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My best friend and I go to different schools, and she wants me to go to her prom with her in a couple of weeks. The problem is that while the tickets aren't that expensive, they add up when combined with the cost of a dress, hair, nails, etc., and I really don't have the money for that. Additionally, I'm not much of a party person, and I don't see myself enjoying prom at all. Especially since we'll also be with her friends (whom I don't know), so I feel like I'd just feel super uncomfortable the entire time. Anyways, if I did go, I'd be on a pretty short time crunch to buy a dress and everything, but I feel bad not going, and everyone else keeps telling me that I should go because they regretted not going to their prom. So, what should I do, guys??

i feel like you should go. for me id rather be uncomfortable then regret not going

its totally okay that prom isn't your thing. it sounds like you likely won't have that much fun, especially hanging out with people you don't know who may not even try to include you, so imo you shouldn't feel bad saying no, especially if your friend knows how you feel about parties. also, may i ask if money is a major deciding factor? what i mean is if you were able to pay for everything, comfortably, would you be more willing to go? i would advise first considering what your decision is mainly based on: cost to go or enjoyment. if it's money, there are plenty of ways to budget prom and still look amazing; but if you're deciding based on your personal enjoyment, i would advise not going, and your friend should understand your decision. i hope this helps!

my senior prom was at a museum and it was pretty cool. I got my dress for free at this boutique, I've never gotten my nails done I just painted them. I say go if you want. also don't feel like you have to spend a lot of money on hair nails etc. also my school's prom tickets were so expensive

I agree with @Savi ^^

Ah, that's a tough spot to be in 😕 Honestly, I think it's about what you want. If you don’t see yourself having a good time and the money is tight, don’t feel pressured to go just because everyone says you’ll regret it. Prom isn’t for everyone, and it’s okay to skip it if you’re not feeling it. Maybe you can still make it up to your bestie by doing something else special together, like a fun hangout or movie night? But if you do decide to go, just make sure you're comfortable with the decision. No regrets, either way!

but yeah go if you want because honestly if I didn't go I feel like I wouldn't have missed out much because I honestly just walked around like all the floors like by myself which is fine cuz I don't mind being by myself but it's not the end of the world if you don't go for sure.

if you truly feel like you'd be uncomfortable, then it's okay to skip out! i didn't go to my own prom for similar reasons. that was last april, and i don't regret my decision at all (even though my mom said i would). your experience won't be the same as everyone else's. you could always hang out with your friend another day and have it be special, still.

but i also agree with what savi said above. if cost is your main worry, i'm sure you can still have a nice prom without spending a lot of money. in the end, it's your decision. trust your gut!

I think you should go! It's only a thing that you can experience when you're young, and it'll add some quality dun time with your bestie! Although all the buying does add up, it'll make for a great night and day if you're going shopping with your mom or friends!

You go, girl!

✨savi.reads.books✨ wrote: "its totally okay that prom isn't your thing. it sounds like you likely won't have that much fun, especially hanging out with people you don't know who may not even try to include you, so imo you sh..."

It's honestly a combination of money and personal enjoyment. If money weren't a factor, I would be way more inclined to go, but I'm still iffy about the decision because it is only about three weeks away, and I don't know if I'd really enjoy it. The problem is that money is a big decision, lol. I'm just not sure if it's worth it to use money on something I'm not certain I'd enjoy

ella wrote: "my senior prom was at a museum and it was pretty cool. I got my dress for free at this boutique, I've never gotten my nails done I just painted them. I say go if you want. also don't feel like you ..."

How did you get your dress for free?? That sounds so nice!!

ella wrote: "but yeah go if you want because honestly if I didn't go I feel like I wouldn't have missed out much because I honestly just walked around like all the floors like by myself which is fine cuz I don'..."

Yeah, I personally don't mind being myself either, lol. I just don't want to potentially waste the money

As a now adult that went to her prom…it was nothing memorable or fun 🤷🏻‍♀️ I don’t think it is something you will fear you missed out on.

yesss go

I have been to one school dance in my entire high school life. I personally would not go to prom but only because I get anxious in crowded spaces. BUT if you want to go to prom it might be really fun so go for it. Also if you do go have a blast for the ones who can't go.

dont go if u dont wanna :)

dont go if u dont wanna :)

You should go. It’s a one time opportunity and you don’t want to miss it just because you wanna stay in your comfort zone. There is beauty outside of your comfort zone and the sooner you make friends with awkwardness and the unknown the more you’ll thrive (that came from the Holy Spirit because I KNOW that didn’t come from me… wow)

i know this was 21 days ago and i have no idea when prom usually happens.. but as a homeschool girl i get intense fomo and sadness when i see stuff about prom.. ill never get to have that..so imo i urge you to go, but girl!! if you don’t want to that’s ok too!!! ur friend will understand! do what you think you want to do babe~

My senior prom was awesome I got prom queen and I still have my tiara somewhere. I went by myself that year now my junior year I took a friend of mine she has went every year of high school

i never went toh prom because I didn't have anyone to go with plus my bestfriend was going with her bf at that time. and I didn't wanna be w third wheel. AND dances wernt my thing either, plus I didn't feel comfortable in dresses as I do now. so I def would've been uncomfortable the whole time. its really up to u. just weigh the pros and cons of yes and no.

I relate to that so much as an online school girl. It's sad to think about all the events you miss out on. Just go and have fun, enjoy your time.

Look, if going to your best friend's prom gets a bit expensive then you can always just wear a less expensive dress that you already have in your wardrobe and do your own makeup. And then you can spend more on your school's prom, because you're mainly just going to your best friend's prom to have fun.

its up 2 u but as mammma mia said “the war lords are on there way hid under that broccoli.”

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