Newbery Books discussion
2010 Book of the Month
>
Missing May
date
newest »

message 1:
by
Kristine
(new)
Mar 03, 2010 09:15AM

reply
|
flag

Having said that, I do feel that it was written well. When the time comes that someone close to my kids passes away, this will be a good book for them to read because I think that in the middle of their sorrow it would speak to their soul and let them mourn.


Rylant's characters help each other and choose love and life. Loving and living are risky things--by caring, we risk hurting, but it is worth it. What if May and Ob had decided it was too risky to take a child into their home because they were poor and old? But they didn't even hesitate because they knew she needed them. And so all three had joy. I loved the image when she describes the wonderful food in the cupboards--abundant and free, just like their love. It is so opposite of the place Summer had been living where she was afraid to ask for milk and no one cared about her.
Even if they do die before Summer is grown, they have given her so much. "We wanted a family so bad, all of us. And we just grabbed onto each other and made us one, simple as that. I always told Ob he was my moon and sun. And when you came to us, Summer, honey, you were my shining star. You are the BEST little girl I ever did know." She will carry that love and confidence with her and give it to others, in turn.


I do think that this book was a written in a way that you don't see the beauty of the book until the ending. And even then I am not sure my 11 year old would see all the points that you made in your post. I do see them and agree with them. I just felt that as I was reading it I almost felt the same way I did when I was going through my post pardon depression and I didn't like it. It was hard for me to get through. But like I said, if I were actually grieving right now I think it would be a great book to read to help validate my feelings. I am glad I read it so I can use it as a tool if needed but other than times of grief, I probably won't read it again.

