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I read this book in 2017 and enjoyed it, but I don't remember much of what she said specifically. And I doubt I will read it again any time soon. Here is my very brief review from that time.

I read this book back in 2012. I really enjoyed it! (I am an introvert, most definitely.) Here is my review.



The section about Asia being more introverted was interesting to me because I live in China, and I've also lived in Japan. I think a lot of it is more cultural and the pressure put on kids by parents and society to study, but I don't think that is the same thing as introversion as an internal characteristic. I teach high school here, and have also taught kindergarten and elementary school, and while especially in high school, maybe more of the population seems to skew towards introversion, there are still plenty of extroverts in my classes, and in the younger grades I think there were fewer quiet kids still. So I'm curious how much is just pressure to get high grades that increases as kids get older. This book also made me rethink a little about how to support the introverts in my classes. We use Canadian curriculum and there is a push towards group work and collaboration, but I do remember hating that as a student because I was shy and introverted, so I try to have balance in my classes. Actually I think the last year, with the move to more online components, like discussion posts, has been helpful for my introverted students to share their ideas without feeling on the spot like in a class discussion.


"As an introvert who grew up under the pressure of a very extroverted Indian society which largely looks down on being quiet and reserved as a kid (as an adult woman, it's a must have trait, of course) and is constantly forcing you to get out of your shell - this book and its theme really connected with me. Cain does a great job of defining the two personality types, drawing out their strengths and weaknesses and describing how the world largely is biased towards extroverts which need not be so. I especially enjoyed the chapter on cultural differences and the very insightful final chapter on how to deal with personality types in younger children.
The book is peppered generously with anecdotes, so much that at times I felt it maybe could have been just a long form article - but I guess that's inevitable with a theme on social behaviour. Great and perceptive read, recommended for all personality types."
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