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okay, so we'll call my best friend a and her friend c. so me and a have been friends for 3 years and shes just my rock in everything. but this week i really wasn't texting her as much because i was going through something, and when i am i distance myself. and later i apologized to her about it and told her i just haven't been myself recently. and little backstory. so a has been best friends with c for a longgg time, but she's never really liked her but c is like obsessed with a, and c is jealous of me because of my close friendship with a. and everytime we somehow get into a convo about c, a talks about how she hates hanging out with her and everything else. so yesterday a texts me and was like, i'm so excited to see c today (they were having a sleepover) and i was confused because i was like shes never liked her before? and all of a sudden she was like c is one of my BEST friends. and i was like okay then... then last night i get a text from a's number talking about how she doesn't wanna be friends with me anymore because i supposedly talked bad about c? and i never even did. so i said that and she was like its not even about c, you've just been getting on my nerves lately and i don't think we should be friends anymore. and at this point she was texting super different than she normally would. and then she tells me we were NEVER best friends. at this point i for sure thought it was c texting me because i know for a fact a would never say that to me. and i for sure thought this was all a joke and a would text me later and be like sorry c stole my phone...but she hasn't. so now i'm genuinely like really confused and so anxious because i don't know if she was being honest or not especially cause her texting style was so different. and i kinda wanna text a and ask if she was being for real, but i feel like i should wait because c might still be there. but im so anxious and can't do anything or even sleep.

First of all I'd say try to talk to a in person to have her reactions and to be sure she's being a 100% honest with you. If she's still in that mindset to distance herself, you could try to do the same and hang out with other ppl for a while. I really don't understand her reactions so either it was just a bad for her and c maybe took advantage of it to just talk shit about you, or maybe it's true and she's been feeling this way for some time now. Honestly, communication is key and if you don't feel respected or appreciated when you're near her anymore I don't think you should stay close. Let's just hope this is just a HUGE misunderstanding or whatever and that you're still gonna be okay 🫶

i texted her yesterday and she said she was being serious and told me to stop texting her. she also unadded + blocked me on all platforms we have

Oh my god. Girl you can do so much better. You seem like a super nice person and I think a is missing out by saying that shit.

lilly ♡ (semi-hiatus, reading slump) wrote: "i texted her yesterday and she said she was being serious and told me to stop texting her. she also unadded + blocked me on all platforms we have"

ditch her you derserve!! better rel friends dont do tht kinda crap

so my mom texted a's mom even though i told her not to and me an a are good now even though i didnt rly wanna be her friend again and a basically was telling me when we hung out like 2 weeks ago she didnt rly feel like i liked hanging out w her and she thought i didnt wanna be friends so she stopped being friends w me and thats all weve rly talked about it. and now everytime I try and have a convo w her it just feels awkward. like we have barely have had a full convo and me and her used to talk ALL the time. and i js asked if she wanted to hangout this weekend and she left me on read and everytime she doesnt answer or smth i feel like its bc she does think im annoying

Girl, no offence but a sounds like a bit of a bish. You deserve so much better than someone who acts like that towards you. A is missing out cuz you seem really nice girl ♥️

in my own opinion being on& off is a toxic trait, ik you used to be close friends but... people change sometimes and not in a good way

yeah me and her are friends or were but we just keep getting into arguments and when i try and solve it she just ignores me and today she said that i'm just always mad at her and try and start stuff bc i ignore her and decide when we talk again...

honestly if i was you id start hanging out with someone else. because from the sounds of things A will do the same to C as she has with you. then i bet she will come to you but id stat clear