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so ive been friends w this girl (a) for 3-4 years and we've been besties for one. almost two months ago a week after me and her had a sleepover she started telling me how annoying i am and that she didn't want to be friends, we were never good friends and that i just get on her nerves. she was w a friend at a time so i thought it was her friend texting me but apparently it wasn't. i told my mom but lied and only said that a told me that we weren't good friends anymore and my mom was very upset so she texted a's mom and asked what happened and basically a said that she just felt like i didn't like hanging out with her and she said she 'crashed out' and i kinda got forced into being her friend again, but i just started always thinking that she thought i was annoying now and i didn't trust her anymore. me and her started getting into little arguments when i explained to her that i felt like she didn't wanna talk to me and she was just like "idk what you want me to do" + "idk why your getting so mad abt it". and before this me and her have only gotten into a big argument once 2 years ago and we made up kinda fast. so one morning i was telling her i felt left out over something stupid then later that day she told me she didn't wanna talk to me anymore if i'm so negative and i was like what.... because we used to be best friends and she does the same thing talking about being left out. so then she started saying that i'm always just starting arguments with her and decide when we talk again. i was pissed and didn't text her for 3 weeks and she didn't text me either. then last week i told her i wanted to try and be friends, and she said she thinks we outgrew our friendship and its for the best unless i really wanna try but she doesn't think we should and i said i wanted to because i don't understand why we're not friends and then she just never answered me and she turned her read receipts off. and her texting style has been so different. also me and her r long distance best friends (she moved a while ago) so i cant ask her when i was still in school when she can't ignore me as much. this is so out of character for her and i really miss her but every time i try and fix things she just ignores me or says some way she doesn't want to.

TLDR: my best friend changed and suddenly doesn't want to be friends with me and i really miss her, but when i try and fix things she just ignores me and tells me she doesn't want to. what do i do?

i personally think that you should let things cool down for a little, if you're not done with school yet, wait till the end of school to try and make up. if she's still upset, than you can try part way through the summer, and if she still doesn't want to talk, maybe she's not as good of a friend as you thought (i know it's harsh to say, but think a little more about it). this honestly seems like we shouldn't jump to thinks 100% yet, (and i'm not saying you are), do you mind if i ask how long this has been going on?

@mireya when she said all that stuff abt me being annoying was almost 2 months ago

hey bestie you need to chill omg! ik it can be so tough dealing with this but you need to understand this that well maybe she isn't the friend you used to think she was. and yes it can be very overwhelming to see a friendship of 3 to 4 yrs getting demolished so casually but this is life, and i'm sure you must have much more amazing things waiting for you. you don't need to stay stuck upon someone who doesn't perceive you worthy enough to be provided with a proper explanation before ending things with you. you are worth much more than that. i'm sure you'll get over it babe. unless she realizes her mistake and tries to communicate back with you, i don't see why you must be so stuck up on her when she doesn't see your desperation to stay as her friend.

@auri yeah i feel like its better if me and her aren't friends but i guess i just didnt think she would ever not wanna be my friend

This year was my first year attending public school. I met this girl let’s call her Emily. We shared one class which was science we immediately hit it off. We’d go to school events together hangout and talk about everything. I wouldn’t say she’s popular but she’s known and so am l because of my friends and brothers. Recently we’ve added another girl to our circle let’s call her Emma. Emma is very sweet we’ve been coming really close l tell her about how lm feeling when it comes to my relationship with Emily I feel like since Emma came along me and Emily don’t talk each other and tell eachother thing like we used to and l talked to her about it she said that l didnt do anything wrong and that we’re okay ldk if we’re getting olde and growing apart l hope that’s not the case what should l do?

lilly ♡ wrote: "@auri yeah i feel like its better if me and her aren't friends but i guess i just didnt think she would ever not wanna be my friend"

I totally get it, maybe create some diversion to not think about it constantly? You'll get over it I promise, only wishing the best for you.

i texted her yesterday asking if we could be friends but if she wants me to stop bothering her just tell me and she never answered but ive seen her active on her socials. and its like what did i even do for you to not even give me an answer at all like how do you go from best friends to you not even giving me respect