Jeffrey Rasley's Blog - Posts Tagged "memoir"
"You have to get lost before you can be found," Farewell to the Himalayas
I'm making slow but steady progress on my "last book" about the Himalayas. These are a few of the topics: "i) What does it feel like to get altitude sickness, and how can it be avoided on a Himalayan trek? j) Are Sherpas the best mountain climbers in the world; if so, why? k) What is a sadhu, why do yaks only live in the high Himalayas, and do yetis really roam the Himalayan Mountains? l) How in the hell can Nepalese porters carry such incredibly heavy loads in wicker baskets strapped to their heads, and what do they think about while they’re carrying those loads?"
Review of Hero's Journey by Rita Kohn, Nuvo
I met Jeff Rasley, who respectfully backed away to the steps. He left a bag with four books. I said, “I’ll read soonest, or then again I might stay up half the night compelled to read.” We laughed.
It was four a.m. when I limped to bed, wrung out from front to back cover of the compelled-to-read “Hero’s Journey: John Ritter, the Chip Hilton of Goshen, Indiana.” The title brought several strands of my memory into play. What was this about the long forgotten Chip Hilton, the hero of the benignly imperative’ ‘50s, ’60s, 70’s Boys Sports Series written by Clair Bee, the winning Long Island University basketball coach, and game play innovator? What possibly could be the connection with the incoming 1969 freshman IU Basketball trinity of Indiana High School All-Stars: John Ritter, George McGinnis, Steve Downing, somehow doomed by The Fates in a tumultuous turnover of coaches leading to the Bob Knight era?
The pages turned. Rasley tags this story “A Memoir.” In the wee hours of Easter Monday 2020, I was in his parable of small-town hero-worship, a mortal hoisted atop a pedestal wrought by tight-fisted hands. Rasley’s prose is infused with the deftness of his law training and the seeing-eye of a mystic. This is his memory, looking back on the unfolding ingratitude of citizens within the confines of Goshen, Indiana —the city proper with its delineated socio-economic strata of neighborhoods and its suspect outskirts, when—in the waning 20th Century— their hero stepped off their mandated pedestal and asked for human-inspired help.Rasley builds his case so readers become the jury, compelled to search within and admit, as he does, ‘I am complicit in the denial of helping when asked. I am stiff-necked in my personal and community righteous meting out of hero worship without committing to give as much as I/we took.’
Shouldering the community-conferred-upon hero-status, sports hero John Ritter walked aloof from what we determine as a normal growing up curve. Gift-endowed in athletics and scholarship, he had the adult-fixated attributes of the fictional Chip Hilton, but with an essential missing component—camaraderie with a “gang.” Coach/author Clair Bee endowed his fictional perfect protagonist with the very human quality of empathy. Chip, amazingly, had no chip on his shoulder. He got along, went along, acting out the role of absent father. Chip always found a way to win the game, bring glory and pride to his hometown. The very human John Ritter did not/could not pull that off. He won, yet he disappointed. He made adult choices in a teen-age body; it just didn’t square with being a kid. Reading into the dawn, it seemed as though John Ritter made people cheer but not smile. My heart ached for him.
The child Jeff Rasley grew up in Goshen, Indiana, in the era of the real-life John Ritter luster, abetted by worshipful reading of book after book of the fictional Chip Hilton’s heroics on and off the court or field, depending on the topic of the story. One fed upon the other in Rasley’s push to teen-hood. “Hero’s Journey” really is Rasley’s latent coming-of-age memoir. Interestingly, in his looking back, the fictional Chip is described with more dimensionality than is the real-life John. It is late in the narrative that the very human life of John Ritter unfolds within Rasley’s Homeric complexity of what truly marks ascendancy to epic hero status, and why it is ‘we the people’ who stumble through life with feet of clay, our smallish smugness withholding a helping hand because we feel betrayed.
Rasley takes us through Ritter’s post-IU basketball era, with its immediate disappointments of not getting a professional basketball bid, and ensuing decades of misfortune tied to downright bad choices, leading to a fall from hometown grace. Then Rasley turns the woeful tide to confront us with John Ritter as a rightful hero, pulling himself up from depths of doom, with no help from those who doled out ‘worship’ while withholding caring embrace. Rasley unfolds a community of people who, in looking up, failed to look within a multi-gifted child/teen/young adult to learn his human needs, to welcome him into a hug, to ask, ‘hey, kid, are you o.k.’
“As Joseph Campbell, Sigmund Freud, Carl Jung, and other scholars and sages have shown, the Hero fulfills a psychic need for individuals and a cultural need of communities,” summarizes Rasley. “Heroes are needed to push us and pull us toward our better selves and stronger communities—we need our heroes to serve as guides who point us in the right way.”
Odysseys/Ulysses found his way home, cites Rasley, as a hero who had undergone fall and ultimately rise, by dint of his strength of character. “John Ritter has made a hero’s journey,” concludes Rasley, to gain a different kind of success after decades of wanderings and tests to his inherent character, not unlike what Odysseys/Ulysses went through. “I hope the community leaders of Goshen will act with wisdom, courage, and compassion and recognize that John Ritter still has value to offer us as a local hero. And, I hope John will accept the honors that are due him. John Ritter has made a hero’s journey.”
Skimming through the other books in the bag, it’s clear they feed into Rasley’s own quest of personhood through his own journeys across continents, most fortunately afforded the embrace of people who cared to ask ‘are you o.k.’ and offer a helping hand. In due time, I’ll report on them.
It was four a.m. when I limped to bed, wrung out from front to back cover of the compelled-to-read “Hero’s Journey: John Ritter, the Chip Hilton of Goshen, Indiana.” The title brought several strands of my memory into play. What was this about the long forgotten Chip Hilton, the hero of the benignly imperative’ ‘50s, ’60s, 70’s Boys Sports Series written by Clair Bee, the winning Long Island University basketball coach, and game play innovator? What possibly could be the connection with the incoming 1969 freshman IU Basketball trinity of Indiana High School All-Stars: John Ritter, George McGinnis, Steve Downing, somehow doomed by The Fates in a tumultuous turnover of coaches leading to the Bob Knight era?
The pages turned. Rasley tags this story “A Memoir.” In the wee hours of Easter Monday 2020, I was in his parable of small-town hero-worship, a mortal hoisted atop a pedestal wrought by tight-fisted hands. Rasley’s prose is infused with the deftness of his law training and the seeing-eye of a mystic. This is his memory, looking back on the unfolding ingratitude of citizens within the confines of Goshen, Indiana —the city proper with its delineated socio-economic strata of neighborhoods and its suspect outskirts, when—in the waning 20th Century— their hero stepped off their mandated pedestal and asked for human-inspired help.Rasley builds his case so readers become the jury, compelled to search within and admit, as he does, ‘I am complicit in the denial of helping when asked. I am stiff-necked in my personal and community righteous meting out of hero worship without committing to give as much as I/we took.’
Shouldering the community-conferred-upon hero-status, sports hero John Ritter walked aloof from what we determine as a normal growing up curve. Gift-endowed in athletics and scholarship, he had the adult-fixated attributes of the fictional Chip Hilton, but with an essential missing component—camaraderie with a “gang.” Coach/author Clair Bee endowed his fictional perfect protagonist with the very human quality of empathy. Chip, amazingly, had no chip on his shoulder. He got along, went along, acting out the role of absent father. Chip always found a way to win the game, bring glory and pride to his hometown. The very human John Ritter did not/could not pull that off. He won, yet he disappointed. He made adult choices in a teen-age body; it just didn’t square with being a kid. Reading into the dawn, it seemed as though John Ritter made people cheer but not smile. My heart ached for him.
The child Jeff Rasley grew up in Goshen, Indiana, in the era of the real-life John Ritter luster, abetted by worshipful reading of book after book of the fictional Chip Hilton’s heroics on and off the court or field, depending on the topic of the story. One fed upon the other in Rasley’s push to teen-hood. “Hero’s Journey” really is Rasley’s latent coming-of-age memoir. Interestingly, in his looking back, the fictional Chip is described with more dimensionality than is the real-life John. It is late in the narrative that the very human life of John Ritter unfolds within Rasley’s Homeric complexity of what truly marks ascendancy to epic hero status, and why it is ‘we the people’ who stumble through life with feet of clay, our smallish smugness withholding a helping hand because we feel betrayed.
Rasley takes us through Ritter’s post-IU basketball era, with its immediate disappointments of not getting a professional basketball bid, and ensuing decades of misfortune tied to downright bad choices, leading to a fall from hometown grace. Then Rasley turns the woeful tide to confront us with John Ritter as a rightful hero, pulling himself up from depths of doom, with no help from those who doled out ‘worship’ while withholding caring embrace. Rasley unfolds a community of people who, in looking up, failed to look within a multi-gifted child/teen/young adult to learn his human needs, to welcome him into a hug, to ask, ‘hey, kid, are you o.k.’
“As Joseph Campbell, Sigmund Freud, Carl Jung, and other scholars and sages have shown, the Hero fulfills a psychic need for individuals and a cultural need of communities,” summarizes Rasley. “Heroes are needed to push us and pull us toward our better selves and stronger communities—we need our heroes to serve as guides who point us in the right way.”
Odysseys/Ulysses found his way home, cites Rasley, as a hero who had undergone fall and ultimately rise, by dint of his strength of character. “John Ritter has made a hero’s journey,” concludes Rasley, to gain a different kind of success after decades of wanderings and tests to his inherent character, not unlike what Odysseys/Ulysses went through. “I hope the community leaders of Goshen will act with wisdom, courage, and compassion and recognize that John Ritter still has value to offer us as a local hero. And, I hope John will accept the honors that are due him. John Ritter has made a hero’s journey.”
Skimming through the other books in the bag, it’s clear they feed into Rasley’s own quest of personhood through his own journeys across continents, most fortunately afforded the embrace of people who cared to ask ‘are you o.k.’ and offer a helping hand. In due time, I’ll report on them.
Hero's Journey now in Audio Book
Hero's Journey tells the stories of two small-town sports heroes; one never failed, the other became a homeless alcoholic before completing his hero's journey. The book (published by Midsummer Books) is now available as an audio book, as well as a paperback and eBook.
On one level the book is a detective story about John Ritter, the best basketball player from Goshen, Indiana, my hometown. He graduated from Goshen High School in 1969, but still holds all the scoring records in basketball and some in baseball. He was a star for the IU Hoosiers and captain of Bob Knight's first Final Four team in 1973. He was drafted by the Indiana Pacers and Cleveland Cavaliers, and then coached at Ole Miss. He became an executive at Eli Lilly, and then John disappeared. I set out to discover what happened to John and why. What I discovered is heart-breaking, but ultimately hopeful and uplifting.
The book is also an examination and critique of how our "heroes" are treated, when they thrill us, and mistreated, when they disappoint us.
https://www.amazon.com/Heros-Journey-...
Cheers and Happy New Year!
On one level the book is a detective story about John Ritter, the best basketball player from Goshen, Indiana, my hometown. He graduated from Goshen High School in 1969, but still holds all the scoring records in basketball and some in baseball. He was a star for the IU Hoosiers and captain of Bob Knight's first Final Four team in 1973. He was drafted by the Indiana Pacers and Cleveland Cavaliers, and then coached at Ole Miss. He became an executive at Eli Lilly, and then John disappeared. I set out to discover what happened to John and why. What I discovered is heart-breaking, but ultimately hopeful and uplifting.
The book is also an examination and critique of how our "heroes" are treated, when they thrill us, and mistreated, when they disappoint us.
https://www.amazon.com/Heros-Journey-...
Cheers and Happy New Year!
Remembering a Shared Dream from 2011
I have been a guest on over 150 radio/podcast shows and blogs over the last decade+. I usually post a link to the recorded shows and blogs on my website, and then, never go back to listen to or read them. Stuck inside on a cold, crappy day, I decided to check out the "oldest" links.
I clicked on the link for a 2010 podcast called "Your Life Matters". A "domain name for sale" has replaced the podcast site. Well, that's kind of depressing.
The next 3 oldest links were 2011 guest blogs - one on Patheos and 2 on Around the World Blog - focused to some extent on my first book, Bringing Progress to Paradise (now out of print).
But t
he 2d Around the World Blog at http://aroundtheworldblog.blogspot.co...
was interesting, because it anticipated my little ebook, Light in the Mountains, which was written as a supplement to "Bringing Progress". https://www.amazon.com/Mountains-Elec...
It tells the story of my night out on a mountain ridge with Ganesh and Buddhi Rai. They told me about their dream for bringing some "modern things", like electricity and running water, to their village. And so the Basa Village Foundation was dreamed into being.
I clicked on the link for a 2010 podcast called "Your Life Matters". A "domain name for sale" has replaced the podcast site. Well, that's kind of depressing.
The next 3 oldest links were 2011 guest blogs - one on Patheos and 2 on Around the World Blog - focused to some extent on my first book, Bringing Progress to Paradise (now out of print).
But t
he 2d Around the World Blog at http://aroundtheworldblog.blogspot.co...was interesting, because it anticipated my little ebook, Light in the Mountains, which was written as a supplement to "Bringing Progress". https://www.amazon.com/Mountains-Elec...
It tells the story of my night out on a mountain ridge with Ganesh and Buddhi Rai. They told me about their dream for bringing some "modern things", like electricity and running water, to their village. And so the Basa Village Foundation was dreamed into being.
