hot girls read books discussion

Okay, eh...here's the thing. I like this boy (we are gonna call him H) from school and now we are in summer break, so we don't talk like we used to. And i know his birthday is today bc his friend told me. What should i do? Text him and saying happy birthday? Or i should just ignore the fact that today is his birthday? Maybe this whole thing seems less conplicated than i imagine but we DON'T talk since classes finished, so now its gonna be kinda weird, bc you know..., well i am not sure what i have to do, i mean i like him, but i don't know if he likes me back. When we had class together we were always having this kind of frriendship in wich you can bully him sometimes or just talk about random stuff or just laugh in class with our friends.
Sorry for my english btw

im not great and wouldnt know what to do either but what you could do is text him happy bday and see what he says and if he doesnt reply, he doesnt reply and if he does, he does. but if you really like him would js shoot your shot gurl!! you got this i believe in you!!

i would text him happy birthday! Maybe it will be a conversation starter and you both will talk again.

DEFINITELY text him happy birthday! It is a great conversation starter. Can follow up with, "got any big plans?"
Be brave! It isn't going to hurt at all. He may even be happy to know you remembered his birthday. :)

I was in the same situation last summer and my advice is wish him happy birthday and try to start a conversation

TEXT HIM!!! ik its absolutely nervewracking but i think itd be worth it lol i don't think he'd find it weird or anything
i bet you he'd appreciate it plus its a nice thing to do anyway
good luck!!

yeah for sureeee, you should totally text him
as long as you're POSITIVE its his birthday lollll

I agree with everyone else. You should def text him, and if he ignores it he is clearly immature. Because if someone send me a happy bday text even tho I wouldnt be interested in them I would say thank you. So either he says thank you for remembering or he maybe isn't that nice. Thats just my opinion tho. I dont know this dude

Good luck with what you decide to do

Def Text HIM!

Also, this is unrelated, but I used to have a pen pal named Valentina when I was little.

Rowan wrote: "Def Text HIM!

Also, this is unrelated, but I used to have a pen pal named Valentina when I was little."

Cute ( i think ).

giiirl I text people who I've not spoken to in years for their birthday! Just text him!

Nuisto wrote: "giiirl I text people who I've not spoken to in years for their birthday! Just text him!"

Good point. Always if i know its someone's birthday or its Christmas I text them either. On Christmas I literally text every contact on my phone Merry Christmas even if I haven't spoken to the person for a year. Never gotten anything but a thank you

mila wrote: "yeah for sureeee, you should totally text him
as long as you're POSITIVE its his birthday lollll"

well. i THINK it is, bc we have a lot of friends in common, and one of them told me, like a month ago, sooo i will text him, anyway what´s the worst that could happen?

Valentina wrote: "mila wrote: "yeah for sureeee, you should totally text him
as long as you're POSITIVE its his birthday lollll"

well. i THINK it is, bc we have a lot of friends in common, and one of them told me,..."

Yeah! You go girl!

thankks for all your comments, you all gave me so much courage, so why not? i am def gonna text him
(and i will tell you what happen next okay, bc i think i will need some opinions or support)

ahhhh, i did it (and then i turned off my phone, but I DID IT)
OMG, i´m so nervous

Valentina wrote: "ahhhh, i did it (and then i turned off my phone, but I DID IT)
OMG, i´m so nervous"

yayyy! so proud of u girl ☺️ don’t be nervous about it! saying happy birthday is just a nice thing to say to ANYONE :) i text hbd to people i barely talk to soo

sama wrote: "Valentina wrote: "ahhhh, i did it (and then i turned off my phone, but I DID IT)
OMG, i´m so nervous"

yayyy! so proud of u girl ☺️ don’t be nervous about it! saying happy birthday is just a nice t..."

thank youuuu

i just remmember he told me one time that he doesn't like to sleep late and i sent the message at 10 pm, and its now 11 pm and he didn't even see it. so maybe he will tomorrow

he liked my message, and then wrote "thankyou valentina ❤️", at 1 am. thoughts?

He probably is interested in you then and is just afraid to show it you can ask him tomorrow how his birthday went

hi, name twin^

I agree with what Shianna said. Just send him a casual message about how he spent his bday? or if he's planning to have some celebration

well, i asked him how it went and he told me it was very good and he spent it w his family, so i texted him that glad to hear that. so that´s it. (I'm glad i told him happy birthday) thankyouu all

keep the conversation going!

First of all, sorry if my english is not perfect, i'm from Spain. After reading it all, congrats!! you did great texting him. I'm older than you, and I know this kind of things are a big deal when you are at school, so I'm proud of you girl!!
I would try to keep the conversation going, maybe ask him about his summer, if he's interested, you will know

Valentina wrote: "Okay, eh...here's the thing. I like this boy (we are gonna call him H) from school and now we are in summer break, so we don't talk like we used to. And i know his birthday is today bc his friend t..."


U should just say hey happy birthday hope u have a good day! Just be kind but basic so he like knows that u care enough to tell him happy birthday

it has a heart on the message!!!!!! (sry im delulu)

what you should do:
he replied, and with a heart. this shows interest. keep the conversation going. heres a bunch of starters!

hey hows ur summer going???
how is (insert pet or sibling name)
are you excited for school to start?
are you still playing (insert sport)
(if you are brave) i hope we are in the same class/have classes together!

i hope this helps you keep in contact! also everyone can use these convo starters :)

jane :) wrote: "it has a heart on the message!!!!!! (sry im delulu)

what you should do:
he replied, and with a heart. this shows interest. keep the conversation going. heres a bunch of starters!

hey hows ur s..."
im also a delulu, whenn i saw the message this moorning i was instantly so happy
well, i asked how it went (his birthday) and he told me it was very good, and it's been a long time since he celebrated it with his family in his country (so he is right now in another country) so i replied saying i´m glad hearing that. and it's been 6 hours and he hasn't even seen the message yet so I guess he's busy.

oooooh ok!!! SEND UPDATES!!!!

Please let us know what he says

Omggg so excitinggg, he’s telling about his family so he wants to keep the conversation going too!! Keep going girl!! Keep us updated 🤭😏

ok, soooo there is no more updates, he didn´t say anything, i said ¨glad to hear that¨ and he left me on read, so now i don´t know what to do. i guess he´s not interested. but HONESTLY that red heart left thinking bc he usually doesn´t use emojis. any thoughts?

awwwwhhh such a letdown :( i wish you luck with him in the school year!

He might not be interested, or he just doesn't know what to say yet.

definitely the birthday text! and maybe shoot your shot while you're at it?