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362 pages, Kindle Edition
First published September 19, 2019
"We want to control our deaths, our goodbye to the world, and if we can't control it, we can at least control how we leave it behind."
“The cold, like the darkness, can become a deceptive comfort you never want to leave.”
“I hate goodbyes, but hating them is never a justification to stay.”
“After Gerry's death, I used to meet with his parents a few times a year; they were still family to me, I was still their daughter-in-law”.Erm, what? Did the author just hope most of her audience forgot or didn’t read PS I Love You ?
There's always another side to the coin, there is no middle ground. But I must find it. I can't lose myself again. (...) I must stop feeling so deeply but I must not be numb; I must move on but I must not forget; I must be happy but not reject sadness; I must embrace, not cling; I must deal with but not dwell on; I must confront but not attack; I must eliminate but not annihilate; I must be gentle with myself but I must be strong.it turns out to make no difference whatsoever. It’s only around like 95% that a psychologist points out to her that she should set her boundaries (seriously, you're bringing that up just now?):
“You need rules, you need guidelines. For yourself, and for them. (...) Before you help more people make sure you’re in a secure position yourself.”