“Let us strive to replace judging with tolerance—tolerance of others’ choices, knowing that each of us is on our own unique evolutionary path. We should offer others the same trust in their choices that we expect for our own. The same compassion for their missteps as we wish for our own. We should offer each other unconditional love—love free of judgment, free of conditions. No strings attached. Love that does not disappear when someone steps outside our comfort zone or does what we would prefer they did not.”