

“When you are secure in yourself, know what turns you on, and enjoy watching your partner watch you experience sexual pleasure, you have a highly novel relationship grounded in love. The experience of seeing and being seen fuels lust and desire. This is exactly the way you integrate healthy lust and love into your sex life. It’s relational sex, not the old pornographic sex of past addictions.”
― Erotic Intelligence: Igniting Hot, Healthy Sex While in Recovery from Sex Addiction
― Erotic Intelligence: Igniting Hot, Healthy Sex While in Recovery from Sex Addiction

“I can’t help feeling as if this is my last chance,” Evan said. He was sitting opposite Dr. Lorne, a psychiatrist at the Havilland Recovery Cabin in north western New Jersey. It was the next to the last day of his fourth pass through a twenty-eight day program for sex and alcohol addiction. The sex addiction was questionable; the alcohol was not.”
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“An intensely gripping narrative...expertly crafted and totally addictive...a must read!”
― Runaway Mind: My Own Race With Bipolar Disorder
― Runaway Mind: My Own Race With Bipolar Disorder

“Looking For Love and Looking In All The Wrong Places”
― My Mind Has a Mind of Its Own
― My Mind Has a Mind of Its Own
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