Rokelle Lerner

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Rokelle Lerner



Average rating: 4.2 · 965 ratings · 76 reviews · 19 distinct worksSimilar authors
The Object of My Affection ...

4.05 avg rating — 434 ratings — published 2008 — 7 editions
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Affirmations for the Inner ...

4.40 avg rating — 209 ratings — published 1990 — 9 editions
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Daily Affirmations for Adul...

4.48 avg rating — 149 ratings — published 1983 — 10 editions
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Boundaries for Codependents...

4.22 avg rating — 100 ratings — published 1988 — 7 editions
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Living in the Comfort Zone:...

3.85 avg rating — 40 ratings — published 1995 — 4 editions
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Inkspirations for Recovery:...

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Liebe dein inneres Kind: 36...

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Journey Through Shame

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Craving Love: Afraid to Love

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I'm Running As Fast As I Ca...

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“narcissists sense that their partner will inevitably see how inadequate they are and leave for someone else. Rather than wait for that reality, they’d rather control the inevitability and leave first.”
Rokelle Lerner, The Object of My Affection Is in My Reflection: Coping with Narcissists

“When our boundaries are intact, we know that we have separate feelings, thoughts, and realities. Our boundaries allow us to know who we are in relation to others around us. We need our boundaries to get close to others, since otherwise we would be overwhelmed. Boundaries ensure that our behavior is appropriate and keep us from offending others. When we have healthy boundaries, we also know when we are being abused. A person without boundaries will not know when someone is physically, emotionally, or intellectually violating them.”
Rokelle Lerner, Boundaries for Codependents: Hazelden Classics for Families

“PERSONAL BILL OF RIGHTS FOR MY RELATIONSHIPS 1. I have a right to be treated with courtesy and respect. 2. I have a right to be the only romantic or sexual interest in my partner’s life. 3. I have a right to be informed about our assets, manage my own finances, and choose how I spend my money. 4. I have a right to have a say in decisions that affect myself and my family. 5. I have a right to be wrong and make mistakes without being punished or humiliated. 6. I have the right to live without emotional or physical violence. 7. I have the right to voice my opinion respectfully without retribution. 8. I have the right to have my personal property treated with respect. 9. I have the right to talk to others about matters that affect me. 10. I have the right to choose my own friends. 11. I have the right to enjoy myself. 12. I have the right to live without guns or pornography in my house. 13. My children have the right to be treated with respect and dignity. (Adapted from Cooper & Cooper, 2008)”
Rokelle Lerner, The Object of My Affection Is in My Reflection: Coping with Narcissists

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