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  • #1
    Haruki Murakami
    “And once the storm is over, you won’t remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive. You won’t even be sure, whether the storm is really over. But one thing is certain. When you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm’s all about.”
    Haruki Murakami, Kafka on the Shore

  • #2
    Plato
    “Only the dead have seen the end of war.”
    Plato

  • #3
    “Letting go of your ex is part of a much larger lifelong journey of understanding yourself and making choices consistent with your values.”
    Dr. Cortney Warren

  • #4
    “Feeling addicted to an ex makes letting them go excruciatingly hard even when you rationally want to move on.”
    Dr. Cortney Warren

  • #5
    Yasmin Mogahed
    “Yet the people who broke me were not to be blamed any more than gravity can be blamed for breaking the vase. We can't blame the laws of physics when a twig snaps because we leaned on it for support. The twig was never created to carry us.”
    Yasmin Mogahed, Reclaim Your Heart: Personal Insights on Breaking Free from Life's Shackles

  • #6
    “Narcissists are blamers, they are not capable of taking responsibility. At first you
    know it is not your fault, over time you get exhausted from trying to explain your
    innocence and you surrender to the lies, just to keep the peace.”
    Tracy A. Malone

  • #7
    “People who are really poor, can't afford to do crime, because they don't have means and resources to commit one. They might have a reason to do it, but wont have strength, capacity, materials or resources to commit one. It is people who are well off who are doing most crimes, because they can afford to.”
    De philosopher DJ Kyos

  • #8
    Ned Vizzini
    “I didn't want to wake up. I was having a much better time asleep. And that's really sad. It was almost like a reverse nightmare, like when you wake up from a nightmare you're so relieved. I woke up into a nightmare.”
    Ned Vizzini, It's Kind of a Funny Story

  • #9
    Stephen Fry
    “If you know someone who’s depressed, please resolve never to ask them why. Depression isn’t a straightforward response to a bad situation; depression just is, like the weather.

    Try to understand the blackness, lethargy, hopelessness, and loneliness they’re going through. Be there for them when they come through the other side. It’s hard to be a friend to someone who’s depressed, but it is one of the kindest, noblest, and best things you will ever do.”
    Stephen Fry

  • #10
    John Green
    “Whenever you read a cancer booklet or website or whatever, they always list depression among the side effects of cancer. But, in fact, depression is not a side effect of cancer. Depression is a side effect of dying.”
    John Green, The Fault in Our Stars

  • #11
    Andrew Solomon
    “Listen to the people who love you. Believe that they are worth living for even when you don't believe it. Seek out the memories depression takes away and project them into the future. Be brave; be strong; take your pills. Exercise because it's good for you even if every step weighs a thousand pounds. Eat when food itself disgusts you. Reason with yourself when you have lost your reason.”
    Andrew Solomon, The Noonday Demon: An Atlas of Depression

  • #12
    Elizabeth Wurtzel
    “That is all I want in life: for this pain to seem purposeful.”
    Elizabeth Wurtzel, Prozac Nation

  • #13
    Elizabeth Gilbert
    “When you're lost in those woods, it sometimes takes you a while to realize that you are lost. For the longest time, you can convince yourself that you've just wandered off the path, that you'll find your way back to the trailhead any moment now. Then night falls again and again, and you still have no idea where you are, and it's time to admit that you have bewildered yourself so far off the path that you don't even know from which direction the sun rises anymore.”
    Elizabeth Gilbert

  • #14
    Elizabeth Wurtzel
    “I'm the girl who is lost in space, the girl who is disappearing always, forever fading away and receding farther and farther into the background. Just like the Cheshire cat, someday I will suddenly leave, but the artificial warmth of my smile, that phony, clownish curve, the kind you see on miserably sad people and villains in Disney movies, will remain behind as an ironic remnant. I am the girl you see in the photograph from some party someplace or some picnic in the park, the one who is in fact soon to be gone. When you look at the picture again, I want to assure you, I will no longer be there. I will be erased from history, like a traitor in the Soviet Union. Because with every day that goes by, I feel myself becoming more and more invisible...”
    Elizabeth Wurtzel, Prozac Nation

  • #15
    Elizabeth Wurtzel
    “I feel like a defective model, like I came off the assembly line flat-out fucked and my parents should have taken me back for repairs before the warranty ran out.”
    Elizabeth Wurtzel, Prozac Nation

  • #16
    Albert Camus
    “Find meaning. Distinguish melancholy from sadness. Go out for a walk. It doesn’t have to be a romantic walk in the park, spring at its most spectacular moment, flowers and smells and outstanding poetical imagery smoothly transferring you into another world. It doesn’t have to be a walk during which you’ll have multiple life epiphanies and discover meanings no other brain ever managed to encounter. Do not be afraid of spending quality time by yourself. Find meaning or don’t find meaning but 'steal' some time and give it freely and exclusively to your own self. Opt for privacy and solitude. That doesn’t make you antisocial or cause you to reject the rest of the world. But you need to breathe. And you need to be.”
    Albert Camus, Notebooks 1951-1959

  • #17
    Ned Vizzini
    “Sometimes I just think depression's one way of coping with the world. Like, some people get drunk, some people do drugs, some people get depressed. Because there's so much stuff out there that you have to do something to deal with it.”
    Ned Vizzini, It's Kind of a Funny Story

  • #18
    Elizabeth Gilbert
    “Depression on my left, Loneliness on my right. They don't need to show me thier badges. I know these guys very well.”
    Elizabeth Gilbert

  • #19
    Katie McGarry
    “I saw the world in black and white instead of the vibrant colours and shades I knew existed.”
    Katie McGarry, Pushing the Limits

  • #20
    Lone Alaskan Gypsy
    “Rain makes me feel less alone. All rain is, is a cloud- falling apart, and pouring its shattered pieces down on top of you. It makes me feel good to know I'm not the only thing that falls apart . It makes me feel better to know other things in nature can shatter.”
    Lone Alaskan Gypsy

  • #21
    Elizabeth Wurtzel
    “I start to think there really is no cure for depression, that happiness is an ongoing battle, and I wonder if it isn't one I'll have to fight for as long as I live. I wonder if it's worth it.”
    Elizabeth Wurtzel, Prozac Nation

  • #22
    Jasmine Warga
    “He was fucking sad. That's it. That's the point. He knows life is never going to get any different for him. That there's no fixing him. It's always going to be the same monotonous depressing bullshit. Boring, sad, boring, sad. He just wants it to be over.”
    Jasmine Warga, My Heart and Other Black Holes

  • #23
    Bryant McGill
    “We are all damaged. We have all been hurt. We have all had to learn painful lessons. We are all recovering from some mistake, loss, betrayal, abuse, injustice or misfortune. All of life is a process of recovery that never ends. We each must find ways to accept and move through the pain and to pick ourselves back up. For each pang of grief, depression, doubt or despair there is an inverse toward renewal coming to you in time. Each tragedy is an announcement that some good will indeed come in time. Be patient with yourself.”
    Bryant McGill, Simple Reminders: Inspiration for Living Your Best Life

  • #24
    Hippocrates
    “If you are in a bad mood go for a walk.If you are still in a bad mood go for another walk.”
    Hippocrates

  • #25
    Sarah Fine
    “Some people can’t keep fighting. Some people want to escape. Some people are not ready—are not able—to find a way to deal with what’s in front of them. Sometimes there’s no one to help them. Sometimes they don’t know how to ask for help. Sometimes it feels like there’s no choice but to end it. No other way out. And sometimes it’s impossible to see past that.”
    Sarah Fine, Sanctum

  • #26
    Jodi Picoult
    “I knew what it was like to lose someone you loved. You didn't get past something like that, you got through it.”
    Jodi Picoult, Change of Heart

  • #27
    Alysha Speer
    “Depression weighs you down like a rock in a river. You don't stand a chance. You can fight and pray and hope you have the strength to swim, but sometimes, you have to let yourself sink. Because you'll never know true happiness until someone or something pulls you back out of that river--and you'll never believe it until you realize it was you, yourself who saved you.”
    Alysha Speer

  • #28
    Gillian Flynn
    “Sometimes I think I won't ever feel safe until I can count my last days on one hand. Three more days to get through until I don't have to worry about life anymore.”
    Gillian Flynn, Sharp Objects

  • #29
    “I had carried on when all I wanted was to be dead. I had stayed alive for other people. I never stayed alive for myself. I cannot begin to describe the intensity of that effort.”
    Sally Brampton, Shoot the Damn Dog: A Memoir of Depression

  • #30
    Stephen Fry
    “I’ve found that it’s of some help to think of one’s moods and feelings about the world as being similar to weather.

    Here are some obvious things about the weather:

    It's real.
    You can't change it by wishing it away.
    If it's dark and rainy, it really is dark and rainy, and you can't alter it.
    It might be dark and rainy for two weeks in a row.

    BUT
    it will be sunny one day.
    It isn't under one's control when the sun comes out, but come out it will.
    One day.

    It really is the same with one's moods, I think. The wrong approach is to believe that they are illusions. Depression, anxiety, listlessness - these are all are real as the weather - AND EQUALLY NOT UNDER ONE'S CONTROL.
    Not one's fault.

    BUT
    They will pass: really they will.

    In the same way that one really has to accept the weather, one has to accept how one feels about life sometimes, "Today is a really crap day," is a perfectly realistic approach. It's all about finding a kind of mental umbrella. "Hey-ho, it's raining inside; it isn't my fault and there's nothing I can do about it, but sit it out. But the sun may well come out tomorrow, and when it does I shall take full advantage.”
    Stephen Fry



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