
“What we refer to as 'mental health problems' is human suffering. Just one from among many others, even if it's unique in some ways, especially from a social perspective. After all, it's the kind of pain that exceeds medical knowledge.”
― Desmesura
― Desmesura
“I don't call it queerphobia, just like I don't call it transphobia or Islamophobia. To call anti-queer bigotry or anti-trans hatred or anti-Muslim racism a phobia is to grant that kind of ugliness some measure of validity by implying that there is something to be afraid of. A phobia is a phobia because there is an irrational degree of fear behind it, which presupposes that there is something to fear, and, there, the person with the phobia deserves a degree of compassion and understanding.
I don't stand for that.
Call it what it is: hate. Hate that leads to and calls for violence. Hate that has consequences for people, for real human beings and their lives.”
― I'll Love You Forever: Notes from a K-Pop Fan
I don't stand for that.
Call it what it is: hate. Hate that leads to and calls for violence. Hate that has consequences for people, for real human beings and their lives.”
― I'll Love You Forever: Notes from a K-Pop Fan
“Secret identities fool those who know the hero or villain personally—parents and siblings and such—because the people closest have a hard time seeing them as anything other than what they're most comfortable with.”
― Static: Up All Night
― Static: Up All Night

“We often can't perform or uphold the identity category, and if we step outside the boundaries of the group, or if we question the categories of group identification and their enforcement, we can be met with hostility. Internally, we come to feel that something is fundamentally wrong with us. We end up wanting what we want to want, no longer knowing what we want or need. We just do what fits the scene. We follow the rules and more division occurs, which capitalism wants.”
― Tar Hollow Trans: Essays
― Tar Hollow Trans: Essays

“The origins of identity in terms of when it manifested in a person's life, or what place that identity, or experiences, traditions, and practices, holds in a person's life is not relevant to any sense of authenticity. What matters is that a behavior or practice or trait represents the vision a person has for themself and their future. And this backstory, the inner workings of how one comes to know oneself, does not need to be revealed for the sake of legibility. We don't need to know what's behind the closet or the barn door.”
― Tar Hollow Trans: Essays
― Tar Hollow Trans: Essays
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