Paranormal Romance & Urban Fantasy discussion

Looking for books where the MC doesn't understand why he wants to be around the female character and is in denial about the FC and the FC either feels it a lot less or not at all and wants him to go away.
Similar to the MC and FC's interactions in

Before jamaica lane, After we fall

The viscount who loved me, The casanova (Miles high club)

Thanks.
Not big on "He not that into you" sensi-student to lovers type books but I'll check out the other two. Thanks again.