Wicked Cravings
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So do you feel it is still Rape?
Cozen
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Jul 12, 2013 08:33PM
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Jul 12, 2013 08:30PM
When a girl says no, it means no.
So, chapter 10 page 194-ish, when Dante tells Jamie no but she still goes down on him, did anyone feel the same amount of anger, and lable her a rapist?
I really want to know how many people point that part out.
It is often magnified if there is a female lead who is being violated, but what happens when it's the male who is getting violated?
Are we bias to some degree?
I really don't know if I really want to know the answer to that.
So, chapter 10 page 194-ish, when Dante tells Jamie no but she still goes down on him, did anyone feel the same amount of anger, and lable her a rapist?
I really want to know how many people point that part out.
It is often magnified if there is a female lead who is being violated, but what happens when it's the male who is getting violated?
Are we bias to some degree?
I really don't know if I really want to know the answer to that.
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nah i dont think its rape because he wanted it but he did'nt want it like that...if that makes sense.
And I think that there are enough scenes where woman "say no" one or the other way and get "convinced" by the hunky macho guy with the magic c*ck, so that they learn to accept and to enjoy...enough people out there who love books like this.
Real life is the problem here - and I encountered unfortunately enough guys with this kind of attitude (the famous short skirt that signaled the victim wanted it really).
I think that there is a bias in both directions . So I am probably biased too..
Real life is the problem here - and I encountered unfortunately enough guys with this kind of attitude (the famous short skirt that signaled the victim wanted it really).
I think that there is a bias in both directions . So I am probably biased too..
The author made it very clear that he indeed wanted it very much and just said "no" because he felt he should. Also given the physical conditions of her and him: If he really didn't want her to perform oral sex on him, he could have hindered it. So I felt that it was only a bit of tasteless play here.
But if you look at it on an abstract level: he said no, and she didn't respect his decision (whatever the cause was for his decision).
So there is room for both opinions.
But if you look at it on an abstract level: he said no, and she didn't respect his decision (whatever the cause was for his decision).
So there is room for both opinions.
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