Willow discussion

Why are guys so weak? Why do girls always want a better relationship than guys? Why do the girls have to make the first move?


I am dating this guy named Jacob and we have been dating for 4 months and he hasn't made a move. Should I be worried and what should I do? P.S: We are only 13.


If you want to know how this relates to the book it does. The relationship between Guy and Willow.

Please feel free to write whatever. I am free for discussion and it's your own opinion. Plus we are all friends.

Wait you're dating him, and he hasn't made a move? What do you mean, he hasn't like kissed you? I dunno, I'm a girl. I'm 15, and I think guys are just as nervous as us. they have feelings, too. ;) Maybe you need to make a move. Be strong. nothing 2 crazy- ur 13!

Yeah but I don't want to have to make the move.

Hmm, well just give him hints. Look up on wikihow, or just on google. best of luck! :)

Thanks, but he just broke up with me today because I was giving hints and he didn't want to go that far!!! Any ideas on how to get the boy you love back?

Hon, I haven't even gotten a guy and I'm 15. :/ Just give it a little time, then if you still want him, explain things with him. be as honest and open as possible, but don't push; give him time and the freedom to choose. :)

My guy made the first move and at first I totally shut him down but he stuck with me so if a guy is like that and still wants yhu after yhu shut him down, then hes a keeper! Play hard to get ;)
I like it when the guys make the first move. :)

I asked my Mum she said play hard to get. So, I assume that means act as if you don't like the guy. I wouldn't trust my mum though. She has been with my dad since she was 20 and she got knocked up with me. so, she hasn't been in the dating game for like years. The only advice I can give you is don't let this guy get you down because you are gorgeous and if this guy dosen't like you then thats his loss!

It's true, the Play Hard To Get Thing. I liked this guy last year, totally ignored him, and he asked me out 2 weeks after I stopped texting him. However, sometimes when you lose a guy he's gone. Don't be too upset; YOUR 13!!!! Immagine how many other guys there are out there and go get one!

I know that now. He is a jurk. A loser. Wasn't worth it.

Delaney wrote: "I know that now. He is a jurk. A loser. Wasn't worth it."

You go girl!

Yeah, I will never stop!!!

Keely wrote: "It's true, the Play Hard To Get Thing. I liked this guy last year, totally ignored him, and he asked me out 2 weeks after I stopped texting him. However, sometimes when you lose a guy he's gone. Do..."

it does work! i use it on every guy and it works like a charm :)

My mom always said don't chase the guy, have them chase you.