“not only was I able to be present with them, but I was also able to provide chaplaincy care to them, not because of the color of our skin, but because I had learned about who God was for them and how they lived their theology. My prayers reflected their theology and their God and enabled them to begin their grieving process. I learned that it was not about me and what I believed; it was about them and what their belief system was and who God was for them.”