Laurie Perez's Blog - Posts Tagged "inner-dialogue"
It's all very entertaining, a real turn-on
It's so sexy to feel interesting in someone's eyes. To have that moment when he or she is really listening to you, tuning in, eyes lighting up while you ramble on about this or that, it's pure seduction!
I'm *not* the first person to say this: attentive enthusiasm - I mean very simply listening while someone shares what's on their mind (even if it's just some small reflection on what they did today) wow - such excellent foreplay.
Take care *not* to
seduce your inner demons this way.
Our lives run on stories, beginning with all that smalltalk hosted by the 24/7 cocktail party of the brain. How you talk to yourself - and how you listen to and honor that chatter - it's all very entertaining, a real turn-on. Be a little more selective about which lines you buy and which stories you tell You.
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(Lovers: listen to your partners! Friend: listen to your friend! Self: listen to your soul - it knows how worthy and good-in-life You are and wants to do more with what you've got than just talk.)
I'm *not* the first person to say this: attentive enthusiasm - I mean very simply listening while someone shares what's on their mind (even if it's just some small reflection on what they did today) wow - such excellent foreplay.
Take care *not* to
seduce your inner demons this way.
Our lives run on stories, beginning with all that smalltalk hosted by the 24/7 cocktail party of the brain. How you talk to yourself - and how you listen to and honor that chatter - it's all very entertaining, a real turn-on. Be a little more selective about which lines you buy and which stories you tell You.
:
(Lovers: listen to your partners! Friend: listen to your friend! Self: listen to your soul - it knows how worthy and good-in-life You are and wants to do more with what you've got than just talk.)
