Denise > Denise's Quotes

Showing 1-30 of 658

« previous 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 … 21 22 next »

#1

“Love can crystallize things. When love is in the air, distressing rain can become a wonderful avalanche of shimmering diamonds. Raindrops are transformed into a flood of sparkling crystal pearls. The power of love can convert rain into a multitude of glittering prisms. The mental seduction of love and a boundless illusion, inflamed by a profound uprising emotion, can change any ordinary incident into a radiant, luminous voyage. ( "Crystallization under an umbrella" )”
― Erik Pevernagie

tags: crystallized-dreams, diamonds, emotion, illusion, love, mental, pearls, prism, rain, raindrops, seduction

134 likes

#2

“People die from lack of shared empathy and affinity. By establishing social connectedness, we give hope a chance and the other can become heaven. ( "Le ciel c'est l'autre" )”
― Erik Pevernagie

tags: affinity, connectedness, die, empathy, heaven, hope, others, social

136 likes

#3

“A fleeting moment can become an eternity. From a past encounter everything may disappear in the dungeon of forgetfulness. A few furtive flashes or innocent twinkles can survive, though. Some immaterial details may remain marked in our memory, forever. A significant look, a salient colour or a unforeseen gesture may abide, indelibly engraved in our mind. ( "Girl in blue" )”
― Erik Pevernagie

tags: abide, blue, color, details, disappear, dungeon, encounter, engraved, etrenity, flashes, fleeting, forgetfulness, furtive, gesture, girl, immaterial, indelible, innocent, look, marked, memory, mind, moment, past, salient, significant, survive, twinkle, unforeseen

127 likes

#4

“Lightness and weightiness are both linked to a philosophy of life. They are choices in life. Heaviness can be the embodiment of a sense of responsibility, the expression of maturity, the result of profound meditation or the emanation of a search for meaning in life. Weightiness, however, may also lead to a feeling of oppression, when it is felt as a burden, an unbearable burden. Then time has come to let loose and things can finally lose their gravity. ( "The unbearable heaviness of being" )”
― Erik Pevernagie

tags: burden, choices, gravity, heaviness, let-loose, life, lightness, maturity, meaning, meditation, oppression, philosophy, responsibility, weightiness

121 likes

#5

“We may wonder what is going on in the back of the mind and what betides in the mood of some people who live on the edge of isolation and emotional poverty. They belong to life’s outcasts: deserted by affection, deprived of physical or lingual contact and finally reduced to silence. ("Why didn't he ask ? ")”
― Erik Pevernagie

tags: affection, contact, deprived, deserted, edge, emotional, isolation, life, mind, mood, outcasts, physical, poverty, silence

120 likes

#6

“Some seem to be desynchronized in their relationships. They feel oppressed, because they cannot move forward together and at the same pace. Their thinking is often incongruent, their motivation disparate. The phone could be a mediator, as it creates an impression to be a perfect reliable friend. However, in the end, it causes rather a sense of isolation, since it divides more than it unites. Eventually it appears not to be such a good friend but only a ghost friend. ( "Kein Schwein ruft mich an" )”
― Erik Pevernagie

tags: disparate, friend, impression, incongruity, isolation, mediator, motivation, oppressed, pace, phone, relationships, thinking

121 likes

#7

“The crucial point in life is: are we living our 'own' life or simply a life for 'other' people. Are we not playing a role on behalf of some social groups and masquerading for fear of being excluded? ( "Quest for the real moment" )”
― Erik Pevernagie

tags: excluded, fear, life, living, masquerade, role, social-group

120 likes

#8

“We are what we remember. If we lose our memory, we lose our identity and our identity is the accumulation of our experiences. When we walk down the memory lane, it can be unconsciously, willingly, selectively, impetuously or sometimes grudgingly. By following our stream of consciousness we look for lost time and things past. Some reminiscences become anchor points that can take another scope with the wisdom of hindsight. ("Walking down the memory lane" )”
― Erik Pevernagie

tags: accumulation, anchor-points, experiences, grudge, hindsight, identity, impetuously, lose, lost-time, memory, memory-lane, memory-loss, remember, reminiscence, scope, selective, stream-of-consciousness, things-past, unconsciously, walk-down, willingly, wisdom

125 likes

#9

“We can give happiness a chance: happiness is learnable. Life is a choice and happiness is a question of focusing, hearing and seeing the right things behind the appearances. It is a matter of finding out, differencing worthiness and irrelevance, connectedness and distantness, warmth and aloofness, brightness and dimness. Happiness is the lucky potential to steer friskily along the cliffs of the unknown avoiding the obstacles of narcissism and conceit. ( " Happiness blowing in the wind. " )”
― Erik Pevernagie

tags: aloofness, appearances, brightness, connectedness, dimness, find-out, focusing, happiness, hearing, irrrelevant, life, lucky, narcissism, potential, seeing, warmth, wind

118 likes

#10

“Like a snake sheds its skin, we are capable of getting rid of assembled habits, creating space to call matters into question. Instead of the Shakespearian " To be or not to be " we could favor " to become or not to become". By "becoming", we challenge the range of possibilities in our life and go beyond the merely "being". We can retreat, then, from the imprisonment of a deadly routine, acquire an identity and develop our personality. ( "Man without Qualities" )”
― Erik Pevernagie

tags: acquire, assembled, becoming, being, beyond, call-into-question, capable, challenge, create, deadly, develop, favour, get-rid-of, habits, identity, imprisonment, life, man, matters, merely, personality, possibilities, qualities, range, retreat, routine, shakespearean, shed, skin, snake, space, to-be-or-not-to-be, to-become, to-go

121 likes

#11

“The perpetual movement of the water, rolling from and to unknown destinations, the voices of the sea shield us from the raging furies and shrieking sounds of dystopian surroundings, creating an unwinding veil for stilled happiness, acquainting us with the gentle, cosmic rhythms of an extraneous world. They are a soothing relief and let us listen to the voices of our inner world. ("Voices of the sea" )”
― Erik Pevernagie

tags: cosmic, destinations, dystopian, extraneous, furies, happiness, inner, listen, movement, perpetual, raging, relief, rhythm, sea, shield, shriek, soothing, sounds, stillness, surroundings, veil, voices, water, world

119 likes

#12

“When time furtively slips like sand through the fingers and our memory becomes tired and lazy, we recognize we are at war. We are at war with forgetfulness. ("The past was her best friend" )”
― Erik Pevernagie

tags: fingers, forgetfulness, friend, furtively, lazy, memory, past, recognize, sand, slip, time, tired, war

118 likes

#13

“When words have vanished, when daily habits have extinguished emotional exchange, only killing silence remains and indifference takes over. ( "Words had disappeared" )”
― Erik Pevernagie

tags: emotional, exchange, habits, indifference, silence, words

116 likes

#14

“In their quest for the "real moment" some expect to grab hold of the singular instant that feels like a journey between the past and the future, between the land they know and a land they don't know. In their pursuit they hope to encounter that 'genuine' moment, that frail child of the fleeting time that leaves a scar in the memory.”
― Erik Pevernagie

tags: memory-quote, moments-quotes, past-and-future, time-passing

119 likes

#15

“Wishful thinking and voluntary daydreaming can occasionally make dreams come true. Unrealistic projects, improbable ventures and unfeasible missions can sometimes be achieved through 'conscious dreaming'. At times, dreams can be an inspiration and generate creative reflections.

(<"Lost dreams")”
― Erik Pevernagie

tags: conscious, daydreaming, dreams, inspiration, reflections, wishful-thinking

117 likes

#16

“The dialectic case of the 'things we do', the 'things we have done' and the 'things we are going to do' has been haunting present and earlier generations. For ages people have been confronted with the soul-searching question how should I interpret the past and how do I move forward. Linguistic sayings, which were inherited from century to century, gave us a good deal of remarkable advice and moral guidance in this field : " Do what is right and let come what come may ", " Do well and fear not ", " Do well and dread no shame ".
Erik Pevernagie, Never looking back again”
― Erik Pevernagie

tags: advice, dialectic, fear, future, guidance, look-back, past, shame, soul-searching

116 likes

#17

“Through dreams and ideas we are seduced to go back to particular places and instances of our past. In the course of the years, these singular moments and spaces of our history very often receive then another color and dimension. Our mind tries however to tame and keep in control the phantoms of times past. If not so, our memory can be subject to an irreversible mutilation. ( "The mutilated memory" )”
― Erik Pevernagie

tags: dreams, ideas, memory, mind, moments, mutilation, past, space

118 likes

#18

“Love assumes expectation and hope. All actors of the hazardous pursuit of love eagerly look forward to passing a significant cape without injuries or aching scratches: "the Cape of good Hope". ( " Those journeys of love" )”
― Erik Pevernagie

tags: expectations, hope, love

114 likes

#19

“All incidents which we experience are warily interpreted and translated in the dark chamber of our mind. They inspire us how to behave, how to think, how to act and prompt our predilections and our way of visualizing the world. The mind opens itself then to welcome the enchantments of life or to tear up destructive thinking patterns. The brain becomes truly a precious resilient partner. ( "Camera obscura of the mind" )”
― Erik Pevernagie

tags: behave, brain, camera-obscura, dark-chamber-of-the-heart, incidents, life, mind, predilection, resilient

115 likes

#20

“Love has the power to create an inviting space in the lives of people. But if daily routine kills dreamy or passionate thoughts, the constraint of the room may become oppressive and the emptiness unbearable. The room loses then its original fullness and turns into a place of nothingness. ( " Another empty room" )”
― Erik Pevernagie

tags: constraint, create, daily, dreamy, emptiness, fullness, inviting, lives, lose, love, love-quotes, nothingness, oppressive, original, passionate, people, place, power, room, routine, space, thoughts, unbearable

115 likes

#21

“Some use "ambiguity" as their native language and prefer to hide behind a veil of para-social intrigue or deceit. They readily apply a strategy of a condescendingly friendly approach. Still, as we can capture arresting signals that urge us to defuse a dire threat of besiegement, we can decipher any shrouded or manipulative intentions and steer clear of unforeseen pitfalls. ("Finally things had lost their weightiness")”
― Erik Pevernagie

tags: ambiguity, condescending, deceit, decipher, intentions, intrigue, manupulation, native-language, para-social, pitfalls

82 likes

#22

“If we are out of step with the priorities of real life and feel lost in the anarchy of our feelings, we must assert our humbleness and assume we need the shine of a guiding lighthouse in our emotional odyssey. ("Camera obscura of the mind")”
― Erik Pevernagie

tags: anarchy, camera-obscura, emotional-odyssey, feelings, guiding-light, humbleness, lighthouse, out-of-step, priorities, real-life

80 likes

#23

“If we cannot flap with the butterflies of “happiness,” we must bring to life the cascades of “joy,” conjuring up the spell of its enchantment and rolling cheerfully on the splashing waves of the future. ("Waiting for Mr. Out-placer")”
― Erik Pevernagie

tags: butterflies, cascade, conjure-up, enchantment, flap, happiness, joy, out-placer, spell, splashing

80 likes

#24

“Instead of playing leapfrog with trivial claptrap or slamming doors with our “always right” egos, let us learn to nurture the seeds of acceptance and step back from our pinned-down prejudices. ("On a doggy day")”
― Erik Pevernagie

tags: acceptance, always-right, claptrap, doggy-day, ego, playing-leapfrog, prejudices, step-back, trivial

83 likes

#25

“Let us not ponder over biting ripostes that are thought of just seconds too late on our way home. Rather than awkwardly stumbling on the flight of steps to verbal avenge and tormenting ourselves with the wit of the staircase and its pointless ruminations or self-righteous vanity, we better transcend the shallow waters of narcissism and find harmony by resourcing ourselves in humility.
("Wit of the staircase")”
― Erik Pevernagie

tags: biting-ripostes, flight-of-steps, humility, narcissism, pointless-ruminations, resourcing-oneself, verbal-avenge, wit-of-the-staircase

80 likes

#26

“Why must we be freaking out about the kindness and sympathy we would like to share? What could deter us so much from opening our hearts and spilling the beans? Why should we harbor suspicions about the gentleness of people who are bubbling over with enthusiasm and goodwill? Could kindness generate such a thorny challenge in people's lives and make them feel so uncomfortable as if they were wobbling on thin ice, fearing losing balance and thus losing face? (“Schengen”)”
― Erik Pevernagie

tags: harbor-suspicion, kindness, losing-balance, losing-face, on-thin-ice, schengen, spilling-the-beans, sympathy

80 likes

#27

“Before our life is rolling down into an inescapable descent, let us snoop around and poke about the happy surprises falling into the basket of our inventiveness and keep on laughing and dancing until the end of time, whatever happens.”
― Erik Pevernagie

tags: happy-surprise, inventiveness, laughing-and-dancing, life, poke-about, rolling-down, snoop-around

80 likes

#28

“The moment we realize that we don’t grasp what we know can be a watershed in our lives. The day we start to accept what we already know may perhaps be very bewildering, at first, but anyway, utmost eye-opening. The knowledge that has been barricaded behind ramparts of fear and distrust in our minds can suddenly burst loose. Through this deliverance, we become eventually aware of what we have always known but never dared to recognize. At that instant, the undercover challenge between “knowing and not knowing” can finally be settled. “To know, or not to know, that is the question!”
(“"Wrong time. Wrong place"”)”
― Erik Pevernagie

tags: bewildering, distrust, fear, know, knowledge, rampart, wrong-time-wrong-place

82 likes

#29

“If the giddiness of life and the pressure of time might make us tumble from our tight line, let us inhale the wisdom of our inspiration and reshape our “inner void” into an “inner space” and refurbish it with the fundamental, vital particles of our everyday experience. ("One drink after work.")”
― Erik Pevernagie

tags: giddiness, inhale, inner-space, inner-void, inspiration, pressure-of-time, reshape, tight-line, tumble, wisdom

82 likes

#30

“Once our imagination starts collapsing and the fragrant blossoms of our inspiration are wilting, petal after petal, our awareness may shake to its foundations, but nothing might deter us if we find the strength to rediscover the path back to the undifferentiated groundedness of our being and the essence of our roots.
("One drink after work.")”
― Erik Pevernagie

tags: awareness, collapsing, drink-after-work, fragrant-blossoms, groundedness, imagination, inspiration, our-being, petal, wilting

82 likes

« previous 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 … 21 22 next »

All Quotes

Denise > Denise's Quotes

Tags From Denise’s Quotes