Zinnia Abbott's Blog

August 5, 2021

Complicated Grief

You have lost someone that you love. Maybe you are angry because they hurt you. Or you feel guilty because you hurt them. Or you wish you had been kinder to them, or paid more attention to them. Or you used to wish they...

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Published on August 05, 2021 10:28

July 20, 2021

Live in the Now, Man!

As Garth said to Wayne, "Live in the now, man!"

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Published on July 20, 2021 09:45

July 13, 2021

Knowing the Story

A toothless, homeless woman offered me flowers. A red rose and a pink alstroemeria. I could tell she was toothless, and I figured she was homeless because she was hanging out in that section of the park where homeless pe...

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Published on July 13, 2021 12:53

July 6, 2021

Horizon-in-Sight Insight

Anacapa's East Island is only one of the islands in Channel Islands National Park. It's a boat trip of about one hour. I start to get a little seasick. I remember someone once told me that focusing on the horizon would k...

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Published on July 06, 2021 14:29

June 29, 2021

SUMMER SCHOOL (learning to use a tampon)

I was taking high school senior English in the summer of 1969. I had an ambitious plan to skip my senior year of high school and go on to college. Senior English was all that stood in my way.

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Published on June 29, 2021 10:04

June 20, 2021

Father's Day

We all thought my dad was going to die when he was in the hospital a few years ago. So, that's when I wrote him this letter:

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Published on June 20, 2021 10:27

June 15, 2021

Negative People?

"I have seen way too many memes that advise me to avoid negative people." Frowning, Zane places his phone face down on the picnic table. "What is the definition of a 'negative person?'" Here he uses air quotes. "Is it s...

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Published on June 15, 2021 10:52

June 8, 2021

Sugar

"I heard a man in an AA meeting advising a newcomer, 'Be good to yourself. Eat that ice cream sundae.'" I am talking with my good friend, Zane on the phone.

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Published on June 08, 2021 07:43

June 1, 2021

The Animal Lover

I knew it was bad. I had seen the documentaries. Meat eating is bad for your health, bad for the environment, and especially bad for all those poor, factory-farmed animals who are typically treated inhumanely.

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Published on June 01, 2021 09:59

May 25, 2021

From AA to Zoom

"A gentleman in the meeting today was celebrating five months of sobriety in AA. He had never been to an in-person meeting. Only on Zoom," I say to my sponsor, Faith, as we sit out in her back yard, enjoying the spring b...

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Published on May 25, 2021 10:23