Nikhil Raj's Blog

COVID 19 is an unavoidable situation. No company in the world could have opted out of the negative impacts of this pandemic. Many of the small businesses have stopped their workforce. Latest startups are being a flop. The film industry is shut. In this situation, the only companies that are surviving and heading ahead are the companies that sell digital products. Online companies have been successful in saving their brands because they have something to offer when no one else has. And this is where the answer to the question, ‘How online marketing can save your business in COVID 19?’ Now, let’s apply this method to those businesses, which do not sell digital products.

For the businesses that do not sell digital products, online marketing is a method, which can help them save themselves. Online marketing, inclusive with giveaways, like eBooks, or guides can save the companies from breaking their leg. But there’s a question that always arises in the minds of the business heads and that is, ‘ How do we ensure our marketing scheme would be successful?’. The answer is hidden in the term ‘Brand Loyalty’.

The fact cannot be denied that the situation of downfall for a business is worse than what they are going through in this situation of COVID-19. The companies have to pay their in both situations, no matter if the company is running in loss or growing exponentially. In this pandemic situation, these businesses have a plus point that they do not run in any loss, they are just shut. Here comes the role of brand loyalty, which gives all the businesses a chance to be seen in the eyes of the consumers. If you expand the reach of your brand in this hour, with a positive image, you will be able to turn the heads of the consumers to your side. And the only method to achieve this is through online marketing.

The entire population of the human being is seen online these days, so the best place you can be visible is on the phone and laptops. Showcasing your achievements, helping the people in need and promoting yourself on various social media platforms can make you visible to your consumers. When you make your consumers remember you, you save your brand.

Preorders of new products, which you would launch after lockdown can also be a great step to gather attention from your consumer.

So, during this situation of COVID -19, for the businesses to save themselves online marketing is the only way out. This will not just save the brand from breaking their legs but proper optimisation of online marketing can also help them get a headstart for the awaited competition after lockdown.

Personality is no less than money, the more you have, the more you want. There is nothing called enough money and perfect personality. No matter how much money you earn, there is always a need to have more, similarly, no matter how much you take personality development classes or make your personality better, there is always a need within you to develop your personality. You always develop your personality to get yourself promoted to the higher societies and get what you have desired for. Personality is something that beats money. There are places where money doesn’t work, but personality does. With an amazing personality, you can attract people towards yourself. Well, you have an excuse of saying that, with money, you can attract more easily. But this is not the complete fact. You might be able to drive someone towards you, with the reflection of your money, but trust me, this is not what you want. My girlfriend was attracted to my personality and, she is the most trustworthy person in my life. Also, personality attracts money. To earn money, you need to have a better personality, whether it is about selling rice-plate at a roadside hotel or selling continental cuisine at a 5-star hotel. It is the personality, that makes the difference. So, now that you know what is more important, this is a personality development article dedicated to those who think money makes money. No, personality attracts money. What is personality? Google says, “Personality is a celebrity or famous person.” Also, Google says, “Personality is the combination of characteristics or qualities that form an individual’s distinctive character.” I won’t be amazed if you have a weird expression on your face right now, because mine was the same before I started to write this article. Allow me to explain what it actually means. Some very thoughtful people say I am not attracted to looks, but it is the personality that attracts me. Trust me, I really love them, as they try to squint into the real self of an individual. But at the same end, it won’t be a myth to state that the looks of a person are a part of their personality. So, as the definition suggests, it is a compilation of all the good qualities of an individual’s distinctive character, you are not a man of good personality if you don’t have an amazing behaviour and you have a good personality if you don’t look good, your personality must be a compilation of both. Now, that you know good personality means have an amazing behaviour along with good looks, you must not be discouraged by the term good looks. Good looks are completely not what you have thought it to be. The face you have is best for you. The body you have is the best. You must be now thinking if I am mad. Trust me I am not, my dad is a doctor and he once told me, that I am not mad, I just have a disease of seeing things in the right way, not according to the world. So, looking good means having your face and body maintained. It is just that you should wear elegant clothes and wash your face properly and brush your hair. Trust me this is it. This is how your looks contribute to your personality, nothing else matters, if you have a jawline or have a fair face. If you believe this is not what personality is then you are in desperate need of personality development, my friend. Types of personality How many types of personalities are you familiar with? You might have started thinking like a personality development teacher to find an answer of this question. But if I was asked the same question, I would ask a question in return and ask the person, “How many individuals do you meet every day?” Again, let me tell you, I am not mad, I am just diseased to see things in the right way. What is want to prove here is that every individual differs from each other in personality. Every person has got different genes, so the hell can we expect them to have the same characteristics. It is as simple as that, all the person in the world has a unique DNA strand. I have classified personality into four different types, based on some of the common traits. Wait… before you misunderstand and I have to repeat, that I am not mad I just see things in the right way. I was talking about DNA. Every individual in this universe has unique DNA, but it is not that they don’t match it with their dad, in the same way, considering some common traits, here is a list of 4 types of personality – Average: These are us. Okay… cool. Don’t be offended, you might not be this one, don’t be angry, I am average. But trust me you are gonna regret this later in this article, this was the best you could choose. So, the average is the people that take care of everything they have, whether it is their hair, nail, behaviour, character, attitude, looks, and all other things that add up to their personality. You can say that these are the most balanced people in the society, and also those which most girls end up on. They maintain a perfect balance between their inner and outer self, which makes them lovely. These are the people who, work on their personality development on their own. They don’t require a push. There are although low in openness but are high in neuroticism and extraversion. Reserved: I don’t think I need to tell you about this category. But one thing you should be very clear about reserved people is not those who are selfish and just think about themselves. These are the people, who are more agreeable. They are just introverted and keep their personality personal. They are more accepting and are emotionally stable people, who hate emotional waves. These people are not really suggested work on personality development, but a bit more of openness can connect them to the world, in a much better way. Self-centred: These are the people who rank high in extraversion, but their score in openness and agreeableness is very low. These are the people, who are always high in the wasp of some kind of superiority complex, that doesn’t really exist in the world is real. These kinds of people are suggested, to work hard on their personality development. Role-models: Okay, this is me again. And this time I am not even kidding. I am influencing you with my words in this article. This article is part of my personality. And hence I can be an example of role-model. Role-models are sensible people, who are reliable and are always open to new ideas. They score high in agreeableness, extraversion, openness, while also has grades in neuroticism. This is how a person should be. I might not be a role model, but if that inspires you to be one, I don’t mind. 5 personality traits you must know about Personality traits are the most common traits that you need to work on when you are working on your personality development. These traits are based on the ‘Big five personality theory’. Personality development is all about these five traits. You just need to maintain a balance of these five traits and here you are with the best personality. Openness: Openness is all about new experiences and discoveries. It is never bad to be very imaginative and have a wide range of interests. This is something that will boost your mind and will get you better experiences. Basically, trait indicates how open-minded and authority challenging a person is or can be. So, to have a better personality it is important to have a good score in openness, which you can get by loving to learn new things and exploring more and more. Conscientiousness: This trait reveals how self-disciplined and organized a person is. This is what defines your promptness and your reliability. I suggest having a good score is impressive and is a sign of a good personality. Extraversion: As the name suggests this trait is an indicator of how much extra activities a person does, how much out-going and social a person is. This trait defines the assertiveness and talkativeness a person is. This shows what amount of energy is carried by a person. In case of extraversion, if you are working on personality development, I would suggest you focus properly on this part as this will not just get you a better personality but will also help you reach you to various reputed platforms. Agreeableness: This trait is a badge for being friendly, warm and tactful. If you have this badge with you, you are definitely getting good attention in public. This is a trait that indicates how kind and affectionate a person is. I won’t suggest you have a good or bad in a test of this trait. I will leave it upon you to decide. Neuroticism: This is what defines the stability of a person, mostly emotional. At many of the places, you need to be stable and balanced. So, it is very much important for you to have a very good score on the test of neuroticism, as it is very important for you to have an amazing personality. You can surely get an amazing personality if you implement the above-mentioned changes in your personality development task. Do let me know about the results. If you have worked hard on your personality development and now it is the time to test your personality and not just record your growth, but do share with me here. These are somethings that I’ve discovered, let me know in the comment section below what you found about personality. Also, you can contact me here and get personal help in developing your personality.

Let’s avoid being judgemental and quit passing judgement on people based on certain grounds. I was at a wedding the other day and was having food with a bunch of my friends. I was a bit conscious in front of them as I was meeting them after a long time. I felt like I was being judged, but a moment later I realized it wasn’t me. A man was getting some food for himself from the food counter and one of my friends said, “See what a bhukad (greedy for food he is).” I was amazed to hear this from him as I saw the friend himself didn’t even have an inch of space in his plate. Then I realized it was the man as well. It was the friend, trying to act cool. He had a different level of superiority complex, which was his reason for being judgemental, or it was his judgement for others that made him be trapped by the superiority complex? Meaning of judgemental A person having an overly critical point of view about someone or judging a person on the basis of his/her colour, wealth, taste, style, or anything and everything they do, is defined as judgemental. This is a negative term used to describe someone who rushes to pass judgement over no reason. Judgemental are the people who form lots of opinions about someone and the cause of this judgment has no reason. These judgements are generally harsh and critically harming for the confidence and self-esteem of the person being judged. Judgemental are the people who are generally narrow-minded and can never be easy going. Judging people is a part of their life, and they cannot imagine a life without it. It is not at all easy for a person to be judgemental. Just imagine how talented would they be, who can find faults in every single thing that is witnessed by their eyes. No matter how expensive or how elegant thing you wear, no matter which way you stand, or how polite you be in your words, these are the people that always have something that can kill all the self-confidence you have worn. There is nothing gonna be left after you see them, sorry they see you. So, try not to mess with a person like that, because they have a weapon which can enter the white house and kill the self-confidence of Mr President as well, then who are you. Is being judgemental a bad thing? Of course, not! Who said it is? I mean you are not killing someone. So, this is not bad. You just kill their self-confidence and make them look at themselves with a pitying eye. So, what, that’s a bad thing, I guess. Is it? You don’t rape someone by being judgemental. So, what if you make them naked in their own eyes. You don’t make a mistake. Judging someone is not a bad thing. Why would it be? Is it written anywhere? Yes, it is written here on this page at Lifestyle Today. I say it is very bad to judge someone on what they do and what they like. This is not a legal crime but it is definitely a curse in the society. Why would you decide what a person like? How are you to decide whether a person is to be said good or bad? Actually, why the hell do you have to do so? Can’t you just stay away from the places and people you don’t like and enjoy your life in peace? Oh! I forgot you are judgemental; the world is a faulty place for you. Don’t worry, I’ll ask the scientist of NASA to build residences for you on mars and moon if that is okay for you. People say it is important to judge. Judging is important to know the real you. It is important to judge, and knowingly or not we all judge each other, every minute, every second. What is that? They say we judge a person to even complement them. We judge people to make them feel happy. We judge people to encourage them and be better in their life. If judging this way is allowed, then why can’t people accept their flaws. True, we judge every person in the world, we judge them all the time, every minute, every second. I am sorry I am gonna give a very bad example but, this is what I can get you to make you understand. The people that make you feel happy, the comedians, the actors, the storytellers, who make you feel happy are never convicted, neither socially nor legally, but the people who spread hatred, kill people, hurt them, steal their things, they are called criminals. Hurting any person in an offence, the difference is just that, hurting emotions is a social offence and hurting physically is a legal offence. Judgemental is a term used to judge people for no reason. This is a term used in a negative manner, for the judgements that hurt the sentiments of a person. It is not used to point at the people, who pass positive judgements, which blossoms a person’s face with a smile. Signs that show you are being judgemental. The third one can help you. A person is not judgemental by birth. It is the surroundings around the one, which makes him end up being judgemental. Like any other thing, there are also symptoms of being judgemental. If you haven’t heard of it then, find yourself unlucky, because if you knew you are being judgemental you would have controlled yourself at the right stage. If you are developing a different level of superiority complex. You start seeing the world below your feet, but the facts say a different story, this is what superiority complex is. You find the other person to be your servant. The only person that can stand beside you is you, yourself. In this case, you need a reason, not to stand equal to others and hence you start to judge. You love yourself a lot, and this self-love becomes a poison for the person you encounter. You become a snake in the crowd, and start biting anything that comes in your to be the best (hypothetically best). Overconfidence is also a prominent reason for judging people. When you are too much confident about yourself, you start judging people and this is how you start hunting their confidence. The more you hunt the more judgemental you be and this process continues, till you find a person, who could crumble your confidence below his feet. Judging small things is the beginning of being judgemental. This is the time you can pluck this out from the root itself. If you are not able to remove this at this stage then this will soon transform into a huge giant and will keep disturbing you throughout. You will not even realize when will start judging every single thing around you. So, it is good that you have realized that you are being judgemental. Now is the best time to fight it. How to avoid being judgemental? Nothing in this world is hard to get unless you are not devoted to it. Same goes for throwing out the judgemental nature from you. You can easily avoid being judgemental in these four simple steps – Discover, don’t judge – What is the first thing that you do when you see a person? You judge them from their head to toe. This is not what you have to do. Bring some change. Check out the person from head to toe, but the next step should not be judging the person rather you should discover the qualities in them. Discover those elements that might be unseen from the eyes you see. See-through the eyes of your heart, you will see the realism, which would be completely different from what you used to see earlier. So, discover over judge always. Be understanding – What do you do, when someone starts finding faults in you? You try to dodge them and make them understand. You try to make excuses and tell them that this was the reason I could do a certain thing. Now imagine, what if the person understands himself and don’t judge you for what you are. I am not saying that the person you judge is full of flaws and you need to hide them. But if you are judging a person, somewhere deep inside you feel that he is full of flaws. So, be more understanding. Understand the reasons and make yourself understand that there is perfection in his flaws. Be more open to the flaws that you see. There will be a time when these imperfections will be perfect for you, and you will find everything cool and stop judging in your mind as well. Accept – Accept the flaws of the people, that you have stored in your mind. Earlier when you used to judge people and used to show it, no matter it was intentional or not, this time is cautious. In the beginning, don’t let the person know you are judging them. Accept them, accept their flaws and complement them, even though you are judging them in your mind. Keep doing the same. Keep accepting people for who they are. And this acceptance will kill the slowly kill the judgemental you, and leave the free soul of you. Love – Now that you have accepted everything in your mind. Try to love the flaws of the people. Love them for what they are. Try to bring a smile on their face, and fall in love with that smile. This love will make you free from the cage of your judgemental mind. You will live with the soul you actually are. Just start loving the flaws. #iloveflaws Follow the above-given steps to avoid being judgemental. I am sure this will work out and help you get yourself out of the judgemental cage. And don’t forget to share your views on this topic in the comment section below. Let me know what points did I miss. And please do share if you like it.

Female Gods in the Hindu religion is a subject to be surprised about because this facility is not available in other religions. Hinduism, being the oldest religion on earth has females in the Hindu Gods list. The female names associated with the Hindu Gods names reminds me of the small fights and cute politics in a family between the wife, husband, son and daughter. This is one such Hindu god story, which is gonna brief you about the admission of the ladies in the list of Hindu gods. Please be informed that all the characters used as Hindu gods are imaginary and has no relevance to the Hindu gods background. This is just a fictional story which doesn't intend to hurt the sentiments of Indian gods and their history. So let's begin... So, the story commences in the era of the gods. Many of the youth gods were hired by the multinational religion company Hinduism, but there were no female gods in Hindu religion panel yet. Not even nepotism help these female gods in the Hindu religion. Many esteemed people still acclaim lord Ganesh for the change and the entry of female gods in Hindu religion. But we won't be discussing this in this segment. What we are here for is the making. So lord Ganesha was being sculptured by Lord Shiva's wife Parvati (Now Goddess Parvati). Everything was going fine until that dark day in the history of heaven. The mountains of Kailash, which was the residence of Lord Shiva and the also happened to be his court cum office. Shiva, who is in the commissioning panel of the planet earth, also ran a part-time business of solving conflicts in his court like Deva bahi of the film Ziddi did. After Lord Shiva has rejected the application of Lord Brahma's son of being a god and appointing him as the sole journalist of the heaven after completing his law studies, Brahma was searching for a chance to wage his words against Shiva and that was the day for Brahma. Brahma reached Shiva's court with a bunch of apsaras of heaven. Lord Shiva was in a tizzy mood and was directing the Yamraj to focus on increasing the visitors to heaven as the tourism business of the day was not going great. The people on earth had then started liking adventures and wanted to experience the thrill, so where else can these be available for free rather the hell. Anyway, coming to the point, Brahma was there to criticize Shiva for not having proper facilities for women safety. The newly appointed gods had misbehaved with the apsaras of heaven. Lord Shiva immediately called those five hundred years old young gods and burnt them, opening the laser rays fixed in his head, which was also said to be the third eye of Shiva. So the matter was wrapped up here and Brahma lost the chance of criticism. Now the story skips to a thousand years later when Parvati had already sculptured Ganesha and the tragedy of God with elephant's head was also history now. But that incident has lit the flames of feminism in the hearts of the ladies and turned their mind on thinking about female gods in Hindu religion. This flame of feminism was turned to a huge fire after the crowning ceremony of the Lord Ganesha. The competition for completing the rounds of heaven had shaken heaven when Ganesha completed the rounds of both his parents. I mean Lord Shiva and Parvati. Feminism was in full-force those days. Ladies introduced a new word to their community 'Equal rights' which had gone viral. The wives thought if their son was giving treating them equal to their fathers then why can't their husbands do the same. But they didn't know it then, that Lord Ganesha had taken this step only because he had some issues with his father and in such crucial time, when he was about to stand on his own feet, he didn't want his father to steal the credits. The ladies thought to wage for their rights. After all, there were many educated and talented people in the female community, who could help the male gods to bring a hike in their business, introducing some new departments into existence. After a lot of telepathy chats in the wives association of heaven, an in-person interview was arranged secretly. Many esteemed wives attended the meeting, which was led by Parvati. But somehow the sources leaked the news to the lords and the meeting was infiltrated. By this time some of the decisions were taken in the meeting like Parvati was going to be the supervisor, Lord Vishnu's wife Laxmi was a good CA thus she would lead the revenue department, Saraswati had an offer letter of lecturer at Oxford University so she will be dealing with the education department and so many like posts were innovated in that meeting. But, nobody had the guts to speak up before the Lords. But then came Kali, who was only there at the meeting because she had a feminine body configuration and in a bold attitude she appealed the ladies to speak for their rights. After that one line of hers, the ladies started and briefed the plan to the lords. After hearing all the arguments, Lord Shiva invited them to his court with a lawyer to represent their case. At such a crucial time Ganesha stood by the ladies and again this was not for the cause of equality because he wanted revenge from his father for cutting his head and adding an Elephant's head. The other reason was his crush. Ganesha had a crush on a young girl, who supported this cause. On the other side, wanna be lord, Naradh was assigned with a term that if he wins the case, he will be given the title of a Lord. The hearing began and the decision was to be taken in the first hearing itself, because in Deva's court, there was no space for dates, otherwise Sunny Deol would reject coming to the heaven and move to the hell, which would be a major loss for their business. Lord Shiva had started giving signs of cheating. He tried to announce the decision in favour of the Lords but at the correct moment, something happened that completely changed the scene of the court. Kali had gone crazy and was chopping the heads of the demon community as if they were carrots. Shiva thought all the earnings of the lords from the demons will be put an end, so Shiva granted the ladies to put Goddess in their names. They were officially appointed on the new posts and were now the bosses of their departments. But the demon hunt wasn't stopped yet, obviously because the heaven didn't have an IT department to fix the broken telepathy link. So Lord Shiva himself went to stop her. Kali was now silent but the fact she discovered was going to shake the entire empire of Shiva. Kali wasn't drinking the demon's blood because she was angry on Shiva rather she was doing this because she wanted to drink some red wine. Shiva corrected her and told her that she was drinking blood, red wine is kept in the ice chair of Shiva. Kali just grinned and said, "This is why I was not getting high." Shiva had taught Salman Khan not to move back ever in life, this is why he didn't move back even when people came under her car. He just moved on. Shiva had to stick to his words. He couldn't take the positions back from the ladies. Thus he allowed the change to remain and bribed Kali not to open her mouth. She was told not to reveal the fact that she wasn't angry, rather was just mistaken between red wine and red blood

Promotions…! Isn’t it something that you always look opportunities for? Of course, you do but lemme warn you that these pieces of advice are only implemented for the sloths. I mean not the bear sloth obviously. They can’t even read my blog, because they don’t have an internet connection, maybe. I don’t know if they have it or not. Fuck it… We are here to discuss lifestyle. So, how to have a better lifestyle? Good question. Isn’t it? I have to wonder why am I surrounded by people who are so much different from each other? And the best part is that all of them are growing. That’s interesting, but also makes me feel jealous because, I am not the only person growing, so I cannot be bossy around them. Ya, that’s true. So, after falling deep into the groves of my thoughts, I found out that I was growing. No, it is not funny this time. I am serious. I am growing. I mean, the people around me are lagging behind me. Wow…! Now that’s what makes me feel bossy, I mean feel proud. And, this is where I get the answer to the question, “How to have a better lifestyle?”

Anyway, what would you like to know about? The story behind this discovery (which would be very disappointing) or you wanna jump to the main point and learn how to make your lifestyle better. Yes, my friends, today we will tell you how can you be the best among all the people you know. Just stay connected with us and our sponsors… I am so sorry. Actually, I also want to be a TV anchor. So… I know you don’t mind and understand me.

So, promotion is what I was talking about. We seek promotion in everything that we do. We promote our income. We promote our car. We promote our servants. We promote our fridge, our sofa, our TV, girlfriend and whatnot. What we have never tried to promote is the way of our living, which is in general called lifestyle, which is the core need of your life. I know it sounds strange, but this is the harsh reality of most of humanity. They are sloths, not the bear one… yes… you go that right.

[image error]

So, here we go. Come let’s dive in and learn how to have a better lifestyle. Also, to have a better lifestyle it is very important to use the best quality products. I’ve got you everything that you need to have a better lifestyle. You can click on the buy link to buy those lifestyle products and also avail special discounts.

Sleep in dark rooms:
Light is the biggest enemy of the thing that retrieves your energy, sleep. And sleep is as important as having food in your life. This is one of the most important parts of your lifestyle, where people lag these days, which leads them to some severe diseases. So, to have a better lifestyle, it is very important for you to

Set before schedule alarms:
I know you are someone who needs to improve your lifestyle or you are reading this to suggest someone, then one thing I am very sure about and that is, that you’re a snoozer. You wanna wake up at 8’O clock in the morning, you set an alarm for 8’O clock, but you end up waking up at 9 or 9:30 and then in the rush of going to work, you don’t take a bath or skip your breakfast. This is not done, you lazy reader. So, I won’t ask you to change your habit, I’ll ask you to preponed this drama and set an alarm for an hour before you actually wanna wake up. This is a way, you can have a better lifestyle and also save your mates from dying due to the bad odour of your body, as you were not used to taking baths.

Drink water in the morning
: You should have a habit of drinking at least two glasses of water before you start your day. Especially, if you are habituated of having tea or coffee in the morning then this is a must-have thing to do for you. Drinking water wakes you up properly and also improves your digestion.

Never skip your breakfast
: Skipping your breakfast is a sin, that you will have to answer your body for, at work. When your body will demand work and you will have no option, but to burn your fat, you will have to answer your body, why the hell did you skip breakfast today? Also, it is suggested to do some exercise before breakfast, as this wakes up all the parts of your body, so the breakfast you have, won’t just be stored in the stomach but will be absorbed by all parts of the body, which is a very good thing.

Make your bed after you wake up
: An accomplishment in the morning can keep you inspired throughout the day. Given that, you’ve just woke up so you cannot win over Pakistan at this moment, so you can just make your bed tidy after you leave it. This is an accomplishment. If you have done it, you should feel special about yourself, coz this is something that everybody can’t do. Trust me, even I can’t and not even my girlfriend can.

Take a hot water shower
: I know, you must be thinking I am a fool. I mean who would choose cold water if they have a geyser in their bathroom. Well, if you think so, I don’t care. Hahaha…! Taking a cold-water shower opens all the nodes of the brain and improves circulation in your body, which leads to a better immune system.

Try brushing your teeth with your non-dominant hand
: You want to improve your lifestyle, right? So, you need to have an all-around development. Try to brush your teeth with your left hand, if you are a right-handed person like me, and vice-versa. This will train your brain. I have tried this technique, after which, my stupid brain acts smart more than often and pulls me out of many situations.


Try flossing
: Flossing is the bitch that hates brushing. But this bitch is amazingly beneficial for the gums and teeth. Using this bitch, can get you an upgraded standard and reduce your dentist appointments.

Make a list before shopping

:
If you are not prepared for anything it is obvious for you to make mistakes. Am I right? Of course, I am. So, it is important for you to make a shopping list before you go out to buy things. and if ignore this advice, I am very sure you are gonna pick so many items which are of no use to you but gets your money, very well used by the stores. So, please make a list, this advice is for you. Yes, you…!

Stop keeping
a
wallet in your back pocket
: Keeping the wallet in your ass, I mean near your ass, in the back pocket, not just makes your ass look weird, but also causes and wallet sciatica and sciatic neuropathy, which can lead to pain in your ass and might also be a reason for numbness in your ass and legs. So, do not keep a wallet in your back pocket, find a new place.

Don’t drink, eat your fruit
: When you do the sin, it’s not just you who pays for it, your customers are pay for it. Yes, you are a customer and you pay for the sin of the brands. All the fruit juices are packed with added sugar and preservatives, which I hope you know is not beneficial for you. So, eat your fresh fruits rather buying them.

Take the stairs:
If your house is not on the ground floor, then congratulations. Oh! Actually no, you can take a lift to go upstairs. I didn’t think about that, and it would be great if you too forget that there’s a lift in your building. Take the stairs, to stay fit and also to show off that you are health conscious and teach others how to have a better lifestyle. And don’t be jealous of me as I have a duplex and my room in on the ground floor.

Always carry water:
Carrying water for yourself won’t just make others feel that you can actually afford so many mineral water bottles, but will also help you in not letting your body to dehydrate. And you must be knowing what dehydration is. It is excessive loss of water from your body, not while peeing, but Ya, while pissing off. So, no matter how your body gets dehydrated, just have a bottle of water to keep your body hydrated. I must tell you that the water is to drink, that is what hydrating your body means if you’ve not been taking stress about how can you take a bath with a just bottle of water.

Walking over the bloodshed of the fallen leaves in the breezy noise of the non-grimy dusk, a girl enters the frame, the noisy poem errands to the poem of silence, then with a sweet shy grin looks into the eyes of mine and falls in love with me. No...! This never happens to me. Travelling in a local bus in Delhi, the beautiful girl sitting next to me holds my hands and says, “There is a very hot coffee shop like me on the next stop. Maybe we can catch up for a cup of coffee and then...” No...! This never happens to me. A beautiful girl sitting adjacent to me in an auto, the auto takes a sharp turn and the girl falls on me, her hairs are flying on my face, she feels shy, Goosebumps are on its peak, the girl assembles herself and I put her hairs behind her ear, then she melts in my arms and says, “You are so caring, I have started liking you.” NO...! This never happens to me. I write a post on the social media, I keep on checking for its number of views, for the whole day there are negligible views, I annoyingly shut my laptop and go to sleep, next morning I see myself to be a discussion on the social media. No...! This never happens to me. An officer at a government official asks for a bribe to an old man, the old man feels helpless, I feel angry, I walk into the cabin and the officer sands from his seat looking at my bold aggressive face, encouraged by the slow-motion walk, the old man folds his hands, I hold him and make him sit in the sofa, then with a mixture of expressions fives a long speech, the speech is ended and so has the corruption. No...! This never happens to me. Walking solitary on the road again, a Rolls Royce car joins the walk, I stop, the car stops parallel, a man in black steps out of the front door of the car and reveals the fact that my father is a multibillionaire and this fact was yet hidden for me. No...! This never happens to me. Travelling in a train, some goons come to my compartment, in front of me sitting is a beautiful girl, the goons start teasing her, I get furious and smash them out of the train, the girl embraces me and falls in love with me. No...! This never happens to me. I simply apply for some jobs on the internet, and I get three jobs at a time, I start a blog for fun, I get huge traffic and ads on the blog and start earning from the blog, I write a book to fulfil the thirst of my passion and the book gets published. No...! This never happens to me. Or let me think, this time it happened to me. I applied for a job and I got three job offers. I started a blog and I started earning money from it. I wrote a book and the book is now published. This time, it really happened to me. ‘This never happened to me’ is like the game ‘Never have I ever’ and according to this game you must also let us know what did happen to you and what didn’t happen to you. There is no such life which doesn’t have adventure and thrill. It might happen that these elements might have been paused for a while but its blockage is a rare thing to see. So, I am sure you are having a lot more story to tell. Come tell me your story like this and the good ones will be published in this article. So, get going and open up your stories here.

It is not easy to fall in love with someone and neither it is easy to fall out of love. But the toughest part is still left untouched, which is forgetting someone you love. “How to forget someone you love?”, this is something that I wanted to write for a long time as I had received a lot of queries related to this issue.

For me, there is no magnitude of love. This can be directional, but I believe that there is no magnitude of love. It is either yes or no. Either you love someone or you don’t, it is as simple as that.

Directional love implies that love can be negative or positive. And negative love implies love which causes harm to the one you are in love with. And positive is the one antagonist to this negative love.

Everything in this world has to come to an end and relationships are a part of it. There is a time when you quit something and move on to the next big thing waiting for you ahead in life.

Love is something that has no reason to happen, but when it comes to putting an end to it, people look for reasons. Isn’t it unfair?

The decision of breakup

There is not any right time to break up when you break up is the right time to do it.

It is your decision to break up. Sometimes this is mutual, while the other times one partner imposes their decision on you. In my opinion, if this isn’t mutual, this has to happen for sure. I am not sure if the person hurting you deserves you or not, but the person imposing such big decisions on you definitely do not deserve to be with you. So, it's better to break up with such people.

It is not that the decision of breaking up is correct all the time. There are times when you realize breaking up with the person you loved was a mistake, at these times you are free to go back to your loved one and ask them to accept you and obviously they are free to say no either. Now it's your love, that would bring that person back to you, nothing else matters. It is completely up to you that you wanna explore more, or you have found the person you should stop at.

I hope you don’t ask me who do you wanna stop at. It is your decision and you should individually deal with it.

To answer the question “How to forget someone you love?”, we need to go through three main stages after a breakup. Here we go –

Three main post-breakup stages to forget someone you love

1. Cut the ties: You need to let go of yourself from all the things that make you remind of the person, once you were with. Each time you get closer to those things, you invite the memories of the person you loved, leading to an emotional breakdown, which would resist you move ahead in your life. So, cutting out completely is important.

2. Let it all come out: if you just had a breakup, let the world know about it. Well, actually it is not you that announce before the world, they are the activities that you do. You must be angry, wanna cry, and do a lot more things. Do it. Don’t let anything stay inside you. Puke it out, puke all the emotions you want to. Do not resist.

3. Move on: Okay… So now you have done everything. Nothing is left behind now. You have cut yourself from all his memories, you have puked all your emotions for your ex, now it is the time you find the old you. Do things that you used to do as a single person. Just enjoy every moment and do what you like, without having anyone to grant consent to you.

10 easy and mind-blowing ways, how to forget someone you love? –

1. Let all your frustration go off you

I know you want to take out your frustration on someone. You want to break things and take it all out. Then why don’t you do it? Find a place where you can break things and not cause a lot of loss of property. Go break things, but also limit yourself to some time.

2. Delete all your photos together

The more you see the person on your canvass, the more you invite their memories to damage you. So, it is better to delete all your photos together and burn all the photos you have in the physical form. You better do this quickly, if you don’t wanna keep missing the person.

3. Minimal interaction with your ex

There might be a possibility that you guys have ended at good conditions and. You both have nothing bad within about each other. Yet, to move on in your life, you will have to reduce the interaction to find someone likeable. This is the harsh truth. Your ex, which happens to be your friend now, has to go out of your life, at least unless you find someone else, or delete him from your heart.

4. Rearrange your place

You have recently been through a huge change in your life. So, to erase those memories and forget someone you love, you need to rearrange your home and don’t let the things of your home remind you about your ex.

5. Feel numb for sometime

It is okay to be emotionally numb for a while after your breakup. You really don’t have to feel anything. It is just like to end up something you need a break and this numbness will be that break that you need before a fresh start. Feel numb to just the erase the emotions you don’t want to have.

6. Open yourself to new possibilities

When you open yourself to the new possibilities of the world. This is the most appropriate answer to the question “how to forget someone you love?” When you open yourself to new possibilities, you open yourself to making new memories and this way your new memories will overcome the memories of your ex. This is how you can overcome your ex.

7. Hangout with other friends

You are now single. This is the time to change the person on the other side of the table. When you were in a relationship, you don’t really go out with someone, but your partner. But now you are single. Get back with your friend and make hell lots of memories.

8. Indulge yourself in other activities

There a lot of things to do other than thinking about your ex. Just forget it and think about what you could do now. Eat a lot, if you are a foodie. Travel if you are a travel freak. Do whatever that makes you feel happy, but thinking about the one that does not deserve you.

9. Take your time

Take some time to find yourself. Take time to fly somewhere and look for something interesting. Spend some time with yourself. It is not necessary to be with someone all the time. Sometimes, the solitary you make you realize that you are a solitaire. So, just spend time with yourself and feel like your own to yourself.

10. Send a hate email

This might sound a little filmy, but this is true. Don’t write a long paragraph on WhatsApp or Facebook, email works better. It will give you an official feel, which will make sure it is over and you have puked all that you had for the person. Try it this works.

Important tip: Do not do things out of control. Please keep in mind that you and your partner are two different people now and even then, do not try to compete. You have your own life, which has no space for any kind of stupidity. Take care of yourself, not those memories, you made together.

Conclusion

Starting to date someone else is not the answer to “How to forget someone you love?”. There are many more ways you can forget someone you love. So, just look after yourself and the best shall be reaching you anytime.

Happy Breakup

Take care

Things to do in a long-distance relationship

A relationship is not just two people staying together and sharing love, rather it is two souls staying connected, no matter what distance the bodies live at. Well, this isn’t the same for most of the people, who date casually. They just date to have fun and satisfy the need of having someone to share feelings and bed with. But there are few who go beyond the needs and roll over to the wants. And these wants of two souls is named love.

Relationship, dating, and love, these are three phases that every couple might go through. But to predict a correct order is as tough as making the ocean empty. Not everyone is lucky to reach the stage of love. But if we see through a different view, the toughest things are to find all three. For a couple it is not at all important to let go things in the correct order, because there is not any, what is actually important is to find all three. Sometimes love happens, but you don’t get lucky enough to date and move into a relationship with your love, while many other times other situations also occur, where you are in a relationship you have finished dating but, there is no scope for love.

Things can go anywhere; you can do nothing with it. You might not know what you’ve got but you definitely know what you want and if it isn’t love, you are free to move back. And focus on what you want. “If you can’t stop love coming towards you, you can go away from love.’

The other day I was watching a film called ‘No strings attached’ there was an awesome dialogue, “You don’t pick who you fall in love with, and it never happens as it should.” This line is for those who think I’ve found love very early in their life. There is nothing called right time to love anyone because if there was then I don’t think the wisest minds of the world would have ever born on this planet. Or actually some deep thinking leads me to discover the fact that nothing in this world have happened like it should. Neither Newton discovered Gravity like he should have done it, nor Zuckerberg made Facebook at the time he should. Predictions work rarely, no matter if it is share market or love or the biggest gift, life. All the planning and efforts that you make to find the love of your life at the turn of your life, get drained when the flood of responsibility and other factors hit your life. This is the moment, when you realize, what was a relationship for you, was your true love. And as I said, there is no right time to for it to happen.

It is my advice for you to not let the one goes off your life. So, don’t you wait, till you realize that he was the one you’ve been waiting for. Because life and love never welcome latecomers. So, it is better to move into a long-distance relationship rather breaking up.

A long-distance relationship is the test of any relationship, which somewhere brings love to your knowledge. This is the phase when you know that whether this is that I’ve been waiting for, or it’s just another relationship.

Relationship problems are not always very expensive for the relationship all the time. But there are a few that can cause problems and might also lead to a breakup.

5 most important things to do in a long-distance relationship

1. Never communicate on text: communication is the key to build a relationship that last long. But it never takes time for communication to get converted into miscommunication. You never know what the other person interprets from your words. So, it is important to attach emotions along with the words, which is only possible when you talk rather chat. Chatting can cause misunderstanding, which might toxify your relationship. So, try to communicate on call and share the moments of love together.

2. Prioritize time for things: When you are in a long-distance relationship, the most important thing that push you away from your partner is the difference in your priorities at different times. You don’t get time together. You are always busy with something and the while you find yourself free, your partner might be doing something. It becomes very tough for both to reach each other spontaneously. So, you need to prioritize things. You need to find a window, where you both can communicate and share some quality moments of love.

3. Build a personal life: It is okay to have a personal life for yourself, where only you exist with yourself. You have your work, and colleagues, whom you connect with. You must always invest in yourself and allow the other person to evolve within themselves and be a better person for you. Don’t let them hold back any of their feelings, discuss them and find a solution. Build a personal life, where you could be a better person to deserve the other one.

4. See it as an opportunity: This is the time of the relationship where you get time to have a jumpstart to your relationship. You can use this time as an opportunity and discover more about your partner. This will help you build a better relationship and will make your partner feel happy about you and your relationship, killing the thoughts of separations from their mind.

5. Stay honest with each other: No matter how hard might the situation be, what kind of fight it might lead to, you have to be honest with your partner. Because in the end, your partner will realize that you are honest and this will be your victory weapon. So, stay honest and never break the trust of your partner, because it's easy to break but hard to build.

6. Talk dirty often: This might sound kinky and lusty but it is important to have physical intimacy to build a proper relationship. It is important to make your partner realise that you’re still interested in him/her. Talking dirty establishes a different level of comfort and allows you to unfold the covers and live your long-distance relationship like you are living together and sleeping on the same bed.

Nature, a different form of government within, always gives you what is good for you, rather what goodies you want to do. Unlike, democracy, nature never asks its people what do they want, and unlike a dictatorship, you are allowed to violate the rules of nature. This drives me to conclude that the government of nature is a different form of government within. I wish this was the form of government in the nation I live in. How amazing would it have been when, there were rules, just for my betterment, my growth and my prosperity? Rules that blossom a beautiful smile on the face of every individual. Rules that do not change with skin tone, richness, caste, religion, or any other discriminating criteria. Nature has set rules for what is good and what is bad for us rather nature, which is unlikely to encounter in the government in the nation I live in. Everything provided by nature is for its people. No matter what kind of treatment you provide nature with, it always stands by your side. The selflessness of nature is what I seek to have in the government in my country, but think that’ll always stay a dream unless my grandsons get their grandsons married. I hope that enough time for the nation to transform and be like nature. But, till then, we can try to make ourselves better and make nature feel happy about the way we live. Because, nature also punishes, and this too for the sake of your betterment. So, stay alert. If you are not able to sleep then explore the following ways to fall asleep. Don’t bid nature for your amenities The time you think of making the greatest for yourself, you are destroying your lives along with nature. You don’t have to be mad at me. Even, I want the best for me and my loved ones, but the question arises here is that on what cost? Have you ever thought, what are you bidding for the comforts of your life? Think for a while, the AC that you use, the properties that you buy, all the list of amenities that you keep expanding in your life, are they worthy for what you sacrifice in return? You must have heard about the ‘joke’ when a person buys a fish and then asks for polyethene to carry it, the salesgirl tells him that it is already inside. What does the girl talk about? Plastic? Yes…. It is the plastic that you had bought while getting buying fruits, or maybe fertilizers, with a thought to save nature. I don’t understand, you talk about the conservation of nature, the place you choose to have such a discussion is completely air-conditioned. Huh… isn’t it funny, that even while talking about conservation, you harm it? I think this is the time to bring a change because if it is not now it is going to be never. Neither Modi nor Congress, this time Nature’s government India is a vast country of around 130 million people, but I am amazed to discover the fact that everything single thing in this country is somehow related to religion. Well… honestly, I do not have any grudges about this fact, unless my job is done. Please don’t mind me, if I say ‘my job’. Yes, it is my job because I am a citizen of this nation and I have got the rights to question, I have the right to know about the whereabouts of my nation. I’ve been talking for a long time now. I know you must be feeling like I am dragging the article as I have nothing to write. I am out of thoughts. I would appreciate your thinking if you think this way. But I regret you don’t. You are still reading this, which proves you are fine with wasting your internet and your time. I would be proud of you, if you had thought this, and would have spoken up, and commented about the shit I am spreading. But you didn’t, and the same is being done to nature, by us and the government. I don’t mind if you want to clean the river ‘Ganga’, because you have holy beliefs attached to the river. But I wonder, why isn’t it being cleaned, even after we have wasted so much money on it. Who is responsible? I do not blame the government about it. It is surely us. We are the people who have made it direly with the fullest of our passion and now that, it is about cleaning it, what we do is just wait and watch for other to do scams and loot the nation. I am proud of this my nation. From ‘Mangalyaan’ to ‘Chandrayaan – 2/Vikram Lander’ we have been successful in reaching different worlds. But when it comes to keeping it clean at our place, we start finding homes on other planets. How long would it last? Won’t the government of nature ask for answers on the other planets, like it is asking now on earth? Rules of Government of Nature The government of nature has clear rules. What you do is for you? No matter what you do, it comes back to you. This is not just any other philosophical concept that I am using to attract your attention, but this is a genuine law verified by physics. I’m sure all you must have heard about the action-reaction law by Newton. I think this is something we should be inspired by and stop doing sins that we are sooner gonna pay for. In general, it is said that you take all your sins to the hell, but the rulebook in the government of nature says something different. “The sins that you have done in your life always stays in this world.” At first, you suffer, you pay for it, and after you, your generation does. This is a never-ending process, until the end of the world. So, be cautious about every step that you take. Conclusion I know you must be thinking that all the knowledge that I have flaunted in this article is reaching you through the web, which is also deteriorating nature, violating the laws of Nature’s government. But this is the least I can do. I need a laptop and an internet connection to share these thoughts that might influence the minds and we could bring a slight change. Secondly, I would like to tell you that, unlike any other environmental meeting, I haven’t written this article shaking my legs in an AC room. I wrote this in an open-air, in the garden, with the fullest of my peace of mind. And, anyway I don’t have an AC in my room. So, think before you grow your wants because your wants are going to be the reason for the death of your needs. Please do comment in the comment section below and let me know how did you like the article and what steps would you suggest to bring changes that you wanna see in nature. And, if you like my blog, please do not forget to subscribe to my blog.

Female Gods in the Hindu religion is a subject to be surprised about because this facility is not available in other religions. Hinduism, being the oldest religion on earth has females in the Hindu Gods list. The female names associated with the Hindu Gods names reminds me of the small fights and cute politics in a family between the wife, husband, son and daughter. This is one such Hindu god story, which is gonna brief you about the admission of the ladies in the list of Hindu gods. Please be informed that all the characters used as Hindu gods are imaginary and has no relevance to the Hindu gods background. This is just a fictional story which doesn't intend to hurt the sentiments of Indian gods and their history. So let's begin... So, the story commences in the era of the gods. Many of the youth gods were hired by the multinational religion company Hinduism, but there were no female gods in Hindu religion panel yet. Not even nepotism help these female gods in the Hindu religion. Many esteemed people still acclaim lord Ganesh for the change and the entry of female gods in Hindu religion. But we won't be discussing this in this segment. What we are here for is the making. So lord Ganesha was being sculptured by Lord Shiva's wife Parvati (Now Goddess Parvati). Everything was going fine until that dark day in the history of heaven. The mountains of Kailash, which was the residence of Lord Shiva and the also happened to be his court cum office. Shiva, who is in the commissioning panel of the planet earth, also ran a part-time business of solving conflicts in his court like Deva bhai of the film Ziddi did. After Lord Shiva has rejected the application of Lord Brahma's son of being a god and appointing him as the sole journalist of the heaven after completing his law studies, Brahma was searching for a chance to wage his words against Shiva and that was the day for Brahma. Brahma reached Shiva's court with a bunch of apsaras of heaven. Lord Shiva was in a tizzy mood and was directing the Yamraj to focus on increasing the visitors to heaven as the tourism business of the day was not going great. The people on earth had then started liking adventures and wanted to experience the thrill, so where else can these be available for free rather the hell. Anyway, coming to the point, Brahma was there to criticize Shiva for not having proper facilities for women safety. The newly appointed gods had misbehaved with the apsaras of heaven. Lord Shiva immediately called those five hundred years old young gods and burnt them, opening the laser rays fixed in his head, which was also said to be the third eye of Shiva. So the matter was wrapped up here and Brahma lost the chance of criticism. Now the story skips to a thousand years later when Parvati had already sculptured Ganesha and the tragedy of God with elephant's head was also history now. But that incident has lit the flames of feminism in the hearts of the ladies and turned their mind on thinking about female gods in Hindu religion. This flame of feminism was turned to a huge fire after the crowning ceremony of the Lord Ganesha. The competition for completing the rounds of heaven had shaken heaven when Ganesha completed the rounds of both his parents. I mean Lord Shiva and Parvati. Feminism was in full-force those days. Ladies introduced a new word to their community 'Equal rights' which had gone viral. The wives thought if their son was giving treating them equal to their fathers then why can't their husbands do the same. But they didn't know it then, that Lord Ganesha had taken this step only because he had some issues with his father and in such crucial time, when he was about to stand on his own feet, he didn't want his father to steal the credits. The ladies thought to wage for their rights. After all, there were many educated and talented people in the female community, who could help the male gods to bring a hike in their business, introducing some new departments into existence. After a lot of telepathy chats in the wives association of heaven, an in-person interview was arranged secretly. Many esteemed wives attended the meeting, which was led by Parvati. But somehow the sources leaked the news to the lords and the meeting was infiltrated. By this time some of the decisions were taken in the meeting like Parvati was going to be the supervisor, Lord Vishnu's wife Laxmi was a good CA thus she would lead the revenue department, Saraswati had an offer letter of lecturer at Oxford University so she will be dealing with the education department and so many like posts were innovated in that meeting. But, nobody had the guts to speak up before the Lords. But then came Kali, who was only there at the meeting because she had a feminine body configuration and in a bold attitude she appealed the ladies to speak for their rights. After that one line of hers, the ladies started and briefed the plan to the lords. After hearing all the arguments, Lord Shiva invited them to his court with a lawyer to represent their case. At such a crucial time Ganesha stood by the ladies and again this was not for the cause of equality because he wanted revenge from his father for cutting his head and adding an Elephant's head. The other reason was his crush. Ganesha had a crush on a young girl, who supported this cause. On the other side, wanna be lord, Naradh was assigned with a term that if he wins the case, he will be given the title of a Lord. The hearing began and the decision was to be taken in the first hearing itself, because in Deva's court, there was no space for dates, otherwise Sunny Deol would reject coming to the heaven and move to the hell, which would be a major loss for their business. Lord Shiva had started giving signs of cheating. He tried to announce the decision in favour of the Lords but at the correct moment, something happened that completely changed the scene of the court. Kali had gone crazy and was chopping the heads of the demon community as if they were carrots. Shiva thought all the earnings of the lords from the demons will be put an end, so Shiva granted the ladies to put Goddess in their names. They were officially appointed on the new posts and were now the bosses of their departments. But the demon hunt wasn't stopped yet, obviously because the heaven didn't have an IT department to fix the broken telepathy link. So Lord Shiva himself went to stop her. Kali was now silent but the fact she discovered was going to shake the entire empire of Shiva. Kali wasn't drinking the demon's blood because she was angry on Shiva rather she was doing this because she wanted to drink some red wine. Shiva corrected her and told her that she was drinking blood, red wine is kept in the ice chair of Shiva. Kali just grinned and said, "This is why I was not getting high." Shiva had taught Salman Khan not to move back ever in life, this is why he didn't move back even when people came under her car. He just moved on. Shiva had to stick to his words. He couldn't take the positions back from the ladies. Thus he allowed the change to remain and bribed Kali not to open her mouth. She was told not to reveal the fact that she wasn't angry, rather was just mistaken between red wine and red blood.