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kavi ~he-him~, I solemnly swear I am up to no good
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Jan 17, 2017 03:42PM

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I have some problems but I don't really know how to explain them in words, I'd keep them in but I don't want to do that cause I don't like hiding things especially from the ppl I love
Ok so theres this boy that I DO NOT KNOW THE NAME OF. He's in texh theatre the same period Im in theatre. So he likes to talk to me before and after class and stuff. So yesterday he asked if I was doing anything this week. I said well I have a basketball game tonight. He asked where and when it was and stuff. I told him and that night HE SHOWED UP AT MY GAME. He waited for after the coach was done talking to us and stuff to come talk to me. I tried to take a long time but he didnt leave. Then he freaking INTRODUCED HIMSELF TO MY MOM!!!! I tried to be terse with him bc I did not want to talk to him. My parents didn't say anything about it until we got home. Then my dad asked who he was and I said, "oh some kid from my theatre class. I don't know his name." My dad said he liked me and I was just like No. nooooo. Oh no I feel so bad. My parents asked why I felt bad so I said, "because I don't like him back." They said not to feel bad so now I don't but I currently don't want him to exist. I am loathing tomorrow because I have to talk to him and I don't want to. I asked my friend how to "not lead him on" because thats what my mom told me to do but she had no advice on how to do it. She said she didn't know but to make it obvious that I had friend zoned him. I really don't want to talk to him. Any advice...?
Aw Maple. Here is my advice: Just be yourself around him. Don't try to act like your ignoring him, he could take it the wrong way like you are feeling shy maybe. Just chill out and relax. Don't get nervous or act weird. Be normal. If he asks you out, just tell him how you really feel. Don't try to complicate things too much :)