I didn’t want to let them go.
Kristan Higgins is phenomenal when it comes to writing about relationships. In this novel, the issues around motherhood and parenting were so relatable.
This story touches on many important issues like mental illness, grief, abandonment, suicide, forgiveness, etc.
I can't wait for another novel from this author!
I'd like to thank Berkley Books for providing me with a copy of this novel. All opinions are my own.
October 20, 2019
5 “All The Feels” Stars!
The lives and loves of the characters in “Life and Other Inconveniences” will touch your heart, making you cry one minute and laugh hysterically the next.
Single mother Emma London has never had it easy. Losing her mom when she was a girl, she knows struggle and yet, she is a happy, hopeful person and who has instilled that love into her teenage daughter Riley. If only life was actually like, a box of chocolates. When things spin out of control for Riley, Emma knows she has to take action.
Then there’s Genevieve London, extremely wealthy, cold, rude, selfish and snobby. The matriarch of the family who lost her husband and son years ago and who has closed herself off to almost everyone in her life. In one heck of a bind, she realizes she needs help. Who doe she call? Emma. The granddaughter she kicked out at eighteen years of age when she found out she was pregnant and hasn’t spoken to since. Sounds like a grand plan right?
When Emma gets the call from Genevieve, she knows what she has to do. After all, Emma always put everyone else’s happiness ahead of her own.
Miller is a single father, raising Tess, the little hellion. She tests his patience every second of every day and yet he never loses his. His sense of humor is bar none, the best and it got me and got me good. This man made my heart go all a flutter! (Yes, Melissa, it’s true. I got all schmoopy when it came to Miller and I wished he was the real deal.. sigh.. if only!)
This, right here, my friends, is quite the novel! It is a story with heart and it has ALL THE FEELS! I read this with Kaceey (of course) and there were quite a few moments where we got teary. This is a story about family, parenthood, friendship, love, and grief and the devastating impact it has on those it touches. There were moments when Kaceey and I cried and then thankfully we turned the page and we laughed, and laughed some more. Thank goodness for the laughter!! Kristan Higgins your ability to make readers cry one minute and laugh with wild abandon the next is such a gift and I thank you for it. You hit this one out of the park and I can’t wait for your next release. It was an honor to meet you at your book discussion at RJ Julia Bookseller on the night of this books’ release.
Thank you Ms. Kaceey for reading this book with me! I am so grateful that we got to read this one together.
Thank you to Elisha at Berkley Publishing Group and Kristan Higgins for the arc.
Published on Goodreads, Amazon and Twitter on 9.2.19.
Excerpt published on Instagram.
The lives and loves of the characters in “Life and Other Inconveniences” will touch your heart, making you cry one minute and laugh hysterically the next.
Single mother Emma London has never had it easy. Losing her mom when she was a girl, she knows struggle and yet, she is a happy, hopeful person and who has instilled that love into her teenage daughter Riley. If only life was actually like, a box of chocolates. When things spin out of control for Riley, Emma knows she has to take action.
Then there’s Genevieve London, extremely wealthy, cold, rude, selfish and snobby. The matriarch of the family who lost her husband and son years ago and who has closed herself off to almost everyone in her life. In one heck of a bind, she realizes she needs help. Who doe she call? Emma. The granddaughter she kicked out at eighteen years of age when she found out she was pregnant and hasn’t spoken to since. Sounds like a grand plan right?
When Emma gets the call from Genevieve, she knows what she has to do. After all, Emma always put everyone else’s happiness ahead of her own.
Miller is a single father, raising Tess, the little hellion. She tests his patience every second of every day and yet he never loses his. His sense of humor is bar none, the best and it got me and got me good. This man made my heart go all a flutter! (Yes, Melissa, it’s true. I got all schmoopy when it came to Miller and I wished he was the real deal.. sigh.. if only!)
This, right here, my friends, is quite the novel! It is a story with heart and it has ALL THE FEELS! I read this with Kaceey (of course) and there were quite a few moments where we got teary. This is a story about family, parenthood, friendship, love, and grief and the devastating impact it has on those it touches. There were moments when Kaceey and I cried and then thankfully we turned the page and we laughed, and laughed some more. Thank goodness for the laughter!! Kristan Higgins your ability to make readers cry one minute and laugh with wild abandon the next is such a gift and I thank you for it. You hit this one out of the park and I can’t wait for your next release. It was an honor to meet you at your book discussion at RJ Julia Bookseller on the night of this books’ release.
Thank you Ms. Kaceey for reading this book with me! I am so grateful that we got to read this one together.
Thank you to Elisha at Berkley Publishing Group and Kristan Higgins for the arc.
Published on Goodreads, Amazon and Twitter on 9.2.19.
Excerpt published on Instagram.
September 2, 2019
Loved, Loved, Loved it!
What a beautiful, heartwarming read, filled with endearing, witty, and oh so human characters. It will leave you laughing and crying! Frequently at the same time!
Emma was raised by her grandmother since the age of 4. She was now set to finish high school and begin college. But as often happens, life had a plan of its own. Including a surprising pregnancy! Emma’s grandmother Gigi could not accept this massive change of plans and Emma suddenly found herself booted out of the house.
Now Emma is raising her own daughter Riley, and helping her navigate through those difficult teenage years.
Emma receives a call from Gigi saying she’s very ill. Gigi’s pleading with her to come home to Connecticut for the summer with Riley - the great granddaughter she’s never met.
Maybe it’s time to go home, but forgiveness may be another matter!
This was my first read by Kristan Higgins. I was hesitant to jump in, since this is a more heavily based contemporary fiction than I’m used to. But all I can say is, SUPERB! I never wanted this book to end. So beautifully written. I was captivated by every word and felt every emotion.
I cannot wait to read another book by Ms. Higgins!
An emotional buddy read with Susanne that we both loved!
Thank you to Elisha at Berkley Publishing for an advanced copy of this amazing book.
What a beautiful, heartwarming read, filled with endearing, witty, and oh so human characters. It will leave you laughing and crying! Frequently at the same time!
Emma was raised by her grandmother since the age of 4. She was now set to finish high school and begin college. But as often happens, life had a plan of its own. Including a surprising pregnancy! Emma’s grandmother Gigi could not accept this massive change of plans and Emma suddenly found herself booted out of the house.
Now Emma is raising her own daughter Riley, and helping her navigate through those difficult teenage years.
Emma receives a call from Gigi saying she’s very ill. Gigi’s pleading with her to come home to Connecticut for the summer with Riley - the great granddaughter she’s never met.
Maybe it’s time to go home, but forgiveness may be another matter!
This was my first read by Kristan Higgins. I was hesitant to jump in, since this is a more heavily based contemporary fiction than I’m used to. But all I can say is, SUPERB! I never wanted this book to end. So beautifully written. I was captivated by every word and felt every emotion.
I cannot wait to read another book by Ms. Higgins!
An emotional buddy read with Susanne that we both loved!
Thank you to Elisha at Berkley Publishing for an advanced copy of this amazing book.
August 26, 2019
Affecting, emotional, & expressive!
I am a fairly new reader of KRISTAN HIGGINS, I have only read one of her previous novels, NOW THAT YOU MENTION IT and absolutely loved it. So I was extremely eager to read her latest offering here with LIFE AND OTHER INCONVENIENCES. I have read a few reviews where they have mentioned that this book isn’t written in her signature humorous style. So without really knowing her signature style I thought it was an extremely balanced read that produced the perfect mixture of emotions from me which included some laugh-out-loud ones from a few comical scenes.
LIFE AND OTHER INCONVENIENCES by KRISTAN HIGGINS is a touching, impactful, powerful, insightful, and moving story that immediately captured my attention and my heart. I was totally immersed in these characters lives which had me smiling, laughing, happy, sad, and even shed a few tears over the course of reading this emotionally captivating story and in the end, it left me with feelings of such warmth in my heart.
KRISTAN HIGGINS delivers a beautifully written, engaging, and heartfelt story here with absolutely wonderful, relatable and compelling characters. With the fantastic characterizations the emotions and compassion that you feel for these characters are extremely palpable and easily be fully invested in.
The story is told mostly between the perspectives of Genevieve, Riley and Emma with a few chapters from some secondary characters. Although I totally loved each and every perspective equally, I had a fondness for Miller and thoroughly enjoyed him and his story.
*Traveling Friends Read*
Norma’s Stats:
Cover: Affecting, intriguing, heartfelt, peaceful, eye-catching, and an impactful representation to storyline.
Title: An impactful and powerful title!!
Writing/Prose: Well-written, beautiful, captivating, expressive, skilled, and proficient.
Plot: Suspenseful, thought-provoking, heartbreaking, heartwarming, insightful, perfectly-paced, amusing, enjoyable and extremely entertaining.
Ending: Bittersweet, satisfying, and heartwarming that definitely made me pause, reflect and contemplate.
Overall: This book contained all the elements that I absolutely love in my books. Would highly recommend!
Thank you so much to Elisha at Berkley Publishing for the opportunity to read an advanced copy of this beautiful book.
This review can also be found on Two Sisters Lost in a Coulee Reading:
https://twosisterslostinacoulee.com/2...
I am a fairly new reader of KRISTAN HIGGINS, I have only read one of her previous novels, NOW THAT YOU MENTION IT and absolutely loved it. So I was extremely eager to read her latest offering here with LIFE AND OTHER INCONVENIENCES. I have read a few reviews where they have mentioned that this book isn’t written in her signature humorous style. So without really knowing her signature style I thought it was an extremely balanced read that produced the perfect mixture of emotions from me which included some laugh-out-loud ones from a few comical scenes.
LIFE AND OTHER INCONVENIENCES by KRISTAN HIGGINS is a touching, impactful, powerful, insightful, and moving story that immediately captured my attention and my heart. I was totally immersed in these characters lives which had me smiling, laughing, happy, sad, and even shed a few tears over the course of reading this emotionally captivating story and in the end, it left me with feelings of such warmth in my heart.
KRISTAN HIGGINS delivers a beautifully written, engaging, and heartfelt story here with absolutely wonderful, relatable and compelling characters. With the fantastic characterizations the emotions and compassion that you feel for these characters are extremely palpable and easily be fully invested in.
The story is told mostly between the perspectives of Genevieve, Riley and Emma with a few chapters from some secondary characters. Although I totally loved each and every perspective equally, I had a fondness for Miller and thoroughly enjoyed him and his story.
*Traveling Friends Read*
Norma’s Stats:
Cover: Affecting, intriguing, heartfelt, peaceful, eye-catching, and an impactful representation to storyline.
Title: An impactful and powerful title!!
Writing/Prose: Well-written, beautiful, captivating, expressive, skilled, and proficient.
Plot: Suspenseful, thought-provoking, heartbreaking, heartwarming, insightful, perfectly-paced, amusing, enjoyable and extremely entertaining.
Ending: Bittersweet, satisfying, and heartwarming that definitely made me pause, reflect and contemplate.
Overall: This book contained all the elements that I absolutely love in my books. Would highly recommend!
Thank you so much to Elisha at Berkley Publishing for the opportunity to read an advanced copy of this beautiful book.
This review can also be found on Two Sisters Lost in a Coulee Reading:
https://twosisterslostinacoulee.com/2...
October 16, 2020
Life and Other Inconveniences by Kristan Higgins is a 2019 Berkley publication.
A Touching and entertaining story!
Genevieve is facing a challenge that, for once, money can not fix. She calls her estranged granddaughter, Emma, explaining her situation, and demands she return home.
After decades of not speaking to each other, Emma is having none of it. But when Emma’s teenage daughter, Riley, hits a rough patch, she decides a change of scenery might do her good.
To that end, Emma returns home to face the woman who kicked her out when she needed her most, to make peace with her past- and maybe to carve out a different future for herself and Riley in the process.
This is just the kind of story I needed, at just the right time. To put it into context- I am severely behind on my reviews, and the truth is, I read this book a couple of months ago.
I needed a story that had depth and humor, and punched all the right emotional buttons, without being too heavy and this book fit the bill perfectly!!
I was immediately drawn in by Emma and Riley as a mother and daughter team, then found myself more charmed, and impressed by Riley, who was able to penetrate the barriers between her mother and Genevieve, becoming something of a gentle go between, or moderator, unlocking the doors of communication resulting in a little more understanding of the other person’s position.
While the novel explores important issues, such as bullying and paternal roles- regret, acceptance, grief, and forgiveness are the core themes of the novel.
There are many thought provoking elements here, but despite some weighty topics, Higgins keeps the tone on the lighter side. The passages between Riley and Genevieve are some of the most revealing, poignant and funny parts in the book.
The romantic elements are also light and realistic, with plenty of charm and chemistry, but mostly runs in the background for much of the novel.
While I have enjoyed Kristan Higgins work in the past, for some reason her novels tend to languish on my TBR list for ages, despite my best intentions.
I really need to work on that!!
Other than a bit of strong language, here and there, I think this is a book anyone could enjoy!
4 stars
A Touching and entertaining story!
Genevieve is facing a challenge that, for once, money can not fix. She calls her estranged granddaughter, Emma, explaining her situation, and demands she return home.
After decades of not speaking to each other, Emma is having none of it. But when Emma’s teenage daughter, Riley, hits a rough patch, she decides a change of scenery might do her good.
To that end, Emma returns home to face the woman who kicked her out when she needed her most, to make peace with her past- and maybe to carve out a different future for herself and Riley in the process.
This is just the kind of story I needed, at just the right time. To put it into context- I am severely behind on my reviews, and the truth is, I read this book a couple of months ago.
I needed a story that had depth and humor, and punched all the right emotional buttons, without being too heavy and this book fit the bill perfectly!!
I was immediately drawn in by Emma and Riley as a mother and daughter team, then found myself more charmed, and impressed by Riley, who was able to penetrate the barriers between her mother and Genevieve, becoming something of a gentle go between, or moderator, unlocking the doors of communication resulting in a little more understanding of the other person’s position.
While the novel explores important issues, such as bullying and paternal roles- regret, acceptance, grief, and forgiveness are the core themes of the novel.
There are many thought provoking elements here, but despite some weighty topics, Higgins keeps the tone on the lighter side. The passages between Riley and Genevieve are some of the most revealing, poignant and funny parts in the book.
The romantic elements are also light and realistic, with plenty of charm and chemistry, but mostly runs in the background for much of the novel.
While I have enjoyed Kristan Higgins work in the past, for some reason her novels tend to languish on my TBR list for ages, despite my best intentions.
I really need to work on that!!
Other than a bit of strong language, here and there, I think this is a book anyone could enjoy!
4 stars
August 11, 2019
Kristan Higgins is one of my favorite authors and she keeps getting better and better. Her last few books have been a little more serious in tone than her earlier fun light hearted romances. But they still have those lovable relatable characters that draw you in to the story. They also still have the dogs! This is probably my favorite book from KH yet, but I will almost guarantee you that her next one will be my new favorite. She just has such an absorbing writing style that completely consumes you from first page to last. Her character development is perfection. These are characters you will feel as though you know as well as your own friends by the end of the book, flaws and all. I could gush even more, but I will spare you all! If you are a Kristan Higgins fan this is a must read. And if you have not read her yet... what are you waiting for?
The story is primarily told from the perspectives of granddaughter and grandmother, Emma and Genevieve. Emma came to live with her grandmother after the tragic death of her mother and the abandonment by her father. Genevieve is not the most loving of grandmothers. Still struggling with the death of her beloved older son and the premature death of her husband. When Emma gets pregnant at the age of 18 and is not able to follow the life plan that Genevieve has imagined for her Genevieve kicks her out. Fast forward 17 years Emma is doing well raising her daughter Riley, when out of the blue Genevieve reaches out. Genevieve is dying and wants to reconnect with Emma, meet her granddaughter for the first time who she intends to leave her fortune to. What follows is a story about family, Hope, forgiveness, Secrets, and love. Both Genevieve and Emma were such smart and strong women. Genevieve is one of those characters that really grows on you throughout the course of a book. Emma was a great character whose only flaw was that she was a little too perfect. There also were so many amazing secondary characters. Emma’s daughter Riley, her father Pop, and neighbor Miller. Miller was not only a love interest, but he also had a challenging relationship with his own three-year-old precocious (to say the least) daughter. The additional peppering of both Riley and Miller’s perspectives really added some depth to the book. Such a beautifully told powerful story that made me both laugh and cry. I will never look at mixing beaters or pirates the same way again!
*** Big thanks to Berkley for my copy of this book ***
The story is primarily told from the perspectives of granddaughter and grandmother, Emma and Genevieve. Emma came to live with her grandmother after the tragic death of her mother and the abandonment by her father. Genevieve is not the most loving of grandmothers. Still struggling with the death of her beloved older son and the premature death of her husband. When Emma gets pregnant at the age of 18 and is not able to follow the life plan that Genevieve has imagined for her Genevieve kicks her out. Fast forward 17 years Emma is doing well raising her daughter Riley, when out of the blue Genevieve reaches out. Genevieve is dying and wants to reconnect with Emma, meet her granddaughter for the first time who she intends to leave her fortune to. What follows is a story about family, Hope, forgiveness, Secrets, and love. Both Genevieve and Emma were such smart and strong women. Genevieve is one of those characters that really grows on you throughout the course of a book. Emma was a great character whose only flaw was that she was a little too perfect. There also were so many amazing secondary characters. Emma’s daughter Riley, her father Pop, and neighbor Miller. Miller was not only a love interest, but he also had a challenging relationship with his own three-year-old precocious (to say the least) daughter. The additional peppering of both Riley and Miller’s perspectives really added some depth to the book. Such a beautifully told powerful story that made me both laugh and cry. I will never look at mixing beaters or pirates the same way again!
*** Big thanks to Berkley for my copy of this book ***
September 9, 2019
This was darker than Higgins’ previous novels. She used to be known more for light, funny romances, but I enjoy her turn to complex women’s fiction like this one.
Emma has not had it easy. Her mother committed suicide when she was eight. Her father, who’d been spoiled all his life with things but not love, dumps her with his wealthy but unloving mother because he’s not up to the task of being a father. For the next ten years, Genevieve makes sure that Emma goes to good schools and is dressed to impress. By the time Emma is 18, Genevieve is proud that she’s is going off to a good college. After she graduates, Genevieve imagines that her granddaughter will be able to work at the fashion company she founded. But both women’s futures are thrown for a loop when Emma finds out she’s pregnant from her long-term boyfriend and Genevieve disinherits her before she can get that college education.
The daughter that Emma has grows up to be a beautiful teenage girl. When Riley is 16, Genevieve calls Emma and says she’s dying. Emma is persuaded to come back from her father’s home in the Midwest to go East to help because of the promise that Riley will get the inheritance. The idea that Riley won’t have to struggle through part-time jobs and heavy student loans like she did is too tempting to pass up.
Both Riley and Emma are far more forgiving people than I think I could be based on the way they both had family members abandon them. There are a lot of family secrets and relationships that unravel and evolve over the course of the book. Virtually every character has had to survive some great loss in this well-done story.
Thanks to NetGalley for the opportunity to review this novel.
Emma has not had it easy. Her mother committed suicide when she was eight. Her father, who’d been spoiled all his life with things but not love, dumps her with his wealthy but unloving mother because he’s not up to the task of being a father. For the next ten years, Genevieve makes sure that Emma goes to good schools and is dressed to impress. By the time Emma is 18, Genevieve is proud that she’s is going off to a good college. After she graduates, Genevieve imagines that her granddaughter will be able to work at the fashion company she founded. But both women’s futures are thrown for a loop when Emma finds out she’s pregnant from her long-term boyfriend and Genevieve disinherits her before she can get that college education.
The daughter that Emma has grows up to be a beautiful teenage girl. When Riley is 16, Genevieve calls Emma and says she’s dying. Emma is persuaded to come back from her father’s home in the Midwest to go East to help because of the promise that Riley will get the inheritance. The idea that Riley won’t have to struggle through part-time jobs and heavy student loans like she did is too tempting to pass up.
Both Riley and Emma are far more forgiving people than I think I could be based on the way they both had family members abandon them. There are a lot of family secrets and relationships that unravel and evolve over the course of the book. Virtually every character has had to survive some great loss in this well-done story.
Thanks to NetGalley for the opportunity to review this novel.
August 15, 2019
3.5 Stars
Life and Other Inconveniences is my second book I have read by Kristan Higgins and I have to admit my first was a miss for me. I was not all that excited to read this one but decided to give it a try after it was offered to me. Well, I was completely surprised and felt like I was reading something written by a different author. This one was a big hit for me!
Kristan Higgins does a great job creating engaging characters using warm humor, insightful thoughts with realistic, raw emotions and actions. For me, the humor has to have some warmth to it when more affecting topics are explored in a story. I have been told I am just a little over-sensitive when it comes to that.
I was hooked right from the start with these engaging likable and unlikable characters. I loved the dynamics between the characters and I enjoyed the complicated relationships between them. Old wounds are opened up and second chances are explored with emotional depth to the characters. Each are given a conflict and through each of their POV, we see them grow. At times I did feel their inner thoughts were a bit repetitive and would have preferred to see them grow more by their actions.
There is a mystery here as well and that added some suspense to the story. I really enjoyed how Higgins weaved that into the storyline and I thought it all came together well. The story wrapped up well and I felt very satisfied after reading this one. I highly recommend.
I received a copy from the publisher.
Life and Other Inconveniences is my second book I have read by Kristan Higgins and I have to admit my first was a miss for me. I was not all that excited to read this one but decided to give it a try after it was offered to me. Well, I was completely surprised and felt like I was reading something written by a different author. This one was a big hit for me!
Kristan Higgins does a great job creating engaging characters using warm humor, insightful thoughts with realistic, raw emotions and actions. For me, the humor has to have some warmth to it when more affecting topics are explored in a story. I have been told I am just a little over-sensitive when it comes to that.
I was hooked right from the start with these engaging likable and unlikable characters. I loved the dynamics between the characters and I enjoyed the complicated relationships between them. Old wounds are opened up and second chances are explored with emotional depth to the characters. Each are given a conflict and through each of their POV, we see them grow. At times I did feel their inner thoughts were a bit repetitive and would have preferred to see them grow more by their actions.
There is a mystery here as well and that added some suspense to the story. I really enjoyed how Higgins weaved that into the storyline and I thought it all came together well. The story wrapped up well and I felt very satisfied after reading this one. I highly recommend.
I received a copy from the publisher.
August 9, 2019
Authentic characters, multi-generational family dynamics and three strong women.
Told from different perspectives, I really got to know the characters and their motivation. The story had a more serious side than I expected, but also some lighthearted moments as well. There is plenty of drama and some thought provoking scenarios.
Emma has a rocky relationship with her Grandmother, Genevieve and we learn their backstory with all the heartache and struggles that led them to where they are. They are both strong, determined, and a bit stubborn. I had a feeling about how they would resolve their issues.
Love, family ties and forgiveness is at the heart of this novel. We all know life can be messy and this family had much to overcome.
Recommend to fans of the author and Women's fiction.
Out August 6,2019
Thanks to NG/ Publisher for my review copy!
Told from different perspectives, I really got to know the characters and their motivation. The story had a more serious side than I expected, but also some lighthearted moments as well. There is plenty of drama and some thought provoking scenarios.
Emma has a rocky relationship with her Grandmother, Genevieve and we learn their backstory with all the heartache and struggles that led them to where they are. They are both strong, determined, and a bit stubborn. I had a feeling about how they would resolve their issues.
Love, family ties and forgiveness is at the heart of this novel. We all know life can be messy and this family had much to overcome.
Recommend to fans of the author and Women's fiction.
Out August 6,2019
Thanks to NG/ Publisher for my review copy!
April 3, 2019
4.5 stars
This is the third book by Kristan Higgins I have read and she has now earned her place on my list of authors who I will just automatically read anything they write, I don't even have to be bothered reading the synopsis first to see if it interests me. I truly love the stories she chooses to tell as well as I just feel at ease with the characters even if I don't necessarily have a lot in common with them.
Emma London hasn't talked to her wealthy grandmother, Genevieve London, ever since she kicked her out of the house when Emma was a pregnant teenager. Emma struggled to put herself thru school and provide for her daughter, Riley, all as a single mother and despite the odds against her managed to create a pretty darn good life for the both of them. She is shocked though when out of the blue she gets a call from her grandmother begging her and Riley, the grandchild she has never met, to come live with her for the summer. So many valid reasons for Emma to decline the invitation, but maybe there are few reasons to say yes.
The story mostly follows the perspectives of both Emma and Genevieve but also occasionally follows a few of the supporting characters. This is the type of book that you have a pretty decent idea from the beginning where the story is headed but that doesn't mean the journey to get there isn't worth taking. I did think at times Emma came across as a little too perfect and preferred her grandmother who definitely had some flaws but seemed more realistic. The author just has this comfortable type writing style that I love and this was a story I really enjoyed and even managed to stir up a few emotions inside me. I highly recommend this book if you are a Kristan Higgins fan or to anyone who likes women's fiction.
Thank you to First to Read for the opportunity to read an advance digital copy! I was under no obligation to post a review and all views expressed are my honest opinion.
This is the third book by Kristan Higgins I have read and she has now earned her place on my list of authors who I will just automatically read anything they write, I don't even have to be bothered reading the synopsis first to see if it interests me. I truly love the stories she chooses to tell as well as I just feel at ease with the characters even if I don't necessarily have a lot in common with them.
Emma London hasn't talked to her wealthy grandmother, Genevieve London, ever since she kicked her out of the house when Emma was a pregnant teenager. Emma struggled to put herself thru school and provide for her daughter, Riley, all as a single mother and despite the odds against her managed to create a pretty darn good life for the both of them. She is shocked though when out of the blue she gets a call from her grandmother begging her and Riley, the grandchild she has never met, to come live with her for the summer. So many valid reasons for Emma to decline the invitation, but maybe there are few reasons to say yes.
The story mostly follows the perspectives of both Emma and Genevieve but also occasionally follows a few of the supporting characters. This is the type of book that you have a pretty decent idea from the beginning where the story is headed but that doesn't mean the journey to get there isn't worth taking. I did think at times Emma came across as a little too perfect and preferred her grandmother who definitely had some flaws but seemed more realistic. The author just has this comfortable type writing style that I love and this was a story I really enjoyed and even managed to stir up a few emotions inside me. I highly recommend this book if you are a Kristan Higgins fan or to anyone who likes women's fiction.
Thank you to First to Read for the opportunity to read an advance digital copy! I was under no obligation to post a review and all views expressed are my honest opinion.
July 31, 2019
My first Kristan Higgins’ book was a big success! ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️
Emma London could not be more different from her grandmother, Genevieve, who is regal and wealthy. Genevieve’s son disappeared many years earlier, and her husband died young. She had a tough life before Emma came along, but she builds a fashion empire known around the world. She also neglected Emma’s father.
Emma’s mother passes away, and her father leaves her on Genevieve’s doorstep. Her grandmother reluctantly took her in, but when Emma gets pregnant as a senior, Genevieve kicks her out.
There’s one thing Emma took with her that day. Her grandmother’s sheer determination. And with that, she builds a beautiful life for her daughter, Riley.
Twenty years go by, and now Genevieve reaches out to Emma for help. How will Emma respond?
Genevieve, Riley, and Emma felt so authentic and real. The first thing that struck me about Higgins’ style is the sincerity in the storytelling. She cares about these characters, and so did I. Also, the complexities and nuances in the relationships were drawn well. The writing is easy to read and warm.
Overall, Life and Other Inconveniences is a heartwarming story I could easily slip right into and with characters I want to hug. I’ll be reading more KH soon!
I received a complimentary copy. All opinions are my own.
My reviews can also be found on my blog: www.jennifertarheelreader.com
Emma London could not be more different from her grandmother, Genevieve, who is regal and wealthy. Genevieve’s son disappeared many years earlier, and her husband died young. She had a tough life before Emma came along, but she builds a fashion empire known around the world. She also neglected Emma’s father.
Emma’s mother passes away, and her father leaves her on Genevieve’s doorstep. Her grandmother reluctantly took her in, but when Emma gets pregnant as a senior, Genevieve kicks her out.
There’s one thing Emma took with her that day. Her grandmother’s sheer determination. And with that, she builds a beautiful life for her daughter, Riley.
Twenty years go by, and now Genevieve reaches out to Emma for help. How will Emma respond?
Genevieve, Riley, and Emma felt so authentic and real. The first thing that struck me about Higgins’ style is the sincerity in the storytelling. She cares about these characters, and so did I. Also, the complexities and nuances in the relationships were drawn well. The writing is easy to read and warm.
Overall, Life and Other Inconveniences is a heartwarming story I could easily slip right into and with characters I want to hug. I’ll be reading more KH soon!
I received a complimentary copy. All opinions are my own.
My reviews can also be found on my blog: www.jennifertarheelreader.com
June 14, 2022
I was hesitant to pick up this book. I had tried another of this author's books, and it was a DNF. I'm so glad I gave Kristan Higgins another chance because I loved this book.
Life and Other Inconveniences is the story of Emma who is contacted by her estranged grandmother, Genevieve, in a time of need. The book follows four generations of the family and alternates viewpoints among Emma, Genevieve, and some other family members. Using the multiple points of view, the author writes a compelling story that kept me turning the pages.
I thought this book was great because it showed realistic family dynamics. Also, I enjoyed the growth of the main character. Additionally, it had a nice ending without being far-fetched. I would recommend this book to readers who enjoy intergenerational family drama.
Life and Other Inconveniences is the story of Emma who is contacted by her estranged grandmother, Genevieve, in a time of need. The book follows four generations of the family and alternates viewpoints among Emma, Genevieve, and some other family members. Using the multiple points of view, the author writes a compelling story that kept me turning the pages.
I thought this book was great because it showed realistic family dynamics. Also, I enjoyed the growth of the main character. Additionally, it had a nice ending without being far-fetched. I would recommend this book to readers who enjoy intergenerational family drama.
October 15, 2019
By anyone’s measure, Emma London has had a tough start. Her mother committed suicide when she was eight years old, her father literally abandoned her to be raised by his wealthy mother, Genevieve who threw her out when she became pregnant at eighteen. She left Connecticut for Chicago to live with her father and daughter and was later dumped by her baby’s daddy (you get most of this in the first chapter lest you think I’m being spoilerish). Despite all this, she’s an accomplished therapist with a doctorate in psychology and she’s raised a wonderful child. So when Genevieve calls her after almost seventeen years of silence with a request for them to spend the summer in Connecticut because she’s dying, Emma’s inclination still is to hang up the phone. However, after some wrangling, she and daughter Riley make their way to Connecticut.
I’ve made no secret of my love for this author’s books, embarrassingly so. I’ve felt from the beginning that they were more closely aligned with contemporary fiction than romance and I’m thrilled that she’s now full out embraced the genre. This story sunk its tentacles into me from the first page and I wasn’t ready for it to end when I reached the last page. Her characters aren’t just likable, they’re relatable and resilient. The storytelling is outstanding, lacking big dramatic twists but chock full of compelling plots. Emma, Genevieve, Riley...all of them and others are so well defined you’re able to vividly imagine them.
This was my first time listening to a Higgins book and it was a great decision to do so with this one. There are four narrators who all delivered excellent performances, especially the voice for Emma. She got the character with all of her sass and vulnerability and knew the difference. I started this for a long road trip and the miles just melted away as I became engrossed in this story of redemption and forgiveness.
I’ve given you the setup and that’s all I’ll share about the story because you should read or listen to it for yourself. Know that you’ll be engaged from the start and be rewarded with a wonderful reading experience. It’s a fascinating story that has mystery, betrayal, love and romance. I loved this book and it just reinforced why Higgins still remains an auto read for me.
Posted on Blue Mood Café
(Thanks to Recorded Books for my complimentary copy. All opinions are my own.)
I’ve made no secret of my love for this author’s books, embarrassingly so. I’ve felt from the beginning that they were more closely aligned with contemporary fiction than romance and I’m thrilled that she’s now full out embraced the genre. This story sunk its tentacles into me from the first page and I wasn’t ready for it to end when I reached the last page. Her characters aren’t just likable, they’re relatable and resilient. The storytelling is outstanding, lacking big dramatic twists but chock full of compelling plots. Emma, Genevieve, Riley...all of them and others are so well defined you’re able to vividly imagine them.
This was my first time listening to a Higgins book and it was a great decision to do so with this one. There are four narrators who all delivered excellent performances, especially the voice for Emma. She got the character with all of her sass and vulnerability and knew the difference. I started this for a long road trip and the miles just melted away as I became engrossed in this story of redemption and forgiveness.
I’ve given you the setup and that’s all I’ll share about the story because you should read or listen to it for yourself. Know that you’ll be engaged from the start and be rewarded with a wonderful reading experience. It’s a fascinating story that has mystery, betrayal, love and romance. I loved this book and it just reinforced why Higgins still remains an auto read for me.
Posted on Blue Mood Café
(Thanks to Recorded Books for my complimentary copy. All opinions are my own.)
April 4, 2019
I won this book on a Goodreads first reads giveaway.
I’m not really sure what to say about this other than I thought it was (as the stars say) “okay”.
There was a lot going on here, which I’m not entirely sure was a good thing. Somehow this book managed to feel both over- and underwhelming at the same time…between the constant virtue signaling, the information dump about people’s backgrounds, and how everyone living on the same block seems to suffer from some rare disease it’s a lot to swallow and sort out.
We’re treated the POVs of multiple different characters, Emma a single mother, Riley her teenage daughter, Genevieve the pretentious grandmother, Clark the flighty father, and Miller a single dad. So, it’s a lot to take in as it is. It doesn’t help that the story isn’t consistently moving forward. One chapter is about Emma in the present, then the next chapter is about Miller doing something with his daughter than randomly meandering back in time with little to no warning for almost the entire chapter, only to switch to an entire chapter about Emma day dreaming about when she was a teenager. We’re basically spoon-fed bits of the present plot while the characters backgrounds are almost dumped into our lap every chapter.
It felt a bit ironic that the main character, Emma, is a therapist and yet every single person (including Emma herself) could have used some serious therapy.
(On a side note, why is Emma so embarrassed it took her 11 years to get a PhD in Psychology? It takes anywhere between 8 to 12 years on average, so for a single mom working a minimum wage job at a grocery store she technically fell into the average.)
Everyone in this novel seemed to have some tragic past issue stemming from some rare medical phenomenon. Miller’s wife died from an amniotic fluid embolism (1 in every 40,000 deliveries), Emma’s grandfather lost his wife to Lou Gehrig’s Disease (ALS which has less than 20,000 cases a year in the US), to a character suffering vascular dementia (which accounts for fewer than 200,000 cases in the US a year), Emma’s younger sister Hope suffers from a medical condition so rare that a parent basically has to have it in order to pass it on and is also on the spectrum.
Yeah…it’s a little overwhelming and a bit hard to believe that so much bad luck strikes a small group living on basically the same block. Throw in themes about losing loved ones, grief, struggles with depression, POS husbands/baby daddy’s, enabling parents, etc etc and it that basically encompasses the entire novel. The most believable story was about Emma's mother and her struggle with clinical depression, which is sadly all too common (over 3 million cases a year).
I’m not kidding when I say it’s overwhelming.
The other issue I had with this story was how, well, “plastic” all the relationships felt. It felt weird that everyone just got along so well. No one hated each other, no one fought or argued seriously, and everyone was basically insta-everything from love to friends.
While I thought Genevieve and Emma's characters were pretty well written and interesting, it felt like the rest of them felt a little flat. Which might go back to the whole thing about never disagreeing, we're basically given a surface look at everyone else's personalities. Genevieve and Emma seem to be the only characters with depth, (everyone else is flawed to a fault or perfect).
Riley, a teenage girl, never fought with her mom, obeyed her every command, and suffers no emotional damage from her father basically having a revolving door relationship with her. We’re frequently reminded how pretty, smart, and perfect she is and how she’s not into boys and besides one patch of teenage angst never suffers mood swings and still acts like a child.
Genevieve, the grandmother, is a conniving and extremely proud woman who often tries to pick fights with Emma. Emma never raises to the bait and always magically defuses the situation without batting an eye.
The baby daddy (I forgot his name) acts like a complete man-child the entire story and Emma never once argues, defends herself, or does anything but demurely excuse his boyish behavior. She only confronts him once the entire story about how he’s acting. The rest of the time she’s making excuses for him or laughing it off.
The baby daddy’s new wife is basically Mary Poppins, practically perfect in every way. There’s no drama or hard feelings between her or Emma. They meet once and she confesses Emma makes her nervous because she’s the husband’s “first love” and they’re suddenly friends.
It felt like there was so much going on all at once that the plot got sort of jumbled up along the way. The stories are all magically closed with little to no effort, from Miller and Emma falling in love to Emma and Genevieve forgiving each other for years of hardship in a single page. The story focused so much on the characters backgrounds that the “present” plot felt like it was a bit lost along the way.
I’m not really sure what to say about this other than I thought it was (as the stars say) “okay”.
There was a lot going on here, which I’m not entirely sure was a good thing. Somehow this book managed to feel both over- and underwhelming at the same time…between the constant virtue signaling, the information dump about people’s backgrounds, and how everyone living on the same block seems to suffer from some rare disease it’s a lot to swallow and sort out.
We’re treated the POVs of multiple different characters, Emma a single mother, Riley her teenage daughter, Genevieve the pretentious grandmother, Clark the flighty father, and Miller a single dad. So, it’s a lot to take in as it is. It doesn’t help that the story isn’t consistently moving forward. One chapter is about Emma in the present, then the next chapter is about Miller doing something with his daughter than randomly meandering back in time with little to no warning for almost the entire chapter, only to switch to an entire chapter about Emma day dreaming about when she was a teenager. We’re basically spoon-fed bits of the present plot while the characters backgrounds are almost dumped into our lap every chapter.
It felt a bit ironic that the main character, Emma, is a therapist and yet every single person (including Emma herself) could have used some serious therapy.
(On a side note, why is Emma so embarrassed it took her 11 years to get a PhD in Psychology? It takes anywhere between 8 to 12 years on average, so for a single mom working a minimum wage job at a grocery store she technically fell into the average.)
Everyone in this novel seemed to have some tragic past issue stemming from some rare medical phenomenon. Miller’s wife died from an amniotic fluid embolism (1 in every 40,000 deliveries), Emma’s grandfather lost his wife to Lou Gehrig’s Disease (ALS which has less than 20,000 cases a year in the US), to a character suffering vascular dementia (which accounts for fewer than 200,000 cases in the US a year), Emma’s younger sister Hope suffers from a medical condition so rare that a parent basically has to have it in order to pass it on and is also on the spectrum.
Yeah…it’s a little overwhelming and a bit hard to believe that so much bad luck strikes a small group living on basically the same block. Throw in themes about losing loved ones, grief, struggles with depression, POS husbands/baby daddy’s, enabling parents, etc etc and it that basically encompasses the entire novel. The most believable story was about Emma's mother and her struggle with clinical depression, which is sadly all too common (over 3 million cases a year).
I’m not kidding when I say it’s overwhelming.
The other issue I had with this story was how, well, “plastic” all the relationships felt. It felt weird that everyone just got along so well. No one hated each other, no one fought or argued seriously, and everyone was basically insta-everything from love to friends.
While I thought Genevieve and Emma's characters were pretty well written and interesting, it felt like the rest of them felt a little flat. Which might go back to the whole thing about never disagreeing, we're basically given a surface look at everyone else's personalities. Genevieve and Emma seem to be the only characters with depth, (everyone else is flawed to a fault or perfect).
Riley, a teenage girl, never fought with her mom, obeyed her every command, and suffers no emotional damage from her father basically having a revolving door relationship with her. We’re frequently reminded how pretty, smart, and perfect she is and how she’s not into boys and besides one patch of teenage angst never suffers mood swings and still acts like a child.
Genevieve, the grandmother, is a conniving and extremely proud woman who often tries to pick fights with Emma. Emma never raises to the bait and always magically defuses the situation without batting an eye.
The baby daddy (I forgot his name) acts like a complete man-child the entire story and Emma never once argues, defends herself, or does anything but demurely excuse his boyish behavior. She only confronts him once the entire story about how he’s acting. The rest of the time she’s making excuses for him or laughing it off.
The baby daddy’s new wife is basically Mary Poppins, practically perfect in every way. There’s no drama or hard feelings between her or Emma. They meet once and she confesses Emma makes her nervous because she’s the husband’s “first love” and they’re suddenly friends.
It felt like there was so much going on all at once that the plot got sort of jumbled up along the way. The stories are all magically closed with little to no effort, from Miller and Emma falling in love to Emma and Genevieve forgiving each other for years of hardship in a single page. The story focused so much on the characters backgrounds that the “present” plot felt like it was a bit lost along the way.
July 31, 2019
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4.5 Stars
I wouldn’t say I actively avoided Kristan Higgans, but I will say as a person whose name is on A LOT of books on the paperback rack near the checkout lanes at the local Wal-Mart she wasn’t someone who was high on my list of must read authors. (That's where they keep the James Pattersons - blech.) Then she wrote a book about fat women that got everyone’s panties all up their butts and I decided that was something I needed to read . . . .
When offered an advanced copy of Life and Other Inconveniences I jumped all over it without even bothering to see what it was about first. Imagine my delight when I discovered it was one of my fave tropes – the “maybe you can go home again.”
The story here starts with a phone call Emma receives from her estranged grandmother Genevieve informing her that Genevieve has brain cancer, is not long for this world, and would like Emma and her daughter to come spend her last summer with her. The two have not communicated for 17 years – right about the time Emma announced that she was pregnant unexpectedly and Genevieve kicked her out – but the dangling carrot of a potential windfall via Genevieve’s estate being left to Emma’s daughter in order to put her through college has this family reunion happening no matter what Emma’s personal feelings may be.
This book hit ALL the right things for me. To begin with, I love dysfunctional families . . .
(They make me feel like mine might not be as awful as they appear to be.)
Second . . . .
I myself am poor. I love reading about rich people. And this one??? Granny Genny created amilkshake that brought all the boys to the yard handbag empire that had all the gals going . . . .
In my head she was what Vera Bradley must be like. And before Vera Bradley (don’t worry, I know that’s not a real human – I’m only sorta stoopid) reads this and takes offense that Genevieve was kind of a bitch on wheels? I loved her – it’s a compliment.
Not to mention . . . .
It’s summatime summatime sum sum summatime. I literally read this from cover to cover at the pool last Friday on a mental health day away from the office. (Anyone know a good dermatologist??? I’m gonna need to deal with the skin cancer I probably now have.)
I wish I could post some quotes to prove that both Emma and Genevieve were amazing female leads, this had great humor and the romance was wonderfully schmoopy. However, the ones I want to use are like half a page rather than a word or two and I like receiving free shit so I shall cease and desist before I lose my privileges. Just trust me that if you are a Higgins fan, a Chick Lit fan in general, or just looking for a good time while making sure your children aren’t drowning, this is a must read when it is released next week.
ARC provided by the publisher in exchange for an honest review.
4.5 Stars
I wouldn’t say I actively avoided Kristan Higgans, but I will say as a person whose name is on A LOT of books on the paperback rack near the checkout lanes at the local Wal-Mart she wasn’t someone who was high on my list of must read authors. (That's where they keep the James Pattersons - blech.) Then she wrote a book about fat women that got everyone’s panties all up their butts and I decided that was something I needed to read . . . .
When offered an advanced copy of Life and Other Inconveniences I jumped all over it without even bothering to see what it was about first. Imagine my delight when I discovered it was one of my fave tropes – the “maybe you can go home again.”
The story here starts with a phone call Emma receives from her estranged grandmother Genevieve informing her that Genevieve has brain cancer, is not long for this world, and would like Emma and her daughter to come spend her last summer with her. The two have not communicated for 17 years – right about the time Emma announced that she was pregnant unexpectedly and Genevieve kicked her out – but the dangling carrot of a potential windfall via Genevieve’s estate being left to Emma’s daughter in order to put her through college has this family reunion happening no matter what Emma’s personal feelings may be.
This book hit ALL the right things for me. To begin with, I love dysfunctional families . . .
(They make me feel like mine might not be as awful as they appear to be.)
Second . . . .
I myself am poor. I love reading about rich people. And this one??? Granny Genny created a
In my head she was what Vera Bradley must be like. And before Vera Bradley (don’t worry, I know that’s not a real human – I’m only sorta stoopid) reads this and takes offense that Genevieve was kind of a bitch on wheels? I loved her – it’s a compliment.
Not to mention . . . .
It’s summatime summatime sum sum summatime. I literally read this from cover to cover at the pool last Friday on a mental health day away from the office. (Anyone know a good dermatologist??? I’m gonna need to deal with the skin cancer I probably now have.)
I wish I could post some quotes to prove that both Emma and Genevieve were amazing female leads, this had great humor and the romance was wonderfully schmoopy. However, the ones I want to use are like half a page rather than a word or two and I like receiving free shit so I shall cease and desist before I lose my privileges. Just trust me that if you are a Higgins fan, a Chick Lit fan in general, or just looking for a good time while making sure your children aren’t drowning, this is a must read when it is released next week.
ARC provided by the publisher in exchange for an honest review.
August 13, 2019
A beautifully complex story about an unconventional family and the healing power of forgiveness.
I cannot believe I have never read anything by Kristan Higgins before! By the end of the very first chapter I found Life and Other Inconveniences to be completely charming. It has that blend of humor, heartfelt emotion, pain, lightness, and authenticity. There is a messiness to the characters in this story that felt refreshingly like real life people. Their imperfections made them so easy to love in my opinion. They didn’t feel like merely characters from a novel, they felt like my family, friends, and neighbors.
About the Book
Genevieve London is wealthy, successful, and respected. In the wake of the death of her husband and older son, Genevieve rallied and used her fortunes to establish one of the top luxury fashion brands globally, though it often meant neglecting her other son. But Genevieve never expected to have to raise Emma, the daughter of her younger son, after he abandoned his legacy and couldn’t rise to the struggles of parenthood.
Emma London never let her abandonment by all of the parental figures she had limit the parent she became. Her mother took her life when she was young, and her father couldn’t cope with raising her and left her in the hands of her grandmother Genevieve London as a young girl. When Emma found herself pregnant at 18, Genevieve cut her off entirely, forcing Emma to figure out motherhood on her own. But Emma was a London to her core, and she found a way to not only survive, but to raise her daughter Riley with the love and support her own childhood lacked.
Now, Riley is 16 and dealing with the struggles of growing up and being a teenager. When Genevieve calls Emma for the first time in 17 years and asks her for a favor, Emma isn’t sure what to do. She kept Riley away from the London wealth, prestige, and expectations for a reason. But how can she deny Genevieve this request?
Reflection
I really loved the way Kristan Higgins structured this novel. In addition to the multiple POVs (which were extremely effective), she had an interesting way of providing back story to the characters. Rather than having them narrate their story in some way, she would weave in a chapter that just had the history of a person in such a fluid way, that I would forget it wasn’t being told to me by the character themselves. The chapters narrated by the characters were kept firmly in the present storyline.
To illustrate this, we see Miller’s character introduced early in the book and how he fits in with the rest of the characters. We also hear a bit about his history and where he is now. But then much later we read a full chapter walking through the life of Miller—the ups and downs, the light and the tragedy. We got to know him and then we learned this rounded backstory and context. It is part of him, but not who he is.
The reason I liked this technique is that it felt like an authentic way to get to know the characters. These are not perfect people. As the present day events unfold, I thought I had a handle on who that person was and what I’d do in their situation. But as these rich personal histories unfolded with the story, often I found that I misjudged them. It was a beautiful way to tell a story. I loved it!
I don’t want to spoil much about the story and the way it unfolds, so I’ll end with saying that this story will get you in your feels! It is so true to life in the messy ways families are structured. There is not much conventional in this family, but that’s the reality of life, right? How many people do you know who have a perfect family structure? That dream is unattainable. Real families do things wrong and have break ups and make ups. But the best ones also find a way to forgive. And that’s definitely the message I was left with!
Thank you to Berkley for my copy. Opinions are my own.
I cannot believe I have never read anything by Kristan Higgins before! By the end of the very first chapter I found Life and Other Inconveniences to be completely charming. It has that blend of humor, heartfelt emotion, pain, lightness, and authenticity. There is a messiness to the characters in this story that felt refreshingly like real life people. Their imperfections made them so easy to love in my opinion. They didn’t feel like merely characters from a novel, they felt like my family, friends, and neighbors.
About the Book
Genevieve London is wealthy, successful, and respected. In the wake of the death of her husband and older son, Genevieve rallied and used her fortunes to establish one of the top luxury fashion brands globally, though it often meant neglecting her other son. But Genevieve never expected to have to raise Emma, the daughter of her younger son, after he abandoned his legacy and couldn’t rise to the struggles of parenthood.
Emma London never let her abandonment by all of the parental figures she had limit the parent she became. Her mother took her life when she was young, and her father couldn’t cope with raising her and left her in the hands of her grandmother Genevieve London as a young girl. When Emma found herself pregnant at 18, Genevieve cut her off entirely, forcing Emma to figure out motherhood on her own. But Emma was a London to her core, and she found a way to not only survive, but to raise her daughter Riley with the love and support her own childhood lacked.
Now, Riley is 16 and dealing with the struggles of growing up and being a teenager. When Genevieve calls Emma for the first time in 17 years and asks her for a favor, Emma isn’t sure what to do. She kept Riley away from the London wealth, prestige, and expectations for a reason. But how can she deny Genevieve this request?
Reflection
I really loved the way Kristan Higgins structured this novel. In addition to the multiple POVs (which were extremely effective), she had an interesting way of providing back story to the characters. Rather than having them narrate their story in some way, she would weave in a chapter that just had the history of a person in such a fluid way, that I would forget it wasn’t being told to me by the character themselves. The chapters narrated by the characters were kept firmly in the present storyline.
To illustrate this, we see Miller’s character introduced early in the book and how he fits in with the rest of the characters. We also hear a bit about his history and where he is now. But then much later we read a full chapter walking through the life of Miller—the ups and downs, the light and the tragedy. We got to know him and then we learned this rounded backstory and context. It is part of him, but not who he is.
The reason I liked this technique is that it felt like an authentic way to get to know the characters. These are not perfect people. As the present day events unfold, I thought I had a handle on who that person was and what I’d do in their situation. But as these rich personal histories unfolded with the story, often I found that I misjudged them. It was a beautiful way to tell a story. I loved it!
I don’t want to spoil much about the story and the way it unfolds, so I’ll end with saying that this story will get you in your feels! It is so true to life in the messy ways families are structured. There is not much conventional in this family, but that’s the reality of life, right? How many people do you know who have a perfect family structure? That dream is unattainable. Real families do things wrong and have break ups and make ups. But the best ones also find a way to forgive. And that’s definitely the message I was left with!
Thank you to Berkley for my copy. Opinions are my own.
October 6, 2019
Emma London is kicked out her home as pregnant teen. It particularly stings, because when Emma's mom died when she was a kid, her dad dropped her on his own mom's doorstop and never looked back. Genevieve, Emma's wealthy grandmother, took her in and raised her, but she never had much love for Emma. Perhaps because Genevieve was already dealing with her own tragedies: the disappearance of her young son, followed by the early death of her husband. Still, she had time to build a fashion empire--and neglect her other son (Emma's father). Emma hasn't let any of her family baggage stop her. She's built a good life for herself and her teenage daughter, Riley. But now she has a surprise call from Genevieve, asking her for help. Emma isn't sure she can go home again, but what if it's what's best for Riley? And maybe even for her?
What a wonderful read! This was a great book to consume poolside this summer.
I love Kristan Higgins' books and this one was no exception. Don’t go in expecting a light and fluffy romance, though. Sure, there are some romantic elements here and plenty of Higgins’ trademark wit and humor, but this is also a serious read that deals with momentous life events and tragedies. It’s sad, poignant, touching, and real. Because Higgins’ characters are so true to life, and because she immerses you so fully in their world, it’s easy to both laugh and cry while reading. It’s a character-driven read, and I was quickly drawn to Emma, Riley, and several others.
I definitely recommend this one, and if you haven’t picked up any of Higgins’ work, now is the time to start! 4.5 stars.
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What a wonderful read! This was a great book to consume poolside this summer.
I love Kristan Higgins' books and this one was no exception. Don’t go in expecting a light and fluffy romance, though. Sure, there are some romantic elements here and plenty of Higgins’ trademark wit and humor, but this is also a serious read that deals with momentous life events and tragedies. It’s sad, poignant, touching, and real. Because Higgins’ characters are so true to life, and because she immerses you so fully in their world, it’s easy to both laugh and cry while reading. It’s a character-driven read, and I was quickly drawn to Emma, Riley, and several others.
I definitely recommend this one, and if you haven’t picked up any of Higgins’ work, now is the time to start! 4.5 stars.
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May 23, 2019
3.5
Kristan Higgins is my favorite author. I own all of her books in digital, paperback and hardcover forms. I think she's an amazing writer and she seems to be an awesome human being too.
When I received a copy of Life and Other Inconveniences, I was ecstatic! As a book lover, nothing feels as great as getting a book by your favorite author. Then, something happened. I didn't want to read it. Why? because she writes a book a year and if I started it too soon, I was going to have to wait a long time for her next one. Finally, this weekend, I couldn't postpone it any longer. So I prepared for my weekend. I asked my husband to take care of the puppies, breakfast and household chores while I took the morning off to read. No interruptions, no breaks.
Life and Other Inconveniences is narrated in multiple points of views. The main three characters are:
Emma, a single mother who has abandonment issues. When she was very little, her mother committed suicide and her father Clark, left her with her grandmother and never looked back. When Emma meets the first boy/man who shows her some love, she dates him for three years and just before she graduates high school, she learns she's pregnant. Her grandmother, Genevieve is not happy and pretty much kicks her out. Emma goes to live with her maternal grandfather. Years later, she's starting her career as a psychologist and her daughter, Riley is a teenager.
Genevieve London had a perfect marriage. She loved her husband, Garrison with all of her heart. She also had two boys, Sheppard and Clark. She loved Sheppard, her oldest and when he goes missing at a very young age, she loses part of her heart. Then, Garrison dies too and when he dies, Genevieve loses the ability to love. She's never the mother that she should be to Clark (her youngest son) and when years later, he delivers his daughter, Emma to her doorstep, she thinks this is her chance to make amends. Yet, When Emma gets pregnant, she can't be flexible.
Last, we have Riley. Emma's daughter and Genevieve's granddaughter. A smart young woman with a good heart. Riley's having problems at school and when Genevieve's invitation to spend the summer with her is given, Emma and Riley agree it could be a good time to leave town.
Life and Other Inconveniences felt different than her prior novels. I had a hard time concentrating on the story. I felt there was too much inner dialogue by Emma and Genevieve. I missed the humor I've come to expect from KH. I missed the embarrassing moments, I've come to feel for the characters. I missed the romance, I've come to adore .
I like to clarify that ANY time there was a dialogue, I was 100% immersed in it. Even though, the dialogue was so scattered, when it was there, I craved it.
These are my opinions but I hope this doesn't deter you from reading this book.
Cliffhanger: No
3.5/5Fangs
A complimentary copy was provided by Berkley via Netgalley in exchange for an honest review.
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Kristan Higgins is my favorite author. I own all of her books in digital, paperback and hardcover forms. I think she's an amazing writer and she seems to be an awesome human being too.
When I received a copy of Life and Other Inconveniences, I was ecstatic! As a book lover, nothing feels as great as getting a book by your favorite author. Then, something happened. I didn't want to read it. Why? because she writes a book a year and if I started it too soon, I was going to have to wait a long time for her next one. Finally, this weekend, I couldn't postpone it any longer. So I prepared for my weekend. I asked my husband to take care of the puppies, breakfast and household chores while I took the morning off to read. No interruptions, no breaks.
Life and Other Inconveniences is narrated in multiple points of views. The main three characters are:
Emma, a single mother who has abandonment issues. When she was very little, her mother committed suicide and her father Clark, left her with her grandmother and never looked back. When Emma meets the first boy/man who shows her some love, she dates him for three years and just before she graduates high school, she learns she's pregnant. Her grandmother, Genevieve is not happy and pretty much kicks her out. Emma goes to live with her maternal grandfather. Years later, she's starting her career as a psychologist and her daughter, Riley is a teenager.
Genevieve London had a perfect marriage. She loved her husband, Garrison with all of her heart. She also had two boys, Sheppard and Clark. She loved Sheppard, her oldest and when he goes missing at a very young age, she loses part of her heart. Then, Garrison dies too and when he dies, Genevieve loses the ability to love. She's never the mother that she should be to Clark (her youngest son) and when years later, he delivers his daughter, Emma to her doorstep, she thinks this is her chance to make amends. Yet, When Emma gets pregnant, she can't be flexible.
Last, we have Riley. Emma's daughter and Genevieve's granddaughter. A smart young woman with a good heart. Riley's having problems at school and when Genevieve's invitation to spend the summer with her is given, Emma and Riley agree it could be a good time to leave town.
Life and Other Inconveniences felt different than her prior novels. I had a hard time concentrating on the story. I felt there was too much inner dialogue by Emma and Genevieve. I missed the humor I've come to expect from KH. I missed the embarrassing moments, I've come to feel for the characters. I missed the romance, I've come to adore .
I like to clarify that ANY time there was a dialogue, I was 100% immersed in it. Even though, the dialogue was so scattered, when it was there, I craved it.
These are my opinions but I hope this doesn't deter you from reading this book.
Cliffhanger: No
3.5/5Fangs
A complimentary copy was provided by Berkley via Netgalley in exchange for an honest review.
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August 6, 2019
Life and Other Inconveniences was a touching, emotional story that felt so true to life for me. I don’t know about you, but sometimes it’s hard dealing with family. Growing up wasn’t smooth sailing for me or my family. We had tragedy, and it affected all of us differently. So, while I love my family, I have mixed emotions, and some complicated relationships.
Kristan Higgins beautifully captured the complexities of a strained family dynamic but did in a way that left me with happy, squishy feelings! I loved Emma so much! She was such an awesome person all the way around despite having to deal with some truly horrible things. When I first started reading, I hated her grandmother, Genevieve, but as the story went along things weren’t as black and white as I thought, and I couldn’t help but soften toward her. Emma and her daughter Riley called her out on her behavior, and there were honest exchanges that went a long way toward healing for all parties. I adored Emma’s grandfather, Paul, too! Such a positive role model despite all the things he went through.
While this wasn’t predominantly a romance there was some and I was sooo happy for Emma to finally get a decent man (Jason, Riley’s dad was a complete moron, IMO) in her life, well, besides her grandfather, that is. Miller!! Yes, Miller was the unexpected light for Emma, and she was a godsend for him, too!
That twist at the end hurt my heart for all parties. While I’m not sure it was a good enough excuse for the behavior of one of the characters, it certainly made their actions make more sense.
A copy was kindly provided by Berkley Books in exchange for an honest review.
Kristan Higgins beautifully captured the complexities of a strained family dynamic but did in a way that left me with happy, squishy feelings! I loved Emma so much! She was such an awesome person all the way around despite having to deal with some truly horrible things. When I first started reading, I hated her grandmother, Genevieve, but as the story went along things weren’t as black and white as I thought, and I couldn’t help but soften toward her. Emma and her daughter Riley called her out on her behavior, and there were honest exchanges that went a long way toward healing for all parties. I adored Emma’s grandfather, Paul, too! Such a positive role model despite all the things he went through.
While this wasn’t predominantly a romance there was some and I was sooo happy for Emma to finally get a decent man (Jason, Riley’s dad was a complete moron, IMO) in her life, well, besides her grandfather, that is. Miller!! Yes, Miller was the unexpected light for Emma, and she was a godsend for him, too!
That twist at the end hurt my heart for all parties. While I’m not sure it was a good enough excuse for the behavior of one of the characters, it certainly made their actions make more sense.
A copy was kindly provided by Berkley Books in exchange for an honest review.
June 25, 2019
How do you review a book that moved you beyond words time and time again? How do you do justice to a story that you never wanted to end and nearly cried that you had to say goodbye to these characters? I'm going to do my best...
Kristan Higgins was a new to me author last year when Good Luck with That was recommended to me. Upon finishing this book (and naming it to my top 10 of 2018 list), I immediately ran out to read her backlist, loving each one more and more. When I heard comparisons to Gilmore Girls for Life and Other Inconveniences, I knew I was going to love this one.
Emma has returned home at 35 to care for her ailing grandmother - the grandmother who tossed her out and cut her off when she became pregnant at 18. Genevieve, a former high end fashion designer, is unwilling to accept her life is reaching its sunset and refuses to apologize to Emma for past behavior. The one person Genevieve does soften to is Emma daughter, Riley - who is Genevieve's great granddaughter - who she is meeting for the first time.
Told in alternating perspectives from Emma, Genevieve, Riley and a few other neighbors, we get to know this family and we feel for them. We want to scream with them, cry with them and most of all, hug them and tell them everything is going to be okay. Higgins has such a way with words that bring her characters to life entirely, a special quality that is rarely replicated.
My only sadness is that I now have to wait another year for more! Luckily, I still have quite the backlist to devour.
Thank you to Berkley for an advanced copy. All opinions are my own.
Kristan Higgins was a new to me author last year when Good Luck with That was recommended to me. Upon finishing this book (and naming it to my top 10 of 2018 list), I immediately ran out to read her backlist, loving each one more and more. When I heard comparisons to Gilmore Girls for Life and Other Inconveniences, I knew I was going to love this one.
Emma has returned home at 35 to care for her ailing grandmother - the grandmother who tossed her out and cut her off when she became pregnant at 18. Genevieve, a former high end fashion designer, is unwilling to accept her life is reaching its sunset and refuses to apologize to Emma for past behavior. The one person Genevieve does soften to is Emma daughter, Riley - who is Genevieve's great granddaughter - who she is meeting for the first time.
Told in alternating perspectives from Emma, Genevieve, Riley and a few other neighbors, we get to know this family and we feel for them. We want to scream with them, cry with them and most of all, hug them and tell them everything is going to be okay. Higgins has such a way with words that bring her characters to life entirely, a special quality that is rarely replicated.
My only sadness is that I now have to wait another year for more! Luckily, I still have quite the backlist to devour.
Thank you to Berkley for an advanced copy. All opinions are my own.
July 30, 2019
Kristan Higgins has always been a favorite author of mine. With her ability to deliver strong fleshed out characters that you truly want to know and her emotional and yet charming heroines and witty dialogue, her books are just so much fun to devour and are always so much more than a fluff read.
This time told in multiple point of views, I love Higgins ability to both make us hate some of the characters and later, not only care for them, but even like them. Most of all, she makes us feel for them in some many different ways. I love authors that can not only bring out the emotions in me, but make me truly think and truly feel, so much so that sometimes I want to both put the book down to catch my breathe and keep on reading it because I just can't get enough and have to know what happens next.
Truly an amazing book about people in all stages of life, each with their own personal demons, regrets, and ability to live, love, grow, and most of all, let go and forgive.
*ARC provided by the publisher in exchange for an honest review.*
This time told in multiple point of views, I love Higgins ability to both make us hate some of the characters and later, not only care for them, but even like them. Most of all, she makes us feel for them in some many different ways. I love authors that can not only bring out the emotions in me, but make me truly think and truly feel, so much so that sometimes I want to both put the book down to catch my breathe and keep on reading it because I just can't get enough and have to know what happens next.
Truly an amazing book about people in all stages of life, each with their own personal demons, regrets, and ability to live, love, grow, and most of all, let go and forgive.
*ARC provided by the publisher in exchange for an honest review.*
February 19, 2020
This was my first Kristan Higgins, and it won't be my last. I absolutely loved this book! Great writer, great characters, great story. I really enjoyed it.
November 12, 2019
3.5
This novel is about Emma London and her extended family. Her paternal grandmother, Genevieve London is the other important character, whose point of view we hear often. She's eighty-five and reconnects with Emma and her great-grandaughter, Riley, on account of wanting them close by as she's dying from a brain tumour, or so she claims. There's bad history, grievances and miscommunication that have built up over the years. Of course, nobody is regret-free. Because we get both Emma's and Genevieve's perspectives, we understand their reasons for their actions and views. We even hear from Emma's absent and self-involved father.
This was a very realistic novel, with characters that were very well fleshed out. If anything, and I can't believe I'm saying this, this was a bit too realistic, there were too many feelings, too much explaining and justification, it read like one huge shrink session. Most of us are in touch with our feelings and have a greater understanding of why certain behaviours occur - ie a lonely child, who's emotionally damaged is likely to misbehave, be clingy etc. We've read the books, seen the movies, some of us even had the shrink sessions. We get it - we don't need it all on a platter, which is what this novel is - one huge bento box, where several characters' feelings are neatly arranged for our consumption.
Other than that, it's a perfectly good looking bento box, with palatable and familiar foods on it. It did the job, but it wasn't memorable. (Apologies for the food analogy, I'm hungry. :-))
This novel is about Emma London and her extended family. Her paternal grandmother, Genevieve London is the other important character, whose point of view we hear often. She's eighty-five and reconnects with Emma and her great-grandaughter, Riley, on account of wanting them close by as she's dying from a brain tumour, or so she claims. There's bad history, grievances and miscommunication that have built up over the years. Of course, nobody is regret-free. Because we get both Emma's and Genevieve's perspectives, we understand their reasons for their actions and views. We even hear from Emma's absent and self-involved father.
This was a very realistic novel, with characters that were very well fleshed out. If anything, and I can't believe I'm saying this, this was a bit too realistic, there were too many feelings, too much explaining and justification, it read like one huge shrink session. Most of us are in touch with our feelings and have a greater understanding of why certain behaviours occur - ie a lonely child, who's emotionally damaged is likely to misbehave, be clingy etc. We've read the books, seen the movies, some of us even had the shrink sessions. We get it - we don't need it all on a platter, which is what this novel is - one huge bento box, where several characters' feelings are neatly arranged for our consumption.
Other than that, it's a perfectly good looking bento box, with palatable and familiar foods on it. It did the job, but it wasn't memorable. (Apologies for the food analogy, I'm hungry. :-))
September 24, 2019
4 STARS
Tough one. Really well done, but depressing as hell. What a cast of characters. Crazy though it seems, I ended up liking them all. Well, all except maybe two, and those two know who they are. The romance factor in this book was almost nonexistent. So if you're looking for romance, this one is probably only a lukewarm choice. The tragedy factor, however, was off the charts. So bring your tissues, when you start this one.
I would like to see her work veer back towards happier times and love. She does capture those things here, but not without paying a hefty price of heartache and tears. Life is hard enough without having to relive all the hardships we suffer. Stellar writing. There were some worst-nightmare scenarios these poor characters lived through, and they were heartbreaking to say the least. KH did a wonderful job capturing the emotional side of these issues.
Tough one. Really well done, but depressing as hell. What a cast of characters. Crazy though it seems, I ended up liking them all. Well, all except maybe two, and those two know who they are. The romance factor in this book was almost nonexistent. So if you're looking for romance, this one is probably only a lukewarm choice. The tragedy factor, however, was off the charts. So bring your tissues, when you start this one.
I would like to see her work veer back towards happier times and love. She does capture those things here, but not without paying a hefty price of heartache and tears. Life is hard enough without having to relive all the hardships we suffer. Stellar writing. There were some worst-nightmare scenarios these poor characters lived through, and they were heartbreaking to say the least. KH did a wonderful job capturing the emotional side of these issues.
May 30, 2019
3.5 stars. thank you to Berkley publishing for this ARC. pretty darn good.
June 18, 2023
I enjoyed this story about family and new beginnings. It's told in various POVs, so it was easy to feel invested in the characters' lives.
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June 11, 2020
This was an emotional ride worth taking! ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Kristin Higgins knows how write the type of character driven story that pulls you in and makes you fall in love with fictional characters. You guys, I was sooo invested in this family - by the end of the book they felt like old friends that I would miss.
This story had family drama, funny moments, tearful moments, romance and so much heart! 𝐈𝐭 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐚 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐲 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬, 𝐬𝐜𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐞𝐝 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐲.
I feel in love with snobby and sassy Genevieve. I want to be her when I grow up. 😉 She was amazing and watching her evolve and embrace her mistakes and repair her relationship with her granddaughter, Emma truly tugged at my heartstrings.
I can’t go into every character but honestly - they were all amazing. From wise beyond her years Riley, who had such a pure heart to the crazy antics of the help staff that had me laughing out loud. You will be smitten with them all!
In short, this book was a wonderful unexpected surprise. If you enjoy books centered around families and second chances this is one not to be missed.
Kristin Higgins knows how write the type of character driven story that pulls you in and makes you fall in love with fictional characters. You guys, I was sooo invested in this family - by the end of the book they felt like old friends that I would miss.
This story had family drama, funny moments, tearful moments, romance and so much heart! 𝐈𝐭 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐚 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐲 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬, 𝐬𝐜𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐞𝐝 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐲.
I feel in love with snobby and sassy Genevieve. I want to be her when I grow up. 😉 She was amazing and watching her evolve and embrace her mistakes and repair her relationship with her granddaughter, Emma truly tugged at my heartstrings.
I can’t go into every character but honestly - they were all amazing. From wise beyond her years Riley, who had such a pure heart to the crazy antics of the help staff that had me laughing out loud. You will be smitten with them all!
In short, this book was a wonderful unexpected surprise. If you enjoy books centered around families and second chances this is one not to be missed.
August 20, 2019
I have become such a huge fan of Kristan Higgins!! She never disappoints my friends and this one is just another high praise in my book! I think after now reading 4 books by this author and loved all of them.. it's an automatic buy for me!!
I just loved this set of characters and didn't want this book to end! I was so sad!!! I read Good Luck With That last year and it ended up on my top 10 list for 2018. This one is definitely up there as well my friends for my top 2019 picks!
Everytime I have read her books I'm always laughing, crying, smiling, happy... you name it. This book is nothing different than her previous books my friends!
Plain and simple... please do yourself a favor and grab this emotional and amazing book up!!
4.5 strong stars for me!!
Thank you so much to Berkley publishing and Netgalley for the arc in exchange for an honest review.
Publication date: 8/6/19
Published to GR: 8/5/19
I just loved this set of characters and didn't want this book to end! I was so sad!!! I read Good Luck With That last year and it ended up on my top 10 list for 2018. This one is definitely up there as well my friends for my top 2019 picks!
Everytime I have read her books I'm always laughing, crying, smiling, happy... you name it. This book is nothing different than her previous books my friends!
Plain and simple... please do yourself a favor and grab this emotional and amazing book up!!
4.5 strong stars for me!!
Thank you so much to Berkley publishing and Netgalley for the arc in exchange for an honest review.
Publication date: 8/6/19
Published to GR: 8/5/19
August 2, 2019
I am SO excited that it’s finally time for me to fangirl over one of my all time favorite authors latest book! She’s one of those rare gems that gets better with each book, I always say her newest is my most favorite and I’m saying it again here. This had all the elements that I’ve come to expect and love from KH and much more.
This flips back and forth between Genevieve, Riley and Emma with some chapters from other secondary characters as well giving you a true birds eye point of view of all the action. While KH books always have an engaging storyline full of humor and heart, what truly makes her books shine is her phenomenal characterization. Every single character here was portrayed in a way that made them feel larger than life and like you could easily imagine yourself chatting to them in real life. This amazing writing style allows you to get so fully invested in these people that they feel like real friends by the time you get done. This tactic also always makes me feel something, I could relate to Emma’s struggles as a mother, I felt sympathetic to Genevieve’s loss of her son, I wanted to help keep Riley safe from the mean girls at school, my point here is that it was an emotional read and I experienced way too many emotions to name, both highs and lows.
If you’re already a fan of KH you’ll be ecstatic about this one and if she’s a new to you author grab this and then be so excited she has an extensive backlist to devour because you’ll definitely want more!
Life and Other Inconveniences in three words: Heartfelt, Emotional and Moving
This flips back and forth between Genevieve, Riley and Emma with some chapters from other secondary characters as well giving you a true birds eye point of view of all the action. While KH books always have an engaging storyline full of humor and heart, what truly makes her books shine is her phenomenal characterization. Every single character here was portrayed in a way that made them feel larger than life and like you could easily imagine yourself chatting to them in real life. This amazing writing style allows you to get so fully invested in these people that they feel like real friends by the time you get done. This tactic also always makes me feel something, I could relate to Emma’s struggles as a mother, I felt sympathetic to Genevieve’s loss of her son, I wanted to help keep Riley safe from the mean girls at school, my point here is that it was an emotional read and I experienced way too many emotions to name, both highs and lows.
If you’re already a fan of KH you’ll be ecstatic about this one and if she’s a new to you author grab this and then be so excited she has an extensive backlist to devour because you’ll definitely want more!
Life and Other Inconveniences in three words: Heartfelt, Emotional and Moving
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