2-3-4 Challenge Book Discussions #2 discussion

Describe the parabatai relationship. Do you think, overall, that it helps or hurts the Shadowhunters that enter into it? What is it about Jem’s and Will’s individual situations that make this partnership ideal for them?

The relationship is one of sacrificial, deep rooted love. I think overall, it is beneficial, because the Shadowhunters literally draw power from the bond that they would otherwise lack. The only thing I find odd about it is that you only have 18 years to bond to someone. Leaving such a huge, life long commitment up to teenagers who have barely lived life seems naive.

I think, due to Jem's limitations, drawing on that extra power and relying on Will is the perfect situation for Jem.

I agree, Jessika. It’s akin to what we ask of 18-year olds when starting college...decide a career path for the rest of your life. It’s crazy.

The parabatai relationship is saving Jem, extending his life. In a way, it’s saved Will, too. It’s given him purpose.

There’s a purity of thinking in youth (normally) that might be beneficial in having them make a decision of this weight at their age. If they were asked to make it later in life, it would be biased by distrust and cynicism.