“Connie: I just think it comes and goes. There's a period of time, maybe enough to raise a child and then... You know, the few times I've ever loved anyone they've always, at some point they've written I Love You in the snow or the sand - on holiday - to me. And it's wonderful, but the next time someone... it happens, or the next even... you think, Oh okay. Again. And you think of the last time. And what that meant. And, just for it to get washed away or melt or...”