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Sep 18, 2020 03:20PM

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Thank you. I'll put it on my list of books to read. I never thought of getting children's books, but that makes sense to get started reading German books.

I was feeling really angry at the beginning of this book because the behavior of Ela's father was unfathomably anger-provoking. His attitude towards his wife was very rude. As a reader, I hated him to the core. At some point, I also felt embarrassed because of the weight of Ela's mother. But it was fascinating to read how Ela loved her mother. The book became uninteresting at some point because there was only one theme in the book, and it was repeating itself. After a long series of boring scenes, I came across one concept I never knew about — Parentifizierung.
Parentification occurs when parents look to their children for emotional and/or practical support, rather than providing it themselves. Hence, the child becomes the caregiver. As a result, parentified children are forced to assume adult responsibilities and behaviors before they are ready to do so.
The ending was fantastic. I even highlighted one line:
"Es braucht so vieles in der Welt. Entschlossenheit, Mut. Rebellion. Aber es braucht auch eine Million solcher Herzen. Die nicht versteinern, die wach und warm und offen bleiben, ganz gleich, welche Narben die Welt ihnen zufügt."
But I don't want to give the book 5 stars because of the slow-paced reading. It took me 5 months to finish this book. If it had been more engaging, I would have finished earlier. That is why my score is:
4.3




So would I! I joined this group about a year ago, but haven't posted because I couldn't quite figure out the instructions, and it didn't look like it was at all active.


So would I! I joined this group about a year ago, but haven't posted because I couldn't quite figure out the instructions, and it didn't look like it was at all active."
Yeah, I stopped posting because I felt like I was pretty much the only one still here, lol. The other group Keen mentioned seems to be mostly popular English books just translated to German - that's not what I'm looking for. If I'm going to read a book in German, it should be written in German, or at least in another language I can't read - I read a lot in German translated from Nordic languages, also have read translated from Polish, Hungarian, and Turkish (which don't 'count' according to this group's rules, but that seems a moot point now...) I recently bought one translated from the Japanese that doesn't have an English translation. But not from English.
To find more books I'm interested in reading in German, I started following various German booktubers that share my tastes (so, not all romance and crime novels...) I now have probably more German books than I can reasonably get to, and keep accumulating more... oops.
ETA: just realized we're all posting in Leyla's thread. Good discussion, but we should probably move it to a new thread!




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