Problems with Life/Emos and Goths discussion

Somebody found out I used to cut myself and their telling people, she is a bitch and mean and hates me and tells EVERYBODY...and I can do nothing. All my friends will soon abandon me and IK TRUE FRIENDS never leave u but my TRUE friends would and IK they are real friends so omg dont tell me to avoid ppl becuz i cant! WHAT CAN I DO!?

I was fgoing to suggest something, but I'm pretty sure you don't want to go to jail...

Im not going to hurt or kill her

No... that's not a good idea. Have you talked with her about what she's doing to you?

three options and I'm not even fond of them

1. Deny everything

2. Lie

3. Get some dirt on her (Okay maybe this one isn't so bad of an option)

I've been txting her and she's saying she knows the truth and stating people (who actually DO know I did cut) told her i did! QuotetheRaven thanks...im trying to Deny everything and lie, and i dont wanna start problems but i hate her so much

All i can think to say is deny it, lie, let them bitch about it...do they have any true proof?

All i can think to say is deny it, lie, let them bitch about it...do they have any true proof?

My friend has gone so far as tell people "someone attacked her and she's lying when she says she cuts" Some people believe her but I don't think she should lie about that :/

Ooh! If there are scars say you got hurt trying to save someone and It's horrible a certain someone is spreading lies like that.

Nemonica....yes they have proof, scars on my arm.
And i say I slipped and fell and got the scars but ppl dont believe me

show her... the wisdom of the world. Your world. Maybe she's in her own world, not knowing what yours is like, down on her knees, begging for her to show you the answers why, or how, or when. Maybe.

Sabore wrote: "Nemonica....yes they have proof, scars on my arm.
And i say I slipped and fell and got the scars but ppl dont believe me"

Although it must be harder than just saying this but, They can think what they want, they have proof of something happening to you but what i meant was do they have proof that you did it?

Thanks guys, things are improving...u guys are all so great :)

I... wasn't much help at all...

Sabore wrote: "Thanks guys, things are improving...u guys are all so great :)"


I'm glad things are getting better. I honestly didn't know how to help but I wanted to try at least. Even if I can't help I'm here for you guys just to listen, give my opinion, or in any other way I can help.. :)

liz (in the 3rd phase of Amor Deleria Nervosa) wrote: "I... wasn't much help at all..."

You were there. That's something...

*is confused*

ugh, im not rly helping.... but, um, keep hanging on to the scrap of life left that you have, because that can grow into a whole lifefull of opportunities!

Sabore wrote: "Somebody found out I used to cut myself and their telling people, she is a bitch and mean and hates me and tells EVERYBODY...and I can do nothing. All my friends will soon abandon me and IK TRUE FR..."

Same things happening to me. This girl who just so happens to be in this group told the guy I like that I cut and am suicidal when I had stopped cutting and was happy. Then my friend got an email from someone saying I cut and am suicidal and I'm almost positive it's the same person. That person used to be my best friend but now she hates me when I have more reason to hate her. She always talks about how she has no real friends but if she had only stayed my friend that wouldn't be true. She hadn't even spoken to me for a month when she told the guy I like and two months or so later she told my friend.

Maybe they did care but in a good way like "I hope she's okay" not "omg she's a freak". I know that my heart legit skipped a beat everytime you said GAD, meds, therapy and weed and joint.

I know. I laughed I was like "someone's a little thck..."

Anyway if she's making fun of you for that the bitch doesn't desrve to be your friend.

Okay. Well I'll always be there for you no matter what.

Call the police on you for what!?

Okay well she's stupid.

Haha Kk. Ttyl baui.