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Apr 30, 2013 05:55PM
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Tell us about him then, it would be fun to hear :)
Ya I would love to hear about him! What about you Jessica!?
Wellll see I like soo many boys, it's as if every time a boy talks to me or joke with me I would like him and think about him all the time. I don't want to be like that though because its soo tiring *sigh* and I can't even pick out the one I like best because I like all of them, now that's a problem
Haha Jessica I know what you mean but is there anyone who just makes you feel so wonderful and special whenever they talk to you or are around you. That is how my bf makes me feel!
Hmmm they kinda all do, and at the same time they are all jerks >_< it's like one second they would be all nice and next they would be all mean
@Meiyu glad to hear he is nice do you think he likes you
@Jessica I know what you mean. There is this one guy and he is really hot but then once you get to know him he is a total jerk
@Jessica I know what you mean. There is this one guy and he is really hot but then once you get to know him he is a total jerk
@sydney IKR! And I'm surrounded by guys like that@meiyu how old are you??
haha I am in middle school and I have a bf!
That stinks me and my bf are only in 1 class together. I used to "acciedently go into the wrong classroom" Lol it sounds funny now
My crush....hmm....yeah.....idk where to begin XD
Well is he smart? Athletic? A jerk? Are you guys friends?
Sierra what makes him special to you
I have a crush, and have been told by mum that he likes me back because she read his body language while he was talking to me, but I'm not sure... He is smart, funny, as much of a nerd/geek as I am, we like the same things, we are friends (but not like bffs but more aquantences), and I know I've given advice to my friends to just say that you like your crush, but their crushes were not friends, and also, this is my first crush, and I've only told about it to one of my friends and my mum.Wow, I wrote alot.
I don't hold onto a crush for to long. Why should I if I like some one and they don't like me back. It's pointless. Plus, it's not healthy...I had a friend who became a little bit of a stalker and obbssed with this one guy she liked. she was asked out by like 2 people and she said no because she was so into her crush. She later got over her crush...she has now been dating the one guy she said no to for 3 years! Such a cute couple!
Artic Owl wrote: "I don't hold onto a crush for to long. Why should I if I like some one and they don't like me back. It's pointless. Plus, it's not healthy... my friend lost weight, dyed her hair, did things that he was into but she wasnt. she became a little bit of a stalker and ..."
Hey thanks for joining! So Mayoli do you have a crush?
Okay i really like this guy but my friends likes him to.... but he likes us both... idk what to do??
Oh man that's a pickle indeed. I suppose just let the pieces fall where they may. I know that's not the best advice, but that's what I'd do anyway.My crush is so hard to figure out. I get tons of mixed signals, don't know if he likes me back.
Same here! He acts like her likes me but then he doesn't I dont get him
I know it's hard but one day you will find that perfect person!
IDK who I like. I uased to like this really smart boy in my advanced class but all the boys in my grade are jerks. I don't hold on to crushes very long because no boy likes me. It's unhealthy to pine after a boy who doesn't like you. I'm too bossy, pushy, smart, and too much of a know it all. If any of you know the character Hermione in Harry Potter, thats me. My friends are always badgering me about who I like. I told them I would tell them at the end of the year. They want to make a couple of me and a friend, but I feel as if that would make the situation more than akward if he doesn't like me that way.
I liked a guy who I met on my first day of school and he fell head over heals for my best friend and then they started dating. Then she broke his heart and made fun of him. To hide my feelings for him I acted like I hated him. Then one day out of the blue I became his best friend. I knew a lot of his secrets and he knew mine. Then over a stupid accusation our friendship was broken and we no longer talk. So yah
Rachel first off don't think no one likes u. I have thought that in the past but if your crush doesn't like you then they don't deserve for you to like them. If a person can't like you for who you are then it wouldn't be worth dating them in he first place.
Three years wow! I know what you mean. Don't give up i know this girl who walked into her sixth grade school on the first day and saw a boy who she thought was perfect. She liked him all through middle school and high school. They became really good friends and one day she asked him to prom he said no. She was heartbroken but she didn't give up. She went to college and now they have been dating for two years.
I'm sorry about that bookworm what happen to your friendship if you don't mind my asking?
My best-friend moved to my school recently and she's been obsesed with this one guy since she started. She won't stop talking about him. The sad thing is he has told me that he likes one of my friends from another school. I havn't told her yet. I just don't want to see her hurt.
that sucks, because as a good friend you might want to tell her the truth but it'd hurt her at the same time :(
Rachel it will hurt her more if she finds out from him he likes someone else. Tell her and put yourself in her shoes what would you want your friends to do?
I just showed her this convo. She wasn't very mad. She said she understood.
Sydney wrote: "I'm sorry about that bookworm what happen to your friendship if you don't mind my asking?"No it's fine the reason our friendship stopped was because of a rumor that could have gotten me into big trouble. And I asked him if he spread the rumor and he got pissed that I would make such a accusation. I was stressed and I yelled at him and he almost beat the crap out of the dude who spread the rumor. (It wasn't like a "bad" rumor it was about a project) Then he barely spoke to me. After that our friendship was on a very thin line and it stopped. And now we barely even look at each other.
I'm so sorry bookworm! that's awful! I hope you are OK!! :(
Elle wrote: "I'm so sorry bookworm! that's awful! I hope you are OK!! :("Thank you Elle for asking about how I feel. I am used to it by now and I try not to look at him because I don't want all the memories to come back into my mind. But it was hard at the beginning, but now it is just a blob.
Awwwwww!!:( I hope u find someone who cares without limits!
Thank you Elle you are so nice. I hope that you also find that kind of person as well
i have a crush on this boy who likes like every girl but no one likes him but me and when i asked him out he said no :( but he also said that he wanted to get to know me better and he said that maybe in a few years he it would be flipped witch is meaning that maybe he will like me and i wont like him witch will never happen.do you have any advice?
Get to know him better. He said he wanted to get to know u better and he will find out what a great person you are. You should also get to know him better because there is a lot more to a person than what's on the outside. He could be you best friend and then boyfriend or he could be someone you don't want to be around. Any more questions feel free to ask! Hope this helps!
Yeah, Katlyn's gonna talk to him on Monday.
So, is it weird that I have made a plan to tell my crush how I feel on the last day of school?Also, I know of 2 boys who like me, but one I like as a friend, and wish he would back off, and the other, I really don't like. Any suggestions?
(P.S. the reason I don't tell the first boy to back off is because he is kinda pathetic, and i know that is mean, but it is true, and im his friend and don't want to hurt his feelings.)
Just say what you really want to say just tell the truth if they take it the wrong way try to explain you have someone else in mind espeically the friend just say i really like just being your friend and that you don't want to ruin that.
Thanks, I'll try that, though I'm not too good with tact...
All of the guys in my class are immature (they are a year younger. Im going to be a sophomore, but supposed to be a junior. I was held back in 4th grade because of surgery.) and I am shy around boys I like. Also, I don't know how to flirt because I have never seen my parents do it and it doesn't come easy. I like guys that are older, around my age. How do I approach them and get to know them?
