Proud Of It! discussion

Haven't had mine yet. Everyone is getting them at school and I'm like the only one. Seriously...I got cyber bullied by this guy saying mean stuff about why I was still single. I want one but I'm nervous when it comes to that stuff.

Well I've blocked him and mums helping out. I don't know that if I got a bf if I could even hug him!

Can't say but sort of getting into relationships age.

Preteen

Good guess....

I really want one. I had a crush and it's just nobody seems to like me.

Lol maybe. I just feel desperate and I don't want to be looked at as desperate. O well. I'll just wait.

Cya Jessy:( gtg. Really good talking to ya:)))) have a nice night or day.

Lol my parents say that too. I don't think mine were joking though...they'll just have I deal with it.

*to not I

I feel like my first relationship was a good one. ^w^ (We didn't break up on the best of terms though...)

My 1st real relationship was a sweet boy who was 2 years older than me and he was shy and caring and took me on my 1st official date (I had to be 16) to a Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers. I miss him!

My first is my boyfriend right now.
I have not met him though :'(

My first(and most likely only one, I don't count the one last year) was awkward and kinda ended crappy.

You may be surprised how many of them end crappy....but some of them don't ....

Well, he broke up with me because I wouldn't talk to him every single day.

Then he was too possessive and it was always going to end crappy. A real gentleman respects his partners space...as well as lavishing her with his every attention. A fine balancing act that is difficult for younger males to master. Romantic old farts like me however.....

Mine has not ended yet. Thankfully

Mutual respect, undemanding expectations and good communication....sounds boring, but it works.

my first was my best friend Malissa. She has been my friend since first grade. ended in shit but we are still friends.

My first relationship was in high school. Lasted for about a year. We're still friends to this day, though.

have not had mine yet

Neither has Conan O'Brien.:)

Somebody, that is a defeatist attitude and you will have a relationship! Think positive Ms. Somebody
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No boy has ever liked me till now........ugh sad.

Oh snap I think I hear gossip, please continue.....

what??

I was very gentle and patient with my first girlfriend.

wooooooooh that's cool

Girls deserve to be treated with kindness, respect and not rushed into anything. I'd also surprise her with cotton candy and a trip to the amusement park.

We were only 12, so holding hands was romantic to us. And our first kiss was slow and wonderful.

Taking the time to be friends first is the best way to enter a relationship. Get to know one another.

Very true Reblasr!

boys are so full of attitude

As are girls. Which is good sometimes. I hate a pushover or a doormat. I like a strong woman who speaks her mind and puts me in my place when need be.

oh ......but seriously when I see a real boy I don't feel like talking

You might have to push yourself in order to talk to a boy, but I have faith you can do it,

Faith is the key. Good luck, Isha. Just be yourself, the rest will take care of itself.

ummmhhhhhhh......thanks for saying that

What Aaron said is true, just be yourself and you'll find the right one for yourself who loves you for YOU and not someone your trying to be.

And im sorry if my earlier comment might have come off as rude or insensitive or like I was making fun of you, that was not my intention and I'm sorry.

no no i got confused.....that's all no need to be SORRY

Oh thank god, load off my shoulders. Thanks and keep on trucking girl you'll find him for sure :)

eeeeeeee.....ummm thnx

My frist relationship I was 14 he was 14 and it only lasted 2 weeks before he cheated on me with someone else :C Jerk!

My first relationship lasted 2 1/2 years... kindergarten-3rd grade Lol I don't know if that counts.

That is young!

just got my first boyfriend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm happy for u Julia

Way to go, Julia!

:D hes awesome. and thanks everyone! :D

Livin LA Vida single!!!!!!

1st Relationship ? Honestly Randomers....it ain't the "be all and end all". Better to be happy in yourself than waiting and wanting someone else on your arm to do it for you.
Happy Singles make Comfortable Couples....but Desperate Singles make Overattached Stalkers.
Nuff Said....i'm off to boil some bunnies !
(Movie Ref: Fatal Attraction...anyone?.... nah, thought not.)