The Problem Solvers discussion

Bullying is a problem.

My dads in the ICU and could possibly die

@Skye well of u count that almost everyday people dis my favorite character when I'm around as being bullied then yeah but I have been bullied in the past.

@Trinity lets hope he lives

Cyn wrote: "@Trinity lets hope he lives"

yeah.

Thank you skye. ICU stands for Intensive Care Unit in the hospital. He drank a bottle of vodka and took a bunch of pills, then his dealer beat him up, and then he had a bad seizure. His kidneys are failing and there are a bunch of other problems so prayer would be great thank you.

Trinity wrote: "My dads in the ICU and could possibly die"

I'm praying for your dad Trinity <3333333

I'm dealing with Candida on my skin and I can't have sugar, carbs, or flour until it clears up. It's also in my gut line and now I have to take supplement pills.

Oh also I have another case of headline, and my water's turned off.

Except the toilet

Please keep me in prayer. I'm 19 and this is the first time I'm dealing with Candida.

PinkLoki(Shine) RULER OF: CrimsonPeak, Asgard, Jotunheim, Midgard, AvengersTower wrote: "Please keep me in prayer. I'm 19 and this is the first time I'm dealing with Candida."

Will do.

Skye ~I'm holding on~ wrote: "I will! This is great, so many prayer requests! Im so happy i made this group ^_^"

I'm very happy you made this group too. It seems it was needed.

Hello! This group is exactly what I needed right now:)

I'm fine at the moment but I wanted to put something about my friend.
We fear she may be planning to commit suicide and she has started cutting(for the first time) :(

Please keep her in your prayers, we are all very very worried about her.

Comfort your friend to keep her distracted from cutting, take her to the mall, spend more time with her

I unfortunately have no way to get in contact with her unless I see her at school so I don't know what's going on..I wish I could talk to her, we aren't sure if she is going to but considering what's going on she might..

I have a friend who calls me sometimes and that person ends up talking about 'cutting strings' and black shades. Every time I visit, my friend will have gained weight. We live at the least seven hours from each other and phones don't help to much.

I feel like I'm chubby, but that's probably not true. I just wish I was like those pretty actresses.. xD

Chubby isn't a bad thing. I don't judge people by appearances but by how they act. I had a friend who was called fat because she wasn't skinny. I used to be a jerk but I've actually changed. my friend accused me of calling her fat when I didn't remember it so after a lot of apologies we became friends again

I'm really tall, so its hard to find clothes that are long enough. ... and aren't too wide either.
Other then the clothes part, I love being tall. I can look down at people when I want, and I can reach things others can't. That's a huge plus.
I just don't like to fall down on small peoples toilet. :P

I'm 5'5

My problem these days is that I really want to write, and I have two novels in progress, complete with good endings--but I'm struggling with writing the middle of each story,

I think I do. :/

Thanks. :D

I think I wanna die

Hannah -Be the Light- wrote: "Erin, is there something going on in your life you need to talk about? You can always message me or Skye to make it more private."

Thank you. I'm not even sure what's going on. Maybe I just wrote the comment so I could finally admit it to myself or because I'm afraid and fear that I might need help or because I was up until like early morning and the thoughts had time to sink in. So I'm sorry just forget about it. I'm fine now.

Skye ~I'm holding on~ wrote: "What why?!"

I just keep seeing signs around me of why I'd want to die. Like I won't do anything because I need to live even if I don't feel like living.

Im small and incredibly skinny, in fact people can either see my ribs or feel them. Ive grown so used to not eating much that I cant eat that much food but I used to eat a lot as a child

Im eating chips :D

Lol nom nom nom

Me Too!!! I eat and Eat... people say I always have something in my mouth"... and "how do you manage to stay so slim" ... I reply with my secret, "I eat as much as possible and then I stay slim, you should try it."

Too far away :(

Some of my outfits make me look fat. I had this problem since I was a teenager. Because I wanted to be skinny like I used to as a child.

Man, I KNEW the weight topic was gonna end up in here. To be honest guys this is such a used problem. What I mean is, I think pretty much every girl goes through it and I really wish that wasn't the case. I've had my fair share with the whole thing. I used to not eat so much so I could lose weight and I actually ended up losing like 20 pounds (half from just getting really sick one time but the other half from not eating much). Let me tell you, it's never enough. I actually ended up gaining about 10 pounds back and I'm happy where I am. I'm not exactly "skinny" just average but I'm happy with that. It's really not your body, but the outlook you have on your body. And one truth I've found to be 1000% helpful is that confidence makes you 10x more beautiful. I used to hate smiling in photos because I hated people seeing my teeth. I used to hate wearing a bathing suit in front of people because i didn't want them to see my body. And plenty of other things. But because now that I do these things with confidence, I feel like I look great and you know what, anyone who thinks otherwise, screw them! Love you guys, you're all beautiful.

I'm skinny.....even tho I eat food :(

I'm having troubles trusting and opening up to my friends at school about my major problems, I can tell them about my minor problems and my Insomnia, which was gone for a while but came back last night, but I can't tell them about my major problems, like my Depression, anxiety, and paranoia. I love my friends, and they are really amazing and I want to trust them and open up, but I'm unable too....I know they won't leave me they hadn't left me yet, even tho I'd been expecting them to, and most ppl would've left me by now.....but I'm scared that if I trust them then they'll leave me or hurt me or stab me in the back.


also my insomnia came back last night, and I couldn't sleep until 4 something am

Trust issues for me is my step sister. (TOO COMPLICATED TO EXPLAIN!)

Trust issues for me is for a lot of ppl, except for my family/friends on GR I trust them, but at school, I'm unable to trust a lot of ppl, I used to trust ppl easily but then I got hurt a lot.

I act normal to my friends. But my family knows my problems.

I'm not sure how to explain about GR friends. I do trust my Asgardian family on GR.

my family knows about my depression but they don't really understand.....they don't understand much about depression.....my friends at school, I usually try to hide all of my pain and depression behind a smile whenever I'm around them, I do the same thing at home, my GR friends, I trust them all and I love them.

Skye ~I'm holding on~ wrote: "Kavy (Bob) Jackson Fullbuster~daughter of Poseidon/Gryffindor~You fell so hard~ wrote: "I'm having troubles trusting and opening up to my friends at school about my major problems, I can tell them ..."

Thank you Skye <33

Finals start tomorrow and Wednesday.

Good luck Cyn!!!

Best of luck Cyn!!

Skye ~I'm holding on~ wrote: "@Fairy if your parents know her parents' phone number(s), have them let you and your friend use their phones/email to chat. OR, you could look in the school phone number book, if you have one.
Also..."

I only have her mom's number, which is how I text her, she hasn't responded in two weeks (School day wise) and I'm really worried about her now, I haven't seen her in two weeks, she could be fine, besides cutting, which she may have stopped but I don't know:(

Cyn wrote: "Finals start tomorrow and Wednesday."

WHEW I just finished mine last Tuesday. Good luck!

Im scared

Why are you scared Cyn? :(

Trinity wrote: "Cyn wrote: "Finals start tomorrow and Wednesday."

WHEW I just finished mine last Tuesday. Good luck!"

I finished mine last week

Finals

Fairy wrote: "Skye ~I'm holding on~ wrote: "@Fairy if your parents know her parents' phone number(s), have them let you and your friend use their phones/email to chat. OR, you could look in the school phone numb..."

Do you know where she lives? I think it would help if you start hangout with her more, if she lives near by. How much do you know about her?

I kind of have the same problem, I phone but not enough. I'm starting to get scared when our house phone rings late at night, or when a text comes in. My friend is a bit more open with her thoughts, but I'm not sure what to do because of the miles between us. I hate that I can't be there and give comfort. Phoning isn't good enough.