Paranormal Romance & Urban Fantasy discussion

Can I get
1. academy based fantasy books
2. with a Female lead (plzzz not a weak and frail one)
3. Written in first person narration
4. Also that are NOT Reverse Harem
5. Also No Insta love trope(I don't mind PNR as long as there is something actually Paranormal happening besides the Romance)
6. Would prefer if Teenage-ry cliches are avoided in the recommendations.I don't mind teenagers as long as they prove to be Real Mature. Ex Tris from Divergent by Veronica Roth, Ryiah from The Black Mage Chronicles by Rachel E. Carter, etc .

It has been a real pain to not to be able to find them ! So, thanks a lot for even investing Good_Old_Precious_Reading_Something_Worthwhile_Time on this . ;-)

Halfway to the grave by j. Frost is too favorite

Here are some recomends off top of my list. They may not fit all of your criteria, especially as acadamy setting is not a go-to for me since they tend to be too YA for me.

Do you want only YA books or are adult UF/PRN ok?

Books that I that meet your criteria...
The Witch Squad I have not read more than tge sample yet, but it looks promising.
The Touchstone Trillogy Stray by Andrea K. Höst
Andrea Pearson 's Mosaic Chronicles Books 1-4

This looks promissing The Devotee: Magic Academy -it's in my to-check-it-out list.

The ones that i think meets your criteria best are:
✔Annabel Chase's Outcast: Spellslingers ✔Academy of Magic Warden of the west series
✔Darkly Sweet: Rosewood Academy for Witches and Mages
✔A Study in Charlotte
✔The Song of the Lioness Quartet
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I recommend any of the following authors:

Patricia Briggs
Melissa F. Olson
Seanan McGuire
Ilona Andrews
Gina LaManna partucularly her Hex serries