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238 pages, Kindle Edition
First published July 14, 2020
“Dancing appears glamorous, easy, delightful. But the path to paradise of the achievement is not easier than any other,” said renowned dancer Martha Graham. “There is fatigue so great that the body cries, even in its sleep. There are times of complete frustration, there are daily small deaths.” That’s what it takes to get where we want to go. We need to know that; we need to see behind the glamour of performance."
"...we make mistakes and fail more often when we are at the edge of our skill. They are proof that we are testing our limits, and that’s a good thing. If we are not making mistakes, it’s likely we are in our comfort zone and not pushing ourselves hard enough. As Nobel laureate in physics Frank Wilczek once put it, “If you don’t make mistakes, you are not working on hard enough problems. And that’s a big mistake.”
...we must also adopt the attitude Michael Jordan lives by, “I can accept failure, everyone fails at something, but I can’t accept not trying.” We need to embrace setbacks as a requirement of pursuing mastery and consider the only “failure” not to try, not to put in the work, or to walk away at the first sign of difficulty."
"Learning anything comes with its share of impatience, frustration, and sometimes boredom. It’s unavoidable. But so is progress if we are diligent in our practice. If we put in the time and effort, we will get better. We must trust the process and not get discouraged when we don’t see immediate results. As Jimi Hendrix once said, “Sometimes you are going to be so frustrated you’ll hate the guitar, but all of this is just a part of learning. If you stick with it you’re going to be rewarded.” No skill, regardless of how difficult, can resist a relentless attack of deliberate practice. And even though the day-to-day actions may not seem to have an impact, when compounded over months and years, they build into mastery."
"Whether your goal is to become a master like Michelangelo, take on a new craft as a hobby, or get better at a skill you already practice, you now know the path to get there. You won’t be held back by false beliefs about talent or the common challenges that prevent most people from pursuing a passion.
It’s time to become the artist, athlete, or professional you’ve always wanted to be, and now you have the tools to make that happen. You know the process, understand the principles, and possess the strategies to learn, improve, and master your craft.
You hold the method to create the “magic.”