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Excuses…..excuses…..excuses…Falling short of silly, and wacky excuses…download the Excuse generator app.

Do you want to avoid any responsibility or not take the onus of any work…just scroll the excuse generator app on your device and get an excuse.

You want to make someone lazy …show them this app. Slowly, like a slow poisoning method continue teaching them to use the app and frame excuses to avoid some work.

You want to protect yourself from expressing true emotions or speaking the truth…this app is to your rescue.

Now, do you realize the importance of Excuses – the younger siblings of lies?

The Excuse Trap

This app is an essential asset for lazy, good for nothing and evasive people with a love to procrastinate things.

If you look in the spectrum of most successful people, you will know that they never used excuses for any purpose. According to research studies, excuses are the main reason we settle for less and it is not related to minimalism but unproductivity or limited use of skills and talent. It is not possible to have a ‘No Excuse’ approach in our life, at some point, we all have to give excuses for some reason.

However, it is very important to have fewer excuses and become more positive, persuasive, and focused on unlocking our potential. Excuses are hurdles that need to be thrown away if you want your growth momentum to progress. Read the inspirational stories of people who struggled against all odds, chaos, and stereotypes to create a legacy of champions. The only universal secret of achievement – “No Excuses.”

An app is not a human being. It is a virtually created robotic program that will continue to generate myriad excuses as and when needed. The purpose or the selling USP of the app is that it can provide you the best, unused excuses for any setup understanding the gravity of the situation. The wow factor is that the given excuses can fetch you the desired results.

But are these the results you really want to define your future? Remember, the results built on excuses are nothing but bureaucratic bottlenecks that will plague your financial, social, professional, and personal spectrums sooner or later.

WHY EXCUSES?

Though the excuse generator app is very much in demand to protect us from unwanted questions, it existed even before the invention of technology. We have this app installed in our cognitive memory and it operates consciously or subconsciously with or without our awareness. No one ever taught us the art of making excuses, but we may have ingrained it from our surroundings, and even learned to use it from our childhood to get what we want.

You want to miss your school then make an excuse that you are unwell. You didn’t do your homework and now to avoid punishment you give an excuse that your grandparent was in a serious health crisis.

No school introduced this chapter of excuses to us, it is not known from where we learned it and when it started controlling us. The way it is impossible for us to live without the internet, neither we can manage without excuses?

“Excuses so infectious that they start proliferating once allowed access.”

Excuses seem to be helpful at times, but in reality, they are built on a foundation of lies and mistrust that can never have a sustainable impact. When you realize that excuses are nothing at that moment you will prefer to boldly speak a YES or a NO.

It is important for us not to fall into the trap of excuses. Excuse builds excuses, constraining our potential and ability to perform. We jump into the pitfall of excuses to avoid responsibility or results, trimming our personal development. The first step to knock down the use of excuses is to overcome fear and the trance of negativity. We need to know that excuses can never change the outcome or results. Excuses lead us to the dead-end.

Why are excuses indispensable?

What is the secret charm that excuses hold to lure us? We need to do research about why do we give excuses and what do we achieve by speaking it? How can we block the operation of self-generating excuses from our human minds? Why do we prefer to give excuses, to whom and what are the real motives behind it? A No-excuse strategy can be a guide to create an out-innovating, and out-hustling mindset that can enhance our thinking abilities.

Even, experts agree that there is no specific time frame for breaking habits. But you need to start from somewhere. Let us discuss the ‘READ’ model to reduce the dependency on excuses.

Research
Exploring
Analysis
Direction
Research – We need the research using the WHY, WHY analysis method. Why do we need to give excuses – the pros and cons. What did we achieve by giving excuses and what could have happened if we had spoken the truth? Did we do the right thing by giving excuses? Why do we need the lame excuses?

Exploring – the outcomes generated by giving excuses and not giving excuses. The logic that forced us to give excuses. We can consider a hypothetical situation by eliminating excuses and considering the inferences.

Analysis – Once the purpose is clearly understood, we should then analyze the logical reasoning and consider the elimination of excuses in a certain setup. We should try to first start with our family members, friends and slowly graduate to a professional setup. It is important to register in our mind that Excuses are weak shields that can never protect our confidence or self-esteem. Please, understand that by giving out excuses whose growth are you fulfilling?

Direction – Let’s put our words to the task. We can think of starting one day in a week as a No-excuse day and then extending it to a week or month. No one can completely eradicate the use of excuses but we can try to keep it at a bare minimum level. Learning through the examples of successful leaders and powerful visionaries we should learn to face any situation with willpower, enthusiasm, and intelligence. Despite the significant fear of certain situations, we should take a step ahead and accept the accountability rather than making an excuse. Start blazing a trail that inspires fearlessness and truth…very few can follow you.

THE WAY AHEAD

The excuse is a lame weapon that is hazardous to the user.

Summing up all our talks and thoughts, we have agreed that excuses are the little, unseen steps that successfully take us to the path of failure or loss.

The rational use of excuses justifies only your thoughts, opinions, and mistakes. Your excuses don’t affect the listener as he is not even aware that it is a lie. Excuses breed and continue to multiple inside you, so it is not the listener but your mental health is affected. You can give excuses whenever you are blocked down by obstacles or lousiness. The only area of concern is that you are not recognizing your fall. You are drowning in the sea of excuses alone.

Remember, that successful leaders and visionaries never used excuses in their life. The only competencies known to them are –Integrity, Hard work, dedication, and a No-Excuse mindset. If you want to reach the pinnacle of success then you need to stop excuse-making.

“We need to stop manufacturing poor, weak, cheap, pitiable excuses and follow righteousness with courage.”

– Harshada Pathare
Emboss the ‘No Excuses, No Escape’ principle in your mind. Certainly, you will reap the benefits that you have sown. It can take time but it will reach you one way or another way. You may be rich in excuses but you can never use those excuses to build your bright destiny. Excuses are the mask that protects us from confessing our crime, guilt, or sad feelings. It is possible that excuses help us to avoid our acceptance and accountability but can we blindfold our inner self?

Life is a wonderful journey; each moment is worth living with joy and happiness. Then why should we waste our energy in finding excuses to blame, hurt, and fight with anyone? Let’s enrich the quality of our life and bring more excellence to our personal and professional life. The outcome will make us more responsible, positive, and energetic. Be strict and say no to excuses and escapes. I am sure, no one wants to live a life only rich in excuses. The No-Excuse mindset can be your powerful ally if you want to forge ahead with an extraordinary path of brilliance.

Please, don’t spoil your life by indulging in the illegal game of excuses.

– Harshada Pathare
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#HP TALKS - THE DIVINE LOVE OF RADHESHYAM
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#Radha Krishna love is an expression of the soul's eternal union with the Supreme God through unconditional love.
As the dark and long tresses of night pull the moon out to reach its fullness, lotuses bloom in a thousand petals to
recreate the divine arrangement of the Rasa-Leela, the dance of God.
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Nature baths and sprinkles in the juice of the melodious tune distilled by the flute of Krishna.
This great art reaches out to every cell in your body, drawing you closer to love, and closer to a mystery.
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The entire universe is bearing the weight of that mystery,
Inside the mystery is hidden the blue notes to be deciphered...
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THE LOVE SONG OF RADHAKRISHNA

Finally, walking through heat, rains and winds,
Someone has found somebody

The quest has come to an end but the heart is wandering yet,
Dark rain clouds filled the eyes and rained in form of tears of joy

Don’t just stand and stare, Oh loving Radha,

Drink the nectar brewed by the flute of your blue-colored cowboy

I took a deep breath,
and picked up my pace

to catch a shimmering star,
falling on an open field

I got stunned and wondered,
as it melted with my tears and promises
but picked up the thread of my story to share

No matter where on the earth
are you located,

The deepest impact has left
my heart disrupted,

Like an oasis in the desert
I sit in the eye of a storm,

Only to move out one fine day,
And pick up the threads of life again

Harshada Pathare

Hello Everyone,

I hope this message finds you in good health and spirits, despite the collective chaos we’re facing. This is a good time to reconnect, and I’m doing just that — writing to say that I’m thinking of you, your family, friends, and loved ones.

Amidst the COVID-19 pandemic, humanity is choosing hope over fear, unity over diversity, and love over rage . . . aware as we are that this shall pass. No virus can conquer our spirit.

When catastrophe strikes, we needn’t be consumed by anxiety — for fear, on the whole, is fruitless. Let us find comfort and inspiration to calm our pounding hearts, recognizing the sheer power of a microbe. It’s been enough to upend lives, crush the global economy, disrupt peace, and imperil our liberty. Indeed, we’re skating on very thin ice, and things will get worse before they improve, but let this remind us to count our blessings — down to every last breath.
For now, we all need to stop — to pause, to isolate, and to meditate. Let’s think of ourselves not as trapped in our homes but rather set free in our souls.
We are on a pause…

Pause is a gap, blank in the dashes, an uplifting start, undefinable by time. It is an attempt to hoard the twilight in our embrace as the day slips into the night. How surprising it is this pause that consumes a small infinity inside it; writes an emotional epic with the ink of stardust and finds its way into the vortex.

After all, moving doesn’t always take us forward. Sometimes a pause is just what we need. It’s the essence of photography, which teaches us to adopt new perspectives. Art isn’t made on the move.

We’ve been filling our lives with clutter, so let’s do some spring cleaning. Let’s eliminate the excess ‘stuff’: subscriptions, assets, and even connections that have been weighing us down. Remember: becoming lightweight is the key to flight. Throughout the process, our over-stressed bodies (and minds) will find comfort. Breaks are natural — and necessary. Even our neurological system is wired to take a pause between a stimulus and response, so as to ensure that our reaction is duly thoughtful.

Smell the rose,
See the blue sky,
Feel the sunlight,
Gaze at the twilight.

Soon enough, we’ll be back to our normal speed . . . and in an even better position than before. Returning to our workstations, planning trips with family and friends, eating popcorn in movie theaters, gaming, exploring, purchasing, selling, we’ll surely do all with fresh insight.

We didn’t choose what’s happening to us. It was unexpected and unwanted. Even so, we can decide how to react and take advantage of the situation. Let’s be kind to those around us, redefining “paradox”: a quarantine of caring, closeness, intimacy, and concord.
In this moment of mutual adversity, let us buy gift cards for those most in need. Let us resist the urge to cut the benefits of our domestic service providers, even if they can’t make it work. Please feed stray animals at risk of starvation. Call up an orphanage or retirement home and ask them how you can help. Come close, come together, like wolves that understand their strength is ever in the pack.

Before life returns to ‘normal’, let us use this time to consider our innermost goals. Let us take time to dream.
Pour a cup of coffee, sit down at your desk, and think . . . introspect. Then, do what you want, however crazy it sounds. Talk with your shadow, create something new, and reconnect with yourself.

Read, write, doodle, act, sing, dance, or yell at a wall. Call up your loved ones and talk, joke, fight — whatever. Let it all out. Learn something useful (or poignantly pointless). Innovate. Invent.
We can convert our bottled-up anxiety and determination into pure creative energy, and when this is over, we’ll each emerge a new, as from cocoons.
Together, let’s ready ourselves to thrive in glorious, global unison.
Even when the world around us descends into turmoil, our values — love, empathy, and compassion — must remain intact.

It’s always darkest before the dawn . . . so, let’s stay focused on sunrise.

"Picture in the black of night,
A firefly that spreads its light
A brand-new “us” will garner glory,
Struggle makes a sweeter story."

"It’s sobering to read their tales - empowering to recognize the ways in which their legacies were formed across the eons.
Every story shows how our communal map has slowly morphed.
To know a woman’s past and art?"


Being just hours away, Her Day, IWD 2020’s festivities are in full swing: powerful programs, drives, and articles . . . videos on feminism, liberty, and prejudice faced both in the past and present. Women from every continent and walk of life are urged to unite-to share.


“Women make half of the world’s population . . . but tread the halls of power and listen: our voices are still but a whisper.”


Will technology help? Is equal pay the solution? Are we overloading women with work and household responsibilities under the name of gender equality? What percent of women are achieving a healthy work-life balance? Are we aware of what’s going on behind the curtains? Have we created a large enough platform to support the #MeToo movement? Have we done enough . . .?


International Women’s Day is celebrated on March 8 every year. It is a day when the world comes together to appreciate the importance of womanhood in society. It’s also a time to celebrate the social, economic, and political achievements of women while putting forth a call to action, aiming for gender equality.
IWD is not an event, country, group, or organization specific. It’s a collective voice willing to make the changes and be the changes.
The story of every individual woman carries weight.


Why March 8th?
On this very day, women in Soviet Russia gained the right to vote in 1917, and March 8 was later declared a national holiday for them. The United Nations General Assembly subsequently invited member states to declare March 8 the global day for women’s rights and world peace in 1977.


IWD’s Theme for 2020
This year’s theme for International Women’s Day is I am Generation Equality: Realizing Women’s Rights. The theme is aligned with the UN’s multigenerational “Generation Equality Campaign”. The theme marks the milestones thereby achieved, such as the 25 the anniversary of the Beijing Declaration and the Platform for Action, adopted in 1995, to advance the empowerment of women and girls worldwide. In addition, 2020 marks five years of advancement towards sustainable development goals, the 20th anniversary of UN Security Council Resolution 1325, and the 10th anniversary of the UN Women’s Establishment.
With a subtitle that says it all- An equal world is an enabled world -this year’s International Women’s Day encourages everyone (including men) to create a gender-equal society.
The official hashtags for the campaign are #EachforEqual and #IWD2020.


What Do We Mean by an Equal World?
Individually, we’re responsible for our own thoughts and actions-all day, every day. We can choose to challenge stereotypes, fight bias, broaden perceptions, improve conditions, and celebrate the achievements of women . . . or not. In many ways, we must act alone, as fighting for freedom demands resolve that’s personal as the sacrifice.

Even so, IWD’s 2020 campaign theme is drawn from the notion of “Collective Individualism.” We all are parts of a system-shared and serve a greater good.

Gender equality is essential for economies and communities to thrive. A gender-equal world can be healthier, wealthier and more harmonious — what’s not great about that? The race is on for gender-equal boardrooms, gender-equal governments, gender-equal media coverage, gender-equal sports, and gender-equal everything . . . so, don’t delay. Let’s make it happen. Time is of the essence.


Be Yourself to Be Your Best
Stay true to yourself. First, you have to find your niche, your thing that makes you who you are. What will you be known for? No matter what trouble comes your way, do a search for the silver lining. Excel to overcome the trial or adversity and remain positive (but real). Along the way, do what you can to make a positive difference for women everywhere.

From my own part, I’m sharing a few insights and ideas on International Women’s Day to encourage women to be bolder, stronger, and more powerful in all spheres of life.


How Can We Motivate Women (to Build a World that They Deserve)?
It only takes one moment to inspire someone: a moving commencement speech, a slogan on a handmade protest sign, or a sound bite that reverberates through the media. When inspiration strikes, people turn to explore the topic. And that means plenty of introductions. Don’t be ill-prepared.
The ability to communicate with people of all backgrounds effectively is paramount. To inspire, we must be technical, business savvy, and heartfelt, no matter who our audience is. Speak not to speak but be understood. Be understood to inspire.


Be informed and ahead of the curve. Equality and women’s rights aren’t being discussed on an annual basis No, this is a movement-and its digital footprints are expanding across continents and generations. Digital transformation is helping people find information on how they can participate in the dialogue or the action. Movements like #MeToo and Time’s Up gave new momentum to the international conversation and pushed many to get involved.


Showcase the work and passion of women in all industries by providing a platform to celebrate their talents and spotlight latent role models for others. We believe in the transformative power of great ideas. We know that invention and innovation can come from anywhere irrespective of gender. So, let’s strive to create a tool that anyone can use to share their ideas in a way that will have a lasting and meaningful impact on the world.

Women are social, so let’s create a supportive global community in which women can connect, be inspired, and encourage each other to realize their passions. Inspire others to develop their own styles-to foster personal strengths, experiences, and insights.
Don’t let fear and doubt hold you back from speaking up. Dare to be different. Disrupt the status quo. Show others you think differently, and show them how thinking differently can change the world. Be a unicorn. Stand out. You weren’t born to fit in.


Teach those around that there is always something that makes us feel like we aren’t good enough . . . but we have to be bold, just the same. Fear and doubt aren’t reasons to remain silent. Speak of what you know, and help train a spotlight on those whose knowledge exceeds your own in other areas. We have too many people who get drowned out. As a woman in the progressive movement, I want to make sure all my sisters are heard. There are people doing incredible work in the world, and if you are fortunate enough to have a platform, you also have a responsibility to help people’s voices be amplified.


The greatest tragedy is not trying at all because we can’t admit we’re imperfect.
Provide opportunities to develop high-demand skillsets, aid career development, and support women to become industry leaders in all phases of their careers. Great thinking has no value if it remains an idea. Above all, begin right now, and never, ever give up.

People look to thought leaders for a reason: because they don’t always say what everyone else is saying. Be bold. Get behind what you’re saying, and say it with conviction. It’s okay to be controversial.

React in real-time. Saying something great is only great if people are around to hear it. In other words, don’t miss the window of opportunity. Whether it’s an event, a news headline, or a social trend, contribute while the topic is hot. Don’t expect to get the same response talking about something two weeks after it’s over.


The 2020 #EachforEqual campaign runs all year long. It doesn’t end on IWD. It starts a new each day with you. All women deserve inclusion, safety, comfort, and an equal chance. So, do your part today! With that, you’ll forge a brighter future.


Originally published at https://harshadapathare.com on March 8, 2020.

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HARSHADA PATHARE

Let 2020 is on the horizon and make let this year give you the
energy to live life without fears. Make a great reconnection with
the things you love.
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Connect with your core,
Bring out your own self,
Love yourself and the world around you,
For even the ancient texts recommend love as the true source of
healing and blossoming.
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Take out your time to talk and read my upcoming book, Love Talks.
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Throughout time, many cultures have worshiped the image and concept of a mother goddess for wealth, knowledge, the harvest, good fortune but here in Assam, there is a temple that worships a Bleeding goddess. Interested to know more, stay hooked till the end.
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Oscillating between the world of meaning and mysteries, my consciousness expands empowering me to discover a profound meaning of life and creation.

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I rediscovered myself in the infinite beauties and mysteries at Guwahati; perhaps in the Japanese language of minimalism, this is all it takes to be happy.
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There are many such mysteries happening here in our country, To know more about such mythological mysteries do subscribe to my Youtube video channel or stay connected with my website - https://harshadapathare.com
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The culture in most countries is constantly changing, since ancient times and up to nowadays.

Culture is what actually changes rather frequently, causing changes in our daily life and making everything better as well. Indian culture is also known for its diversity and prosperity, is one of the most interesting and simply breathtaking one.

Due to its oldest civilization and culture, lots of people are keen on visiting India and plunging into this amazing and brand new world. There are lots of details and aspects that have already changed throughout the time, one of their being demographics change and even a lot more. India is also known as the place with the oldest civilization and even culture in the world, so wait no longer and pay attention to the basic aspects that you should remember about the overall Indian culture.

Globalization is a taught aspect that most countries endure, but even though it is rather challenging, the culture in India remains really powerful and keeps its level up high. Even if it is incredibly diverse and interesting, Indian culture has a huge power to unite people together. Everyone interested should also know that there are over fifteen national languages recognized by the Indian constitution, as there are even spoken in much more than 1600 dialects. Mainly because culture matters, the culture of India has played a vital role in society, even though there are certain details that are diverse from one part of the country to another one. Over centuries Indian culture has influenced by lots of changes, most of these remaining incorporated in this culture and staying alive for a really long time. All the changes that appear, can either be beneficial or negative. Post-independence lead to a huge number of changes, making the entire society and culture a really different one. Many details and other aspects can cause culture exchange, since anything can change society, starting with: technology, traveling, food and even much more. Feminism is another aspect that changes the Indian culture because everything happens in our world will surely affect the culture and society of all neighborhood countries.

Indian cultural shift has already been an intriguing topic all around the world, with over thousand-year-old cultures and lots of various ancient regimes. In recent times, Indian lifestyle has seen a gigantic change and enormous lifestyle change that will change the way you see it in general. This sort of vibes lead to loose luster and even let them get a normal and contemporary way of life even in India. Just as it was a strong culture before, because of the technology becoming fast and easily portable, people of different parts of the world are already interacting together, a fact that causes cultural changes and huge changes in the society as well. Technology has made this huge world a much smaller place and makes people come closer and understand each other the way they could not do it before. The study of culture is the one that normally encompasses all possible aspects of society like knowledge, religion, language, tradition, law, music, art, work patterns, technology, products and even more. The most important factor is that culture is an extremely critical influence in our life, as it the one that decides the way you see life in general and live the way you do it.

Culture is also the one that decides what is acceptable and what is not in a certain place, becoming a decisive factor. Every single change in Indian culture will bring out changes in the education area, physical appearance, materialism and even convenient in general. Most of us obey various rules and norms because it is natural to do it, but never even thought that all of those norms were brought out by various culture outlines.

Do not let anything else stand on your way, Indian Culture is the one that is going to let you know how to properly greet people, how close to stand with each other and even how to dress when you get out of your house. All of these beliefs, laws, morals, and customs you see in a country, are influenced by all that cultural changes that show up throughout the years and even centuries. What is Indian style today is the result of lots of changes and transformations throughout years, as everything that happens here changes the entire society and even culture.

Almost anything that happens around is having an impact on the cultural changes in India and even other places all around the world.
Just like everything else around you, culture is not static and will change on account of different aspects of our daily life and even customs. Demographics change and globalization make India different, even though its culture is not similar to other ones!