The Feminist Orchestra Bookclub discussion
Book Discussions
>
A Room of One's Own Book Discussion
date
newest »


'Life for both sexes-and I looked at them, shouldering their way along the pavement-is arduous, difficult, a perpetual struggle. It calls for gigantic courage and strength. More than anything, perhaps, creatures of illusion as we are, it calls for confidence in oneself. Without self-confidence we are babes in the cradle. And how can we generate this imponderable quality, which is yet so invaluable, most quickly? By thinking that other people are inferior to oneself.'




If anyone is looking for a cheap edition, the Penguin Great Ideas version is £5 RRP. Smaller type but it's unabridged.



Only hitch : I wasn't convinced about her pseudo-psychoanalysis of women. It sounded inaccurate and flimsy.
By and large an excellent perspective on feminism !


'Life for both sexes-and I looked at them, shouldering their way along ..."
This is a wonderful quote. The entire book is full of wonderful quotes.


Ooh now I'm doubly excited to get started - what a great feeling ^_^
I'm 17 and I think this is the best book I've ever read so enjoy

True! I also really love: 'It would be a thousand pities if women wrote like men, or lived like men, or looked like men, for if two sexes are quite inadequate, considering the vastness and variety of the world, how should we manage with one only?'
But at one point she said that women writers can't learn anything from men's writing, which I don't agree with. I think there are loads of people anyone can learn from, regardless of gender.
It's true that everyone needs to find their own voices, for sure. I can see why she would be radical about it and say that women's writers shouldn't conform to male norms in writing, but still.


I think that when she says that women have nothing to learn from men (on writting) while radical, she proceedes to imply, further on that men and women have to use the counterpart of their brains, so in a sense, i think that she says that one has to use their full skills to the max, but have their individual voice.

So my questions for all of you are these: What did you expect before you read A Room of One's Own? Was it basically what you thought it would be? Did you like it as much as you thought you would? How do you think the format of ARoOO works, and how do you think it does not work? Are there things it accomplishes that it could not have accomplished as a novel? Are there things it could have done better as a novel than it does in it's current format?

It's true that everyone needs to find their own voices, for sure. I can see why she would be radical about it and say that women's writers shouldn't conform to male norms in writing, but still. "
Enya, I agree that both men and women should write in whichever style they want to. I can understand why she was making the point she made, but I think a) in a way it is creating a slightly false dichotomy because we understand gender differently now than when she was writing and also, b) I feel there are probably as many ways of writing as there are writers and c) there are some male writers I would love to write like lol. If there are women out there who can write like those male authors, more power to them. :-)

I only have my notes by the hand right now, so I'll try shortly to summarize the accusations because I think it's an interesting discussion:
- Woolf's narrative prose writing style distracts the reader from the feminist project with repetitions, exaggerations and parody.
- She's also using a lot of narratives, which can create confusion and her own opinion is 'masked' behind other narratives.
But I think that all of those literary devices is actually the strength of A Room of One's Own. Not only because of the beautiful prose, but because Woolf, by refusing the "correct" way to write an essay, is making a statement. I think her intentions, despite the literary devices, was pretty clear throughout the essay.
What do you guys think? Is the literary devices a weakness or a strength? Oh, and also: Considering that Woolf was very privileged in terms of class, how well is the essay in considering the 'average' lower-class woman?

There are some interesting concepts that make you think and maybe want to start a discussion, but most of the times that I was actually intrigued by a point made it was immediately tossed aside or discussed coming to a conclusion I completely disagree with. *
It seems to me that it's written from a perspective of great privilege, with several statements coming off as classist, ableist, racist and yes, often, sexist.
I didn't even like the writing style in itself, with so many subordinate sentences I often lost track of what the point was and had to go back to find it, which I would imagine would be an absolute nightmare if this was actually read out loud to an audience as it's supposed to. Perhaps this is a fault of the later editing, but if that's the case things could have been added in much clearer ways than endless sunbordinate sentences.
I also disagree with the views on literature expressed in the book, as some others have mentioned. I agree with Enya that there is no reason to limit oneself to only learn from one gender on principle. I also don't agree that poetry is the highest form of literature and that it should be considered better than the novel. It could have definitely been the case that women were writing novels not because they only knew how to do that, but because they wanted to. The novel was also gaining more and more popularity at the same time in which more female authors were emerging, so I really think it was a choice made freely, not one dependant on "women's limitations".
I think much of the reason this book is so loved is that small pieces can be easily cut out of it and stuck in a literature book, or remembered as stand-alone quotes that make sense, but I think the book as a whole can be quite problematic. I would definitely not recommend it to anyone looking to learn about feminism.
Still, maybe the discussion here will make me gain new perspective and insight. In the end a thing doesn't necessarily have to be good to lead to an interesting discussion!
* (For example, I was pleasantly surprised to see the proposition that two genders, although called sexes in the book, are far too little to define everyone, considering when the book was written. Only to be once again disappointed and enraged by a discussion of the human brain that couldn't be more binary-conforming.)



I had an easier time getting through it by listening to an audio book narrated by Juliet Stevenson. Maybe you could try that? I was able to stream it from my library's digital collection. Best wishes!

Does anyone have any questions/ideas etc that I could keep in mind whilst reading to enhance my learning of the work and my reading experience?
I'm looking forward to some great discussions in the future! Thank you, Jean, for setting the group up.

That is such a fantastic idea! I'm definitely going to try this, with 'A Room of One's Own' and all of my future reading too.



This is not to say that every person who is well-off economically will be a great artist, merely that they have the chance to see if they could be one, where historically women were never given such opportunities nor were those of other less well-off backgrounds.
When Woolf laments all the untold stories out there, I believe this is what she was referring to.
A Room Of One's Own was specifically about women and to women (of a certain class), and ideas like intersectionality were not around then. If we are to take this essay and give it relevance to our time, we need only to easily open her theory to any underprivledged group - that every one needs a room of one's own and a independent income (i.e. what only upper-class men had, at the time) to have the chance to create art.
Where I think the disappointment lies is that Woolf doesn't offer an alternative solution to this one. How can we offer the same opportunities to create art to any human no matter there circumstances?
How we make the arts more inclusive is something that particularly interests me. When the arts is so underpaid, and mostly not paid at all, those that can afford to do it usually come from one walk of life and this makes our art unrepresentative of our world and closes off those 'untold' stories Woolf speaks of. I think, I hope, that we have more opportunities to correct these imbalances today then Woolf did (though with current austerity measures and cutbacks from government funding in the arts who knows!?) However, there is far more to be done be to bring diversity to the arts.

I agree with Maria and Philippa's points (above) about economic and financial circumstance; it was really interesting to read about her view on the effects of financial circumstance and physical environment for the creation of art and creativity in general - her point applies to men as well as women (though much less so), at the time of her writing, and still very much applies today.
I disagreed with her points about men and women having different minds, and that women cannot learn from men's writing. In my opinion, our minds are not all that different, and we can all learn a lot from each other, regardless of sex, gender, culture, age etc.
Also, I felt, at times, that she diminished female writers by pigeon-holing them a bit, suggesting that there are differences between men and women in writing in regards to concepts, genres and styles, comparing, for example, 'male' topics with 'female' topics. In my eyes, there is no such difference; a topic has no gender. She does later ask her audience, though, 'to write all kinds of books, hesitating at no subject however trivial or however vast'.
Of course, it's important to bear in mind as well that this was written a century ago and her thinking was still very forward by the standards of the day.
However, I enjoyed and agreed with many of her other points. Her anecdote about Shakespeare's sister is a great one, and highlights her point about the sad impossibility of female writers in the C16th and before. I like also that she presents her opinions as such; early on (the second page in my copy), she establishes that she will explore how she came to her opinion rather than suggesting that she is telling us fact: 'At any rate, when a subject is highly controversial - and any question about sex is that - one cannot hope to tell the truth. One can only show how one came to hold whatever opinion one does hold.'
More than anything, the book made me appreciate - more so than I already did - how lucky I am to be a woman today, a woman who is able to read and to spend hours at a time writing fiction in my own space without ridicule.
I think we still have a long way to go, and in keeping with the context of Woolf's essay, I feel this about women in fiction: I think so many female authors are categorised as 'chick-lit' writers, and are taken less seriously because of that, and for the fact alone that they are female, when they in fact are often writing about important matters, such as politics and mental health for example. What do you think about women in fiction today?

Something that I took from her essay is once again the importance of the intersectionality of feminism without dividing the feminists of the world.
She talks a lot about social-economics (hence the title of the book) and about the fact that a woman can't get to a point of freedom without having a certain income.
That's still so important.
Feminists from 'western countries' are constantly criticized because they 'don't really have problems', yet we have the Privilege of Education and live in countries where we can talk freely. Woman in other places are much less fortunate and thus it is so important that we understand and use our privilege towards speaking up for those who can't.
I'm generally really impressed by how straight forward and accurately Woolf spoke about the importance of money (for example when she was talking about what would've happened if the woman of the past had been able to safe money).
Social economic status has such a big influence on so many different issues, like sexual harassment at work and it's just so important to talk about it and understand it in order to move past it.

I loved Woolf’s style and, as some of you previously said, the book is full of powerful and amazing quotes. I like the fact Woolf’s style felt so personal and varied: some passages are deliciously sarcastic, others are more analytical and detached, some others poetic and just beautiful…
Here are a couple of quotes which I liked, but I could have included so many more: “Women have served all these centuries as looking-glasses possessing the magic and delicious power of reflecting the figure of man at twice its natural size” (I think this one has already been quoted but I liked it so much I had to include it^^), “the five dots here indicate five separate minutes of stupefaction, wonder, and bewilderment. Have you any notion how many books are written about women in the course of one year? Have you any notion how many are written by men? Are you aware that you are, perhaps, the most discussed animal in the universe?”
Some passages of this book clearly have genius. Regarding the subject of the book, I totally argue with the points made by Maria and Philippa. What I will remember from this book and what is, in my opinion, its strongest point, is Woolf’s theory that creation can only arise under some material conditions (an income and a physical place of one’s own). Women having always been deprived from those (at least until the 19th century, when things get easier for women, as Woolf points out), they have not been allowed to become writers. This point is still totally relevant today and, as Philippa wrote so rightly, this is not only relevant to feminism. The artistic area is still totally discriminatory against those who don’t have the resources, who come from an underprivileged background and don’t have access to creation. That is the great argument of this book: creation depends upon socio-economic factors which have never been favorable to women.
However, I must say that I was a bit disappointed by some other arguments I found in Woolf’s essay. Some of you have already mentioned her opinion about female writers who wouldn’t learn anything from men's writing. I also disagree with that. There are other passages which I totally disagreed with; for instance, when Woolf’s writes that the Suffrage campaign is to blame for making her contemporary male writers so eager to self-assert their sex and its characteristics in their writing. This is everything but a feminist assertion. I also disliked some parts of her analysis of Charlotte Brontë’s "Jane Eyre" and of other novels written by these great female writers who paved the way. First, I do not think that having strong female characters who could be described as feminists make any novel “deformed and twisted” or prove that the author writes “in a rage”. Second, Woolf assumes that "Jane Eyre" is influenced by its author’s resentment towards her position in society and lack of freedom as a creator. Obviously this might have influenced her novels, but it doesn’t mean that everything in her novels is to be related to her life. And if so, why does it even matter as long as the novel remains a pleasant piece of fiction?
Apart from these few arguments which I totally disagreed with, I truly enjoyed this book and thought it contained some very modern, interesting and valuable opinions/theories. I’m really glad I read this classic essay!

It's a beautiful essay, and I think I love it even more now. What amazes me is to see that on the one hand a lot has improved for female artists and women in general (re education, legal equality etc), and that on the other hand many inequality issues remain exactly the same (e.g. the male writer/artist is still considered the 'standard' and the female writer is 'the other' and so called 'male' topics, like sports, are still considered superior).


I really enjoyed A Room of One's Own and I'm glad Jean suggested it. It wasn't perfect and I agree with a lot of the criticisms here, however overall I found it an enjoyable and thought-provoking read.
I particularly liked the discussion of the way that women were/are missing from history and what some of the major gaps in history were (in chapter 2 I believe). I also loved Woolf's writing style and found it flowed really well and was easy to read, I wonder if that is partly because of it's original format as lectures.

I totally agree! In my opinion it's one of the great strengths of Jane Eyre, and isn't detrimental to the novel at all. The passage that Woolf quotes isn't random or out of character for Jane and makes sense within her isolated and restricted circumstances.
I also don't think there's anything wrong with writing with 'rage' about the way women were limited, or writing about what you know. It's impossible for anyone to be completely neutral, and I'd say the majority of writers draw on their own experiences to a certain extent. I'm not convinced it's possible to write with Woolf's ideal of an 'unencumbered' mind, or that everything has to be written with a calm mind.

I tried hard to compress my thoughts and feelings into a litte video, where I also talk about my personal experiences with feminism:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K7baz...
Happy reading :)

I mean I really enjoyed this book. It was written around 90 years ago and although it was obviously set in a different time it still felt so relevant and insightful: both from a historical perspective on gender and class but also in regard to current day. Obviously there were some elements that were very much of its time but agree with people here who have implied or outrightly said that what makes it so good is that even though it some areas it might be a tad outdated or doesn't have the benefit of foresight the ideas within in it can very much be transposed into our modern day lives and adapted to fit the 21st century.
I agree that she is a little too dismissive of anger, which I think can on many occasions be an entirely rational feeling and reaction and inspire some really positive actions that lead to change. Her comments on Jane Eyre didn't bother me; I found it kind of amusing reading her interpretation just because I'd never heard anyone say they thought Bronte was motivated by resentment or whatever and obviously I don't agree that that comes across in Jane Eyre, which is amazing by the way if you haven't read it.
Generally though banging! I can't wait to read the three guineas after this given that that concentrates more on class and politics and encompasses more than gender I believe, so that should be fascinating and hopefully inspiring.
A Room of One's Own is a phenomenal piece of important feminist lit though and the overarching thesis that women are excluded from creativity in a way men are not because they as a group are not financially independent is such an important observation at that time.
It exasperates me that she was writing this logical essay 90 years ago and this is still such a big issue today, not just for women obviously. It is a such a massive class issue - the exclusion of working class people or those with less money, generally speaking, from creative and academic worlds. Grrrr.
I'm glad we read something that touched on money and class though, even if she only briefly mentioned the working classes as a whole (this essay was about women so no complaints). It is such a massive issue in feminism and in all politics. It does make me consider that question of can you be a right wing feminist though? Because although technically sure you can but how can care about women's rights and not workers rights (or whichever oppressed group)? Right wing politics exists on the basis that some are better than others/some must have more than others so will continuously lead to one group being in the situation that women are in A Room of One's Own.
A whole other issue I know but it was on my mind whilst I read this so I thought I'd include it in my thoughts :).
I'd love to read a modern update on this essay; like some sort of feminist economic commentary haha.

I know I chatted about this mentality coming from the outside world in Woolf's work but I don't think her abuse was mentioned. I need to read a biography or something of Woolf I think.

Good questions. I was so intrigued with her mind and her thought process. I have decided to read her diaries.

But in regards of her rebuke against angry, emotional writing, I believe it has more to do with the fact that she believes women are capable of crafting art from other sources than their personal lives... Women are not essentialy emotional beings while men are essentialy rational ones.
I confess I haven't reread this book for the discussion (I am about to do it, which might change my mind rs). However, as of now, I don't think that in her claim for a tradition of women writers she is assuming that there is a way that women write that is essentialy female. On the contrary.
In this sense, I believe that her experience affected her work as it certainly affected her. But I am not comfortable with the ideia of attributing one view or plot or whatever solely to this experience...
(PS: Sorry if there is anything unclear - English is not my first language :) )

But in regards of her rebuke against angry, emotional writing, I believe it has more to do with the fact that she believes women are capable of crafting art from other sources than their personal lives... Women are not essentialy emotional beings while men are essentialy rational ones.
I confess I haven't reread this book for the discussion (I am about to do it, which might change my mind rs). However, as of now, I don't think that in her claim for a tradition of women writers she is assuming that there is a way that women write that is essentialy female. On the contrary.
In this sense, I believe that her experience affected her work as it certainly affected her. But I am not comfortable with the ideia of attributing one view or plot or whatever solely to this experience...
(PS: Sorry if there is anything unclear - English is not my first language :) )


Excuse my if I write this out of time, but I really could not wrote before.
I will try to explain right: Should we stop to define a woman by their experiences, especially with regard to her body ? I mean, Woolf is more than a abused woman, but the media likes to underline this circumstance. It is a recreation in the sexuality, or a "easy explanation" for her revolutionary ideas?
On the other hand...What is your opinion about the link of Woolf with the fascism? It was only for a years, but I was socked when I know this.

There are some interesting concepts that make you think and maybe want to start a discussion, but most of the times that I..."
I agree with you. While I appreciate this work and other classic feminist texts (notably A Vindication of the Rights of Woman and The Awakening), I find them very difficult to fully connect with not because of not understanding them, but because they no longer feel on the mark. Like you said, there are definitely great quotes that can be pulled out, but they sit along side other ideas which are problematic and that have since matured in contemporary feminist works.
(Slightly off topic:) To be honest, I'm finding it difficult to justify whether or not to bother with any more non-fiction feminist classics. The main attraction seems to be (1)"she's so ahead of her time!"* and (2)to know where current ideas originated... But in the case of the former(1), I can't help feeling that I bet there were loads of women from the beginning of time going against the grain, but the ones of note were just privileged and lucky enough to get their message out (which is great!) so these women aren't necessarily "ahead of their time". And I guess I feel like that because I believe there have always been people sitting at intersections throughout history who will have been aware of all these things (for example, I'm sure there were lesbian asian women with disabilities waaaay back who would have loads to comment on gender and race and disability and whatever).
In the case of the latter(2), I do value knowing where many of our contemporary ideas originated... This is what I have the most trouble with. How much would I really be missing out on if I just got a book of overviews on gender theory to get a drastically abridged version of historical perspectives as a precursor to reading works contemporary gender theory?? How integral is it to my understanding and ability to contextualise what is being proposed? I'm not sure. I prefer getting my information from as close to the source as possible...but we all have limited time (and I'm a slow reader) haha.
Anyway, I found Woolf's writing style difficult to get into. It meanders too far and too long for me. I understand why other people like that though, and interpret it as rich detail and looking at her mind as it works. I think it's something I do myself when writing (ramble-y comments like this one), but I don't find it at all enjoyable to read through. Chapter 1 seemed to be the worst for that...or maybe it was just more noticeable because it was chapter 1. But she isn't always like that. I loved her (super-)short story "The Moth".
There were definitely parts that I really liked, and I really do appreciate it for what it is/was but overall I found this work to be just OK. And I'm glad I can say I read it now (though future me would probably tell past me that it's OK if I just gave it a pass ;P haha). I hope none of this seems harsher than I mean it to be. If I had to suggest just one non-fiction feminist classic to read, it would still probably be A Room of One's Own (until further notice...since...I haven't read any of bell hooks' feminist texts yet...).
How does everyone else feel about reading non-fiction classics in general??

That's a really interesting suggestion. Her take on women not being angry in their writing makes me think of Mary Wollstonecraft's A Vindication of the Rights of Woman where they both seem to encourage women to be almost super human (or rather super neutral beings) in a way to combat society's thinking of them as lesser/bad: women must transcend their abuses by not being angry (Woolf) and by being chaste (Wollstonecraft).
Though in the case of Wollstonecraft, I've heard it proposed that she may have advocated this almost facetiously to run counter to the prevailing idea that men are pure, women are seductresses and that is the only reason for male sexual deviation, so women being chaste is how they can solve that problem....which feels like it gets into victim blame territory to me so I wouldn't want to run with that as a realistic solution to women's sexual abuse by men, but I'm sure it would be a common idea for the time if she did intend that interpretation (....or for the current time because we all know that's still what things are like right now...). I don't think I got any of that cheekiness in her words regarding female chastity when I read it simply because she seemed pretty clear when she was joking and when she wasn't, but I've only read that once..
Books mentioned in this topic
A Vindication of the Rights of Woman (other topics)A Vindication of the Rights of Woman (other topics)
The Awakening (other topics)
On a side note, I plan on reading The Three Guineas by Virginia Woolf this month too so if a few others are interested I'd be more than happy to create a separate discussion thread for that book as well, just let me know!