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August Additional Group Read Discussion- Wings of Glass by Gina Holmes
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One part that really bothered me was when Penny went to speak with her pastor. I was so disgusted not only by what his reactions were, but that this actually happens in churches. It's yet another reminder that although our pastors are called by God (or at least we hope they are) they are not Him. No one can replace Him, and no one can fill that void within our souls but Him. Pastors are only human. Many don't act that way, but they are.
I also loved the way the novel was written, as a letter to her son. Or a memoir of sorts. I think it gave it a unique perspective, rather than just simply first person.

I was really bothered by the scene with the pastor as well. His training should have alerted him to the fact that she was being abused from what she shared.

From the brief mention of the church by Callie Mae and Fati, we were already given the idea that the church wasn't really up to par. But I have heard of pastors telling my friends to grin and bear it, because their marriage was of God. So, it does happen. It shouldn't, and you're right that the training should alert them. Heck, common sense should alert them.

I'm a retired teacher and know how important it was to be aware of anything a child told us or we saw that might be a sign of abuse and we were required to report it. I know that it's different with spousal abuse since it involves an adult and you can't force them to report or leave, but this pastor should have been much more supportive. This incident indeed should have told her this wasn't the right church for her.


And I think that's why it's so important to have a Christian group of friends who are able to support you, as Penny had. Because while we want to stay true to our vows, if they're broken sometimes we need to have that pointed out to us.

I also was so repelled by what the pastor said to Penny! It's sad that there are pastors out there that won't take abuse seriously.

I agree about the pastor, I was very disheartened by it... surely most pastors would flag this as suspicious

One of the discussion questions in the back that caught my attention that I thought I would throw out to all of you is when Callie Mae tells Penny- "You're addicted to an abusive man." Do you agree with Callie's assessment?


I agree that you can be addicted in a relationship. Co-dependency is a very difficult problem for many to overcome. Self image can have a large role in this especially for someone who feels they don't deserve any better and this is what they should expect.

I believe Penny is addicted to Trent (who's an abusive man), because she doesn't believe she can live without him.
In fact, her self confidence is so low that she can't see herself as a whole person. She is convinced that she needs him and that she couldn't make it on her own.
Since she is completely dependent of him, well she is addicted to him.
By the way, this was my first Christian book.
It's a 5 star for me too. It was such a touching story!







Since denial is such a part of the whole battered wife syndrome, maybe reading about another character's struggles might help a victim see her situation as it really is---I don't know though if she would be likely to read it.----At any rate, it might help to see a victim finally escape or stand up for herself--if the fictional character can get away, maybe the real life victim could see hope out there.
Certainly, such a book helps other readers gain a little more understanding and empathy for a woman's inability to get herself rid of the abuser.

I hope you were able to find friends to support you like Fatimah and Callie Mae and that life now is full and complete. God bless you.
Here is a synopsis-
Library Journal Starred Review
Romantic Times 4 1/2 stars~Top Pick
2013 Southern Indie Booksellers Alliance Okra Pick
Southern Lit Review Read of the Month
From the best-selling author of Crossing Oceans comes a heartrending yet uplifting story of friendship and redemption. On the cusp of adulthood, eighteen-year-old Penny Carson is swept off her feet by a handsome farmhand with a confident swagger. Though Trent Taylor seems like Prince Charming and offers an escape from her one-stop-sign town, Penny’s happily-ever-after lasts no longer than their breakneck courtship. Before the ink even dries on their marriage certificate, he hits her for the first time. It isn’t the last, yet the bruises that can’t be seen are the most painful of all.
When Trent is injured in a welding accident and his paycheck stops, he has no choice but to finally allow Penny to take a job cleaning houses. Here she meets two women from very different worlds who will teach her to live and laugh again, and lend her their backbones just long enough for her to find her own.
Gina Holmes ’ stunning literary talent glistens like crystal in Wings of Glass. With subtle brilliance, she takes us into the very heart of what makes us hungry to love and be loved. Simply stellar!” Susan Meissner, Author of A Sound Among the Trees
This discussion will take place until September 14th. Please remember to label all spoiler comments **SPOILER** so as not to give away anything as we will all read it at different times.
Have you all read any other books by Gina Holmes?