“Do they all betray, lie, manipulate & deceive? Are they all selfish, power-hungry, unhappy, lonely?

While in his Shadow, he will either immediately reject you, or say he loves you, play with you, use you, & reject you later. Not all of them are weak. But more often, while they hurt & betray, they learn to love. It is difficult to walk away, leaving him alone with his insecurities, & selfishness. It is hard to leave when you love, but you can’t change his character, or his attitude towards you, or the way he chooses to live his life.”