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Who's wanting to read this?? We could read it for the Month of May...





Who's wanting to read this?? We could read it for the Month of May..."
I'm in! I started this years ago...but got off course and never finished. I'm game to return to it this spring.


Thanks...checked it out. Wow!

I've set aside my "space" and am reading through the intro and suggestions for week one. I agree with the concept that we are often our own worse enemies...filling our lives with clutter, technology, and an endless array of activities 24/7.
Most importantly I find that of late I have indeed become "uncentered" in part since I have spread myself too thin...too many tasks...reaching a point where some are done well and other suffer.


"Relearning how to concentrate, says the writer Alain de Botton, is one of the great challenges of our time. "The past decade has seen an unparalleled assault on our capacity to fix our minds steadily on anything," he wrote in the 2010 essay "On Distraction." "To sit still and think, without succumbing to an anxious reach for a machine, has become almost impossible."
Linda Stone, a former executive at both Apple and MIcrosoft, has coined the term Continuous Partial Attention to describe a pervasive and exhausting condition you're likely to find familiar. Simple multitasking -- it seems almost quaint -- was, she says, motivated by the desire to be more productive and to create free time for friends, family, and fun. "But Continuous Partial Attention is motivated by a desire not to miss anything," she writes. "We're talking on the phone and driving; carrying on a conversation at dinner and texting under the table....Continuous Partial Attention involves an artificial sense of constant crisis, of living in a 24/7, always-on world. It contributes to feeling stressed, overwhelmed, overstimulated, and unfulfilled; it compromises our ability to reflect, to make decisions, and to think creatively."
As I began reading the first chapter of Sharon's book, which is entitled Concentration, the paragraph above resonated with me. I've gone months without my usual daily meditation practice and I am feeling the stress and fragmentation of my busy and ungrounded life. I'm starting this book as a map back to calmness and serenity.



I'm so glad to be ending Week Two on this thought. I found this week's meditations challenging. The first time I tried the Body Scan meditation I fell asleep. I promptly reminded myself to try again. Using meditation in my daily activities did offer the opportunity to recognize "add-ons."


I like what she says: "Until you can acknowledge a thought or emotion as part of your human repertoire--observe it to see that it isn't permanent, isn't all you are--you can't create a healthy relationship to it."