This article was originally written for, and published on, The Romance University http://romanceuniversity.org/2016/04/...  I read somewhere that 90% of all human communication is non-verbal. I am not sure I agree with the figures because I make my living using words, however I do subscribe to the idea. A lot. Sometimes it is not what we say but how we say it that is the most important.  Let me give you an example- if you invited somebody