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Yes, that's how I translated "experienced" too. It's a tactful turn of phrase, though.

Ok, so on a slightly different note: Does anyone have good budgeting advice that may seem obvious but people tend to overlook?
Does that mean you would move from a job with benefits to one without? I'd be careful about doing that, certainly. Would you be able to get health insurance through your husband's job? And what's his job security like? (You don't have to answer, just consider.)
I think salaries for that type of work are dropping. They were higher before the financial disaster of 2008-. A lot of layoffs in office work, and when these companies rehire, if they do, they drop the salary significantly. (Or go with temps.)
I think salaries for that type of work are dropping. They were higher before the financial disaster of 2008-. A lot of layoffs in office work, and when these companies rehire, if they do, they drop the salary significantly. (Or go with temps.)

No, I mean I don't have benefits right now, so I would be willing to take a slight cut in pay to get a job that offers them. I just don't want to reduce it to the point where I end up in an even larger debt-hole than I am (or more accurately, we are) currently.
So it sounds like it would be a completely lateral move (not rising in terms of career promotion, or salary increase). Would your commuting costs change at all? If you are miserable and stressed out in your current job, it certainly could make sense to make a lateral move.


Yes, I agree with this.

And how important is your credit rating if you're not concerned with buying a house any time soon? I know it affects other purchases, but I know some people that will happily weaken their credit score to save, and others who are determined to keep it as high as possible but are unable to put anything aside because of it.

Try searching "budgeting workbook" on google and see what you get - there are some banks that put them up for free download. One thing you can do is list out all your credit cards, the APR, and what you owe.
Then pay the minimum on the lowest interest ones and as much as you can afford on the highest interest one.
$30, 000 is not a bad salary for an early job in a non-specialized field, as long as the rent etc. isn't too high in your area.

Debt sucks... it sucks so bad. Even if you don't care about your credit score (which I didn't, and I wish I would have), it is still advisable to get out from under any financial obligations that you can. That way when you ARE interested in buying a house, or a car, you're good to go and you won't find something you're in love with but can't qualify to get in to.
What do you plan to do with a "rainy day" fund? Is it for when you want to go on vacation or buy new furniture, or is it for emergencies?
Also, with regard to the credit score, more and more employers are running a credit check during the hiring process to see what kind of person they're getting.


PAY YOURSELF FIRST.
Compound interest can be your best friend, or your worst enemy.
Paying it on credit cards or other loans means you're paying a heck of a lot more for your "stuff" than you think.
Earning it on investments or savings can bring you wealth faster than anything other than a lottery or being an insider on a big IPO.
If your employer has a 401K or similar program, put in 5% MORE than you think you can afford. You'll find a way to get by.
The three most important things you should be doing are paying down debt (I include in this keeping up your good credit rating), saving for the short term (an emergency fund), and saving for the long term (retirement). (I'm leaving out saving for the middle term, which would include things like saving for a home, or for expensive private school for your kids.)
They used to say you should have 3 months salary squirreled away for an emergency fund. Since the recession started, they've upped it to 6 months. This may seem completely unreasonable for you, but do what you can.
Because neither of these jobs has a 401(k), you and your husband should each be contributing to an IRA. (You can contribute to a 401(k) and an IRA, if finances permitted you.) The reasons this is important are:
a) a traditional IRA is tax deductible - it will lower your taxable income.
b) all IRA growth is untaxed until you take it out at retirement.
c) as Phil said, compound interest can be a wonderful thing. No one knows what the stock market will do in the next few months, years, or ever, but historically it has been one of the best ways to build wealth.
d) if you don't save for retirement, you'll have to rely on Social Security, and who knows what size your monthly benefit will be by the time you reach retirement age.
If an IRA sounds totally unachievable, start small. Open one up, make whatever contribution you can afford. You can always adjust your contribution up or down. The point is to get started while it's early and you're young. Pick a good quality name brand investment firm, like T. Rowe Price, and pick one or two of their no-load growth funds. And then DO NOT TOUCH that money, ever, for any reason. Let it sit there forever.
They used to say you should have 3 months salary squirreled away for an emergency fund. Since the recession started, they've upped it to 6 months. This may seem completely unreasonable for you, but do what you can.
Because neither of these jobs has a 401(k), you and your husband should each be contributing to an IRA. (You can contribute to a 401(k) and an IRA, if finances permitted you.) The reasons this is important are:
a) a traditional IRA is tax deductible - it will lower your taxable income.
b) all IRA growth is untaxed until you take it out at retirement.
c) as Phil said, compound interest can be a wonderful thing. No one knows what the stock market will do in the next few months, years, or ever, but historically it has been one of the best ways to build wealth.
d) if you don't save for retirement, you'll have to rely on Social Security, and who knows what size your monthly benefit will be by the time you reach retirement age.
If an IRA sounds totally unachievable, start small. Open one up, make whatever contribution you can afford. You can always adjust your contribution up or down. The point is to get started while it's early and you're young. Pick a good quality name brand investment firm, like T. Rowe Price, and pick one or two of their no-load growth funds. And then DO NOT TOUCH that money, ever, for any reason. Let it sit there forever.
I totally agree with Phil on "You'll find a way to get by." You really can push yourself to be a saver. You will be able to find ways to cut back on your expenses without being completely miserable. If you're buying $5 lattes and frappucinos, taking taxis, going to the movies every 3 days, you can cut some of that out. If you don't have a sense of where your money is going, keep track of all your expenses for 2-3 months. Every last penny...

What works for me is having an 'allowance'. I draw my weekly 'allowance' from the ATM. This cash must cover gasoline, groceries, and pocket money (lunch,coffee, etc). For this to work, there can be no extra trips to the ATM, no cheating. When the cash is gone, no more spending. It forces me to prioritize,and give me a concrete reason to resist impulse purchases.

My husband is American, works in the US, but lives in Canada. When I do my taxes, I must claim his income and file as married because he lives with me. He always filed single in the US. We were told last year to obtain International Tax Identification Numbers so he could claim both myself and our daughter and file as married. We did that. However, when he had his taxes done, it appears that he did not have to claim my income. Is this right? If you file as married you don’t have to claim your spouse’s income? The paperwork only requested my occupation- not my employer, nor my income. Just curious- I won’t let him spend the refund in case they want it back.

What works for me is having an 'allowance'. I draw my weekly 'allowance' from t..."
I like the cash suggestion a lot, it's the nickels and dimes that do the real damage.

1. Every month, save 10%, invest 10%, and give to charity 10%.
and, 2. When making a purchase, is it something you need or something you want. Are you buying that shirt/car/vacation simply because you can?

My husband is American, works in the US, but lives in Canada. When I do my taxes, I must claim his income and file as married bec..."
The across-the-border stuff may muddle the issue, but two U.S. citizens filing as "Married" most definitely must report the income of both.
If your income was earned in Canada it may not be required to be added to his U.S. tax filing because it wouldn't be subject to U.S. income tax.
Check with a professional.



Does anyone have advice for job hunting? Best places to look? Things that have helped you in the past? It's a craptastic market, I know, but sometimes you just have to take your chances.



That's the only way?
The large companies I've worked with get a large number of people from referrals made by current employees. Networking is generally a FANTASTIC way to find employment, even for jobs that haven't yet been listed.


Moving in a different direction: any thoughts on debt consolidation?

But I'm guessing you don't want to go that route.


This would be aided by the fact that my husband and I would be moving in with my mom and grandma and pooling our financial resources.
I think I'm just daydreaming, and this is a terrible idea, but somehow comforting.
Is $30,000 a lot for an-early-but-not-quite-first job? I have no frame of reference.